Their favorite sentence is, "You know what I mean." They say it constantly. If you ever run across someone that says, "You know what I mean" every other sentence they're intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually stunted. Watch for it on the television programs that go inside the jails and prisons like 'Lockup.' "You know what I mean, you know what I mean, you know what I mean." Somewhere the growth just stopped and has yet to restart. Only their body is aging.
They also like to remind you that they'll "die for this" (e.g. die for the gang and the criminal way of life they've chosen) and "RIP" (e.g. rest in peace) afterwards. I've tried explaining to them that there is no rest in the after life for unrepentant violent criminals and the truth is they're on a run away freight train straight to hell which is a place of cosmic punishment in spiritual dimensions where the pain transcends exponentially for eternity anything in this life.
But they think it's a party place where they can just bang for the gang with a "can't stop won't stop" attitude forever with their "homies." It would be hard to find a more deceived-by-the-devil population than your average street gang member.
Your comment is true. When they are "caught slipping" which means in standard English their enemies creep up on them and are going to either beat them badly breaking out teeth and whatnot or murder them; the vast majority become afraid of the violence and death just like most everyone else.
Here's the breakdown:
Source:
Survey Results: Gang member demographics, Race/Ethnicity
Of course, the vast majority of Hispanics and African Americans here are NOT in a gang. The problem with about three-quarters of them; however, is that they're colossally ignorant people going through life in a vacuous haze as if they were born with an IQ of 80 and often with a lot of immorality. Their children are not raised right and the cycle perpetuates.
And, they appear to be completely oblivious that they are colossally ignorant and often immoral people that fail to raise their children to the level of the people they're replacing. That would be the previous generation which grew up to be engineers, scientists, programmers/technology/IS, inventors/innovators, business men and women, lawyers/judges, doctors, etc... paying the taxes to build the nation.
Now they just party, work low paying retail jobs, and live off whatever welfare they can get off the government. If you try to explain any of this to them; they either want to inflict violence, argue with you, or call you a "racist" and blame you for "holding them down." It's disgusting.