When an Ex Comes Back "Missing You"

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May 3, 2013
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Twice I have taken back wives who wanted to come back. If they hurt you once they will do it again, especially if they are attracted to running with a poisonous crowd.


Don't Look Back... ( a great song by Boston too...)
It seems we like the same music... It's really sad that singer killed himself for being a loner. :(
 
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Standing

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#22
You are actually very strong. And you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Do you see that you have already answered your own questions yourself, and dI think that will be the Holy Spirit in you.

Look to God and you will find all your comfort in Him. You need love because you are Gods beloved child. He is the one you can trust always. No doubt about that! When theres no one in the whole wide world to trust, He will be there, just waiting for you to reach out and take His hand, because He loves you so very much. God will always love you. He sends you the Comforter, and Jesus too!
Blimey you have plenty of love right there with you, right now. You do not need to dwell in the darkness...press into God...where all the light is. He will delight in His beloved pressing in closer.

Heavenly Father, We pray in Jesus name that Your love of Your child will see her through this dark place and rush her into Your light. Bless her father. Bless her indeed. Amen. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou :)
 

Sadkitty

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Jun 11, 2015
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You are actually very strong. And you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you.

Do you see that you have already answered your own questions yourself, and dI think that will be the Holy Spirit in you.

Look to God and you will find all your comfort in Him. You need love because you are Gods beloved child. He is the one you can trust always. No doubt about that! When theres no one in the whole wide world to trust, He will be there, just waiting for you to reach out and take His hand, because He loves you so very much. God will always love you. He sends you the Comforter, and Jesus too!
Blimey you have plenty of love right there with you, right now. You do not need to dwell in the darkness...press into God...where all the light is. He will delight in His beloved pressing in closer.

Heavenly Father, We pray in Jesus name that Your love of Your child will see her through this dark place and rush her into Your light. Bless her father. Bless her indeed. Amen. Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou Thankyou :)
You have no idea how badly I needed to hear this right now. Thank you.
 

shineyourlight

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May 25, 2015
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So after not speaking to my ex for a month, I thought it was done. I thought he didn't even want to be friends with me. I mean he placed everything before me. His friends, his family when he was my first everything. Silence for a month and he messages me saying how he misses my face. I was so broken over him and I guess I still am because of the way I'm acting now. I keep thinking of all the reasons why I shouldn't respond - his anger, he is such a woman hater (how he treated me no excuse even if I let him) he was never supportive as a friend. He's not a believer. It's best just to let it all die the memories and love I have left. Where he is concerned though I am weak and I have literally no one to talk at the moment about this. Prayers please. My heart is hurting so bad.
Allowing yourself to grieve is so important in this time, Sadkitty. I am so sorry this has happened. It's extremely painful and I'm sure it can seem like you're drowning in all these different kind of emotions you're going through.

Going to God and saying, "God, I don't understand. Speak into this pain and comfort me," is completly okay. It's okay to not be okay at times. There's a Scripture that has always brought peace to me through any kind of struggle. Even when I'm confused in my own thoughts or feelings, I recite this scripture until my thoughts are fixed on Him: "You will keep in perfect peace all who trust in you, all whose thoughts are fixed on you!". Sometimes, in order to get your thoughts fixed on Jesus, you need to mentally turn whatever thoughts are going on in your head towards Jesus. Start thinking of the good things...of what He's done for you, what He does today, and what He's doing in the future. But most importantly, think about how much He is in love with you. He gives peace.

You are still important. You are still valued. And you are still loved, Sadkitty. God likes you. But, more importantly, He's in love with you.
 

BS

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I know its not easy to let go, but sounds like he didn't give you the respect and love that you deserved. In my opinion you need to forgive and let go, but that's just me.
[video=youtube;Ginx7WKq5GE]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ginx7WKq5GE[/video]
 

garet82

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I dont think it is good thing to look back for the past. Ex is past
Lol dont think to make him become ex again with the same reason why he become ex. Falling to same hole n making same mistakes means bad. So ex will be ex
 
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CarolSampaio

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When your ex comes back "missing you" RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!!! hahahahahaha

No, really... if things got to and end there is a reason... of course, echa case is a case, but usually it's not a good idea to try again... been there, done that, and, of course, got burned!!

So... we say here that who lives for the past are museums... so, look ahead and go be happy!! :)