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I was reading Genesis tonight at a Bible study, specifically the story of how Jacob was deceived into sleeping with Leah instead of Rachel...and then it looks like though the celebration was for Him and Rachel, since he slept with Leah, He is married to her...and then all throughout scripture, you have someone taking some other person of the opposite sex into thier tent...and thus they are married...
So are you married when you have sex with your wife?
Are you married when a pirest or some other official marries you?
Are you married when you give your heart to the other?
Are you married when you truly give your body to the other?
If you go through a ceremony, but do not have sex, are you already married? Legally, they said at the meeting if you never have sex with the person you had a ceremony with, the marriage can be 'anulled'--I thought that was just the Catholic term for divorce, I guess I am wrong...
When are you married?
Are people spiritually married to everyone they have ever had sex with, and thus also have had divorces with all those people if they did not work out?
Jacob's scenerio seems to suggest that the marriage happens in the tent...aka on the bed...but when, O when does it happen???
The question this leads to is "Are those who have sex before the ceremony' actually married before the ceremony? Or are they just immoral? I tend towards them being just immoral, as I think there is not covenant before the ceremony; and thus both perhaps they can still pull out even if they are having sex...but perhaps they do not...perhaps, they believe that they are married the first time they have sex???
God bless
tony
ps...i have got to be extremely careful...No, I am not saying 'go out and have sex with who you want to be married to and you will be married to them...I am just unsure of when a marriage is 'consumated'...and do believe that sex has the ability to spiritually unite lives--even when done out of lust, and pieces are torn with those that have sex with people other than their spouse...but also believe the Lord can mend these people to be fully whole again...
So are you married when you have sex with your wife?
Are you married when a pirest or some other official marries you?
Are you married when you give your heart to the other?
Are you married when you truly give your body to the other?
If you go through a ceremony, but do not have sex, are you already married? Legally, they said at the meeting if you never have sex with the person you had a ceremony with, the marriage can be 'anulled'--I thought that was just the Catholic term for divorce, I guess I am wrong...
When are you married?
Are people spiritually married to everyone they have ever had sex with, and thus also have had divorces with all those people if they did not work out?
Jacob's scenerio seems to suggest that the marriage happens in the tent...aka on the bed...but when, O when does it happen???
The question this leads to is "Are those who have sex before the ceremony' actually married before the ceremony? Or are they just immoral? I tend towards them being just immoral, as I think there is not covenant before the ceremony; and thus both perhaps they can still pull out even if they are having sex...but perhaps they do not...perhaps, they believe that they are married the first time they have sex???
God bless
tony
ps...i have got to be extremely careful...No, I am not saying 'go out and have sex with who you want to be married to and you will be married to them...I am just unsure of when a marriage is 'consumated'...and do believe that sex has the ability to spiritually unite lives--even when done out of lust, and pieces are torn with those that have sex with people other than their spouse...but also believe the Lord can mend these people to be fully whole again...