Why women like men lol....

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That's really messed up. But I think it might actually be true. :ROFL:
However, it is not at all godly nor should they do it. They are using their man as their pin cushion to poke and abuse and vent on, thinking that their man is tough and can take it, but it is a miserable life for the man. Just as it would be for them if he did it to them. It is not really a woman thing, it is a devil thing.
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men and women might want to read "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" or some book that explains how women and men do not talk the same way.
 
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Amanuensis said:
That's really messed up. But I think it might actually be true. :ROFL:
However, it is not at all godly nor should they do it. They are using their man as their pin cushion to poke and abuse and vent on, thinking that their man is tough and can take it, but it is a miserable life for the man. Just as it would be for them if he did it to them. It is not really a woman thing, it is a devil thing.
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It is not the fault of the women are the men, they just do not understand each other a lot.
 
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men and women might want to read "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus" or some book that explains how women and men do not talk the same way.
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Yes, I would if I could find the motivation, but I just can't. I would rather be alone than devote most of my waking hours to pleasing someone else. Which is what you sign up for. And that is why women don't like me. LOL :LOL:
 
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I need a women. to talk with to get in practice and get help with some feed back. Just saying, I do say dumb stuff. Like this out of place odd request. @Magenta could back that up I said some thing dumb to her. We probably any women that I comment to. If you have the time would some women go thru my post and point out the dumb stuff, it would be a big help. Name your price.
 
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Yes, I would if I could find the motivation, but I just can't. I would rather be alone than devote most of my waking hours to pleasing someone else. Which is what you sign up for. And that is why women don't like me. LOL :LOL:
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nah it is easy when you get the hang of it. Like when she is unhappy and telling you about. You can just ask "is this a just listen to you moment" some most time they just need some to listen to them with undivided attention. I am good at that part because I like to listen, and can suppress talking when I have a fix. Read my last comment to understand some more. It was supposed to be funny. :) but like you pointed out it was more just mean sounding.
 
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nah it is easy when you get the hang of it. Like when she is unhappy and telling you about. You can just ask "is this a just listen to you moment" some most time they just need some to listen to them with undivided attention. I am good at that part because I like to listen, and can suppress talking when I have a fix. Read my last comment to understand some more. It was supposed to be funny. :) but like you pointed out it was more just mean sounding.
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It is funny if one is not suffering from too much "listening and not intended to give advice" late nights without enough sleep. Which seems to be the times the neurosis kicks in. :oops:. The middle of the night episodes are the best. What a great time to "listen" to a "he said, she said episode from the previous day at her work". And you better be on her side even if she is in the wrong or you won't get any sleep tomorrow either. Meh...who needs it. :cautious:
 
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It is funny if one is not suffering from too much "listening and not intended to give advice" late nights without enough sleep. Which seems to be the times the neurosis kicks in. :oops:. The middle of the night episodes are the best. What a great time to "listen" to a "he said, she said episode from the previous day at her work". And you better be on her side even if she is in the wrong or you won't get any sleep tomorrow either. Meh...who needs it. :cautious:
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This looks like I just like seeing my text on screen. well some. I like to think that is going to help someone out? this might be my fourth post in row. Maybe I am juristic, it just might be an INFJ sort of thing.

Well ideally if she learned how to understand men and was a good person, she might ask you before venting, or be a wear that she is overloading the man. Then might check to see how you are doing. For the women reading this, the male brain gets overloaded quickly. He might look he is listening, and yet the man brain has crashed. just rest like a computer. Maybe by a gentle touch (be gentle) men are often startled in this state. Maybe a very gentle ( and again very gentle) tone and ask would you like a drink. Don't get him a drink. Most men will say no, because their man brain is rebooting. Might reboot fast, but more likely it will boot as fast as windows XP or vista. You know want I mean :) . Once your man is reboot fully you can then continue talking. You will know when he is reboot when he has that where am I look on his face. Most of that is true I think, with a few haha moments. If you do get the blue screen of death, call 911 or geek squad because you just bricked your man. All advice is at your own risk. jk
 
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This looks like I just like seeing my text on screen. well some. I like to think that is going to help someone out? this might be my fourth post in row. Maybe I am juristic, it just might be an INFJ sort of thing.

Well ideally if she learned how to understand men and was a good person, she might ask you before venting, or be a wear that she is overloading the man. Then might check to see how you are doing. For the women reading this, the male brain gets overloaded quickly. He might look he is listening, and yet the man brain has crashed. just rest like a computer. Maybe by a gentle touch (be gentle) men are often startled in this state. Maybe a very gentle ( and again very gentle) tone and ask would you like a drink. Don't get him a drink. Most men will say no, because their man brain is rebooting. Might reboot fast, but more likely it will boot as fast as windows XP or vista. You know want I mean :) . Once your man is reboot fully you can then continue talking. You will know when he is reboot when he has that where am I look on his face. Most of that is true I think, with a few haha moments. If you do get the blue screen of death, call 911 or geek squad because you just bricked your man. All advice is at your own risk. jk
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