Being a Mother is a Great Responsibilty, such as being a Father, neither will i mention Wife or Husband.
In your case kshine, being a Mother a Godly Mother towards your Children atm should be your nummber one Priority, Teaching your Children the ways of Rightous and Unrightousness, Moral Standards, Self Control, Jesus Christ from were all Goodness Flows, Spirituality, our Enemy and so on.
You are 31 years old, full of understanding of this World, you know the Temptations, you know your Mistakes that you have done, you know the enemy, you know Faith in Jesus Christ, and there is so much more that if you would take a piece of Paper and write down all you been through and all you know and believe about yourself, others, Jesus Christ, Biblical, situations, sins and location you would be able to write many books.
All those preciouse thoughts and expierences, all those "i knew i shoudlnt of done that" moments or "man i should of acted like this" moments...all you have to do is remind yourself, compare your past and search the Scriptures on how you should of handled these situations and yourself.
Offcourse your Children will likely to find themselfs in the same situations you were once, having a girl/boyfriend, hanging with the wrong crowed, acting to harsh or to fast, who they can trust and why, what is Sin, who can help them at any time and anywere, teach them about God and what is written. Every chance you get tell your Children a Story of your Life, were you would of liked of done things differently and why, tell them how you felt afterwards. Every chance you get, tell your Children about times you Believed Jesus Christ talked to you, or gave you Visions or were you believed he Changed you.
Satan is out there Ready to consume the Minds of your Children with TV, Internet, Brand Names, Music, Movies, Games, Sports and so much more. Let the witnesses be the Testimonies of all the Teens and Youngs adult give here in these Forums "including me", they have all sorts of Troubles in Marriege, being Single, Sins, Backsliding, dont know about Spirituality or the War that is going on, or how to fight back, Some even give a reason to believe that they are far from Jesus Christ and wonder why they are suffering so much. Prepare your Children, Equip there Minds and Hearts, teach them according to there age and understanding about, God, Jesus and Holy Spirit, about Satan and Unclean Spirits. Teach them about Salvation and Grace, Mercy and Justification. There is so much more.
Your Children will one day decide if they will continue to follow Jesus Christ or not, and if so wich Position they would like to fill, a Pastor?, Warrior? Healer? Prepare them loveling with patients in all these things.
Being a Mother is a Blessing, teaching your Children the Truth about all is neccesarry, i Believe you will find more Fullfillment working with Jesus Christ together to raise up Godly Children.
This step is hard and were to start?, i write to much lol, so i would like you to Ponder if you Decied on the Subject of Becoming a Godly Mother working With Jesus Christ or For Jesus Christ to Raise up really really Brightened Children.
The power of God is soooo great