Why does God keep some adults single?

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You prayer not answered?He didn't talk to you to this way.Why God do that for some of His followers? Take a look what Bible tell us about this topic.Some possible answers in here. Father don't send you answer because you do sin, and you refused to make His will in you life.John9;31 Now we know that God hearing not sinners;but if any man be a worshipper of God,and does His will,him He heareh.,He don't give you answer because you ask amiss.James4;3You ask,and recive not because you ask amiss,that you may consume it upon you lusts.,He don't give you answer because you don't have faith.Matthew21;22 And all thing,whatsoever you shall ask in prayer,believing,you she'll receive.,Mark9;23 Jesus said into him,If you can believe,all thing are possible to him that believeth.,You don't have answer because Father didn't find any fruit in yours life.John15;16 You have not chosen me,but I have chosen you,and ordained you,that you should go and bring forth fruit,and that you fruit should remain;that whatsoever you shall ask of the Father in my name,He may give it you.,What is the fruit?Take a read in here. Galatians5;22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love,joy,peace,longsuffering,gentleness,goodness,faith,meekness,temperance;against such there is no law.,He don't give you answer because you have proud in you life.James4;6 But He giveth more grace.Wherefore He saith,God resisteth the proud,but giveth grace unto the humble.He don't care to send answer to you because you don't ask Him about yours problems.Matthew7;7 Ask,and it shall be given you;seek and you shall find;knock,nd it shall be opened unto you.
 

Tinkerbell725

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I believe that whatever you ask God you will receive. That's why I'm trying to be careful what I wish for. Sometimes I haven't ask yet but He gives. That's how amazing God is. He knows our hearts. It is us who don't know ourselves and what we really want and that's the reason for our misery. An example for this is consciously I want to find love but subconsciously I don't want to get hurt. If my wish not to get hurt is greater because it's on a subconscious level or it's what my heart really wants, naturally my relationships will fall apart so I stay single. It's all my choice but God tried to give me my wish, I was just being stubborn.
 

Tinkerbell725

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You prayer not answered?He didn't talk to you to this way.Why God do that for some of His followers? Take a look what Bible tell us about this topic.Some possible answers in here. Father don't send you answer because you do sin, and you refused to make His will in you life.John9;31 Now we know that God hearing not sinners;but if any man be a worshipper of God,and does His will,him He heareh.,He don't give you answer because you ask amiss.James4;3You ask,and recive not because you ask amiss,that you may consume it upon you lusts.,He don't give you answer because you don't have faith.Matthew21;22 And all thing,whatsoever you shall ask in prayer,believing,you she'll receive.,Mark9;23 Jesus said into him,If you can believe,all thing are possible to him that believeth.,You don't have answer because Father didn't find any fruit in yours life.John15;16 You have not chosen me,but I have chosen you,and ordained you,that you should go and bring forth fruit,and that you fruit should remain;that whatsoever you shall ask of the Father in my name,He may give it you.,What is the fruit?Take a read in here. Galatians5;22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love,joy,peace,longsuffering,gentleness,goodness,faith,meekness,temperance;against such there is no law.,He don't give you answer because you have proud in you life.James4;6 But He giveth more grace.Wherefore He saith,God resisteth the proud,but giveth grace unto the humble.He don't care to send answer to you because you don't ask Him about yours problems.Matthew7;7 Ask,and it shall be given you;seek and you shall find;knock,nd it shall be opened unto you.
I am a sinner. A forgiven sinner that still stumbles sometimes and God answers my prayers when It is according to His will. In this broken world many are hallucinating even those who have seen the light still get lost in the dark.
 
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coby

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You prayer not answered?He didn't talk to you to this way.Why God do that for some of His followers? Take a look what Bible tell us about this topic.Some possible answers in here. Father don't send you answer because you do sin, and you refused to make His will in you life.John9;31 Now we know that God hearing not sinners;but if any man be a worshipper of God,and does His will,him He heareh.,He don't give you answer because you ask amiss.James4;3You ask,and recive not because you ask amiss,that you may consume it upon you lusts.,He don't give you answer because you don't have faith.Matthew21;22 And all thing,whatsoever you shall ask in prayer,believing,you she'll receive.,Mark9;23 Jesus said into him,If you can believe,all thing are possible to him that believeth.,You don't have answer because Father didn't find any fruit in yours life.John15;16 You have not chosen me,but I have chosen you,and ordained you,that you should go and bring forth fruit,and that you fruit should remain;that whatsoever you shall ask of the Father in my name,He may give it you.,What is the fruit?Take a read in here. Galatians5;22 But the fruit of the Spirit is love,joy,peace,longsuffering,gentleness,goodness,faith,meekness,temperance;against such there is no law.,He don't give you answer because you have proud in you life.James4;6 But He giveth more grace.Wherefore He saith,God resisteth the proud,but giveth grace unto the humble.He don't care to send answer to you because you don't ask Him about yours problems.Matthew7;7 Ask,and it shall be given you;seek and you shall find;knock,nd it shall be opened unto you.
Some possible answers yes, but if you just want to serve Him it is no sin to want a partner as long as you don't turn it into an idol. You don't imo if it is to serve Him better, you want to court, not worldly dating, no uneven yoke. He won't help you if you plan on having premarital sex. I believed God was unwilling and that it was a filthy sin for me to want to have a man. Then I heard a good preaching that it is no sin. It's good. God invented it. I wonder how many singles get help in church to find someone. It's easy to blame someone and say you don't have faith enough. Well then preach the Word because faith comes by hearing and if all that is preached is that God wants you single and always only be content in Him for years for everyone you might believe that lie or lies of the devil that noone wants you and you're not good enough.
Derek Prince is good.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dx2egUkOjxU
 
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coby

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Btw all Paul said about it was pick who you want if you can't control yourself, as long as they're in the Lord. He even said each man should have his own wife because of the fornication there, so this talk that you first have to be holy and content in Him is simply made up. Forbidding to marry is a doctrine of demons, so God won't ever forbid you to marry.