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Lighthearted

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A good healthy relationship or marriage requires several very important things.
Unconditional love IS possible...it requires forgiveness, patience, and empathy. It requires one to put
undesired actions and circumstances in the Lord's hands and choose to love in spite of our flaws. The problem is that none of us have learned to do that with everyone in every situation...but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. We grow fruit to share it in all aspects of our lives with the purpose of being more like Jesus...and that includes unconditional love...you have to put it into practice and just keep expanding it.
 

Lynx

Folksy yet erudite
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Short version: "Nice guys finish last."

This isn't entirely true...
Past experiences shift priorities in the woman who is open to God, His wisdom, and His purposes. I would say age has something to do with it as well, but that's just not true for some ladies.
I was summarizing the post preceeding that one, not stating my own opinion.