ugh. i have this guy friend that i've known since high school. and he battles with sexual purity. but i don't even know how much he fights it. he just gives in. he's a believer but he's not really fighting the good fight if you know what i mean. he was sexually abused as a kid and now he's this young adult with all these stupid addictions.
i have given good advice about what to do. i have tried to help. but it's like talking to a brick wall. he only recently started talking dirty to me and telling me things i do NOT need to know about his sexuality and what turns him on and that i turn him on. ugh! he also is now telling me when he is getting off. and i do not know how to say to him that i will not be spoken to this way. i kind of already told him that loud and clear? and yet he is still involving me in his struggle. i don't know how to break free.
it's not my struggle, btw. he is not a temptation to me. i am merely grossed out and i don't know what to do to make it stop. his perversion is his perversion and i want nothing to do with it. and i wrote a letter to his mom telling her that he's struggling bc he still lives with his mom and she said she is aware of his struggles and she thanked me for telling her.
he has said he needs help. i have told him he needs help. but i clearly am not that help. what should i do?
i have given good advice about what to do. i have tried to help. but it's like talking to a brick wall. he only recently started talking dirty to me and telling me things i do NOT need to know about his sexuality and what turns him on and that i turn him on. ugh! he also is now telling me when he is getting off. and i do not know how to say to him that i will not be spoken to this way. i kind of already told him that loud and clear? and yet he is still involving me in his struggle. i don't know how to break free.
it's not my struggle, btw. he is not a temptation to me. i am merely grossed out and i don't know what to do to make it stop. his perversion is his perversion and i want nothing to do with it. and i wrote a letter to his mom telling her that he's struggling bc he still lives with his mom and she said she is aware of his struggles and she thanked me for telling her.
he has said he needs help. i have told him he needs help. but i clearly am not that help. what should i do?