They're just having fun brother... please don't take it seriously.
EDIT: Having fun and offering constructive, loving criticism.
EDIT: Having fun and offering constructive, loving criticism.
Hmmm...
I wonder if the roles were reversed (like I've read from a few threads in my short time here) and a woman said, "I'm looking for a handsome, sweet, and sensitive christian man to meet. I'm very faithful to god, and love him with my whole heart..." I wonder how different the responses would've been.
We wouldn't dare make light of her request for help in some of the ways some (not all) of you have done for this young man...or even for a moment would we entertain the possibility that somehow she was trying to be offensive to men simply because she happened to list her preferences in a man for her.
No, he didn't articulate it well but most teens can't...
And obviously he's an upstanding Christian boy who tries to live his life right...
So hear his heart.
In the same vein, teen girls (and even grown women) will often type on here about their problems, exaggerating them as if the world is ending several times over all around her, but we wouldn't DARE trivialize *how* she says what she says because obviously we see though to her heart; we see her need and pain.
Yet this boy becomes the object of passive-scorn based on (what I can only imagine are) assumptions of what his intentions are for future sweet girl (i.e. what you imagine him wanting to doing to her), when he gave no indication of anything other than genuine companionship for loneliness; yet having to defend his motives.
The double standard makes me sick.
DO UNTO OTHERS AND YOU WOULD HAVE THEN DO UNTO YOU...CHRISTIANS.
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