Exactly Holly!!.....and men......place a whoopie cushion on the restaurant seat before she sits down.....this is a proven ice-breaker.....also leave your wallet at home but make a big deal about paying for everything......example......take her to an expensive restaurant, say, 'Order what you like as it's on me'.....order big....then when it comes to pay, do the....'uh oh I can't find my wallet trick'......