will a christain man want me

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kshine

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I been married foe 8 yrs to the wrong man and now I wander if I missed my true husband and if
I have too much luggage for a christain man after God heart I'm not lookin r even ready to talk I don't even
Feel worth much. With all I have to come with I go to school n come home I sit n the house because I don't want to be looked at. My call was totaled so now I'm on the bus my husband didn't want me to work so I don't have much skills I feel like I should b pass this and somtimes I cry asking myself was I stupid. Now I'm starting over raising 3 kids with know real help I'm on my own totley depending on God for everything money school kids everthing this is the first time iv been alone. I ask God to strenghtn me. Its almost like when the isrealites was freethey complaind n wish to return from which they came but I can't go back to him so please pray for me and my children what every move n ur heart.
 
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dianeg

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Yes a good man will want you. Your brave, honest, and a good mom. First take it one day at a time. Second get your self over to the local community college they have programs for single moms, and loans and grants for school. Get yourself some education baby, thats your ticket out of depression. Focus on two things and two things only, getting yourself in school, it will help with the depression, help with the low self esteem, help with the anger, and the lonliness. The best guys are college guys :). Second thing to focus on is your kids, get them in therapy, if this marriage was as bad as it sounds they need to talk to somebody at least once. Oh I forgot the most important one, PRAY, read your bible, and ask God to send you some good friends to help you out a little with free baby sitting, and fun things to do. He will. Take care, I will pray for you and remember you to my church friends. Diane
 
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kshine

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I'm involved in all of the above but my chidrencan benefit from counsoling but transportaion limits my ability to get around. I'm taken it one day at a time somtimes I'm a little hard on myself but. I won't give up thank u for ur support and it would b nice to have ppl around that will help r just come over.
 
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GreenNnice

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kshine said:
I'm involved in all of the above but my chidrencan benefit from counsoling but transportaion limits my ability to get around. I'm taken it one day at a time somtimes I'm a little hard on myself but. I won't give up thank u for ur support and it would b nice to have ppl around that will help r just come over.
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By virtue of asking for help on c.c., kshining....you are well on your way to changing your life in such a way that God will reward . :) KEEP on keeping on target with prayer ALL the time with God, I admit that takes great dedication but you can do it, young lady, you can! But only IF... you call on Him.

I recommend your listening to Katinas song , 'Draw Me Close,' the Lord will draw nigh to you, kshining when you...draw nigh to Him. WE must take the first step! God will help.us WALK (greatly) from then on.

You are so NOT worthless, (not worth much , as you said in your post). , you are worth more to God than words can say, just draw yourself close to your Father in Heaven and you and your kids will be protected, guided, loved with a Love that is beyond verbal comprehension :)

God bless you, kshining, :)
 
zeroturbulence

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Brandon777 said:
Not necessarily. remember the woman at the well
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"thumbs up" for this.

Jesus said to her, “Go, call your husband, and come here.” The woman answered him, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You are right in saying, ‘I have no husband’; for you have had five husbands, and the one you now have is not your husband. What you have said is true.” - John 4:16-18
 
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GOD_IS_LOVE

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Brandon777 said:
Not necessarily. remember the woman at the well
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The woman at the well was not married to that man. This woman was. You mean to say that it is ok to marry someone and to think that person is not your "true husband/wife"?
 
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Tobby17

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GOD_IS_LOVE said:
The woman at the well was not married to that man. This woman was. You mean to say that it is ok to marry someone and to think that person is not your "true husband/wife"?
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You are very right.. How can christians advice another that her husband is not hers..

Kshine, if there is one thing i've learned lately, it's that Prayers can move Mountains. VERY BIG MOUNTAINS.. Pray about the whole thing and your husband, God will do it!
 
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kshine

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I been pray and itslooks like in every way I married the wrong man so I'm giving up on prayer for reconciliati
I am now askin God to just humble him and me.
 
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Tobby17

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kshine said:
I been pray and itslooks like in every way I married the wrong man so I'm giving up on prayer for reconciliati
I am now askin God to just humble him and me.
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Bible doesn't say we should pray until we are tired of praying, it says we should pray until our joy is full!!! :)
 
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kshine

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My joy is filled with the love of the Lord I wasn't tired of praying I just give up
He is a negative tixic person. And I don't know if he believe he got saved then stoped goin
And has turned his back altogether. He not good for me mayb for someone else . Of course
There is more to the story but for now it in Gods hands n I don't want to pick it up again.
 
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Dee2012

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No matter how bad things are, God can stil do something. He's a God of the impossibilities. Don't quit praying,its your only weapon to victory. Who decided to quit,you or him?
 
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ugoleszy4cezy

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God created marriage and he hates divorce, maybe you married without seeking Gods direction, but God does not change but he changes everything. You will have to pray until something happens; just like a woman in labor (P-U-S-H), she might be in pain for months and finally when the baby comes, it brings joy.
 
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kshine

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Dee2012 said:
No matter how bad things are, God can stil do something. He's a God of the impossibilities. Don't quit praying,its your only weapon to victory. Who decided to quit,you or him?
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to be real I think we both quite. but I put him out like I said it a lot to the story and only God can turn thing only an act of God.
 
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kshine

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ugoleszy4cezy said:
God created marriage and he hates divorce, maybe you married without seeking Gods direction, but God does not change but he changes everything. You will have to pray until something happens; just like a woman in labor (P-U-S-H), she might be in pain for months and finally when the baby comes, it brings joy.
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U right funny is when we got married I knew we should have gone to counseling but he said he know what God told him. at the alter before we married again I felt the spirit but I couldnt discern at the time and i went into the bathroom and ask myself what are you doing. and went out there and married him and I been emotionally, mentally, abused and inturn with him I became physcially abusive in my own way that what I felt I was. I was not good at words so once I had enough I would get violent with him. then things would be good. its like he wanted it. and because he was good at hiding his charater I looked crazy to the outside ppl. He was a good man cause he worked and provided financilly but he never lifted a hand to teach my kids anything now all the hardwork is done. Im left to start over, but today I realize well not just today but Im takein a moment to breath and allow God to show me the lesson in this and stay away from him unless need be for my son above all I am ok.
 
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von1

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Yes, A christian man will look at your heart. It want matter about your past. He will love you as the person you are.
 
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kshine

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Thank you. I understand now that my husband wasnt looking at my heart but my outward apperence.
 
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