Will God give me a spouse that will look good to me?
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Dothack, cut out this shallow stuff. Is oral sex okay? Will God give me a hot girl? Come on man.
You know what, girls who are not as physically attractive to many people, tend to cheat less, and who knows, maybe your marriage will be based on something other than sex. Like, God forbid actual common interests, and you will gasp, have actual deep conversations with your spouse. That is what I want personally. I'm tired of "hot" girls who go around acting like princesses who the entire world owes something just because they are "pretty". I need an actual intelligent woman. There I said it.
You know what, girls who are not as physically attractive to many people, tend to cheat less, and who knows, maybe your marriage will be based on something other than sex. Like, God forbid actual common interests, and you will gasp, have actual deep conversations with your spouse. That is what I want personally. I'm tired of "hot" girls who go around acting like princesses who the entire world owes something just because they are "pretty". I need an actual intelligent woman. There I said it.
Come on, have some faith my friend. God's not going to pair any of us with someone they won't find attractive. I used to think that I could never find an overweight woman attractive but it has happened already a few times. These women were not my girlfriend, just women I knew. At first I wasn't attracted to them but as I got to talking to them and stuff I found them very attractive. It sounds cliche' but its true that a person's personality can really be the defining factor in attractiveness. With that said, I have known attractive women that I lost my attraction for because of their personalities. They were either too pushy or bossy or they were just a little too psycho (scary).
I think that looks can change as you get to know someone. When you fall for someone they become more beautiful/handsome because its not the outward appearances that you see, it's their character. People are too quick to write off people based on appearance! Afterall, it is their character that is going to take you through the tough times in a relationship....how hot she is won't figure in the equation at all.
Oh and if we are trying to be more Godly in this - "Man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart" so look for the heart of people.
Oh and if we are trying to be more Godly in this - "Man looks at the outward appearance but the Lord looks at the heart" so look for the heart of people.
YOU ROCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Wish I could give a bazillion reps for this. Maybe others will help me. 
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Shaddaaap!
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Well, heres a tip. Gain some experience points in life. I know what it's like to be shy and scared around people. But that dosen't stop me from trying to make the most out of the situation. If you're looking for a beautiful woman to be with... I suggest that you start off with actually meeting people. You know, people have friends, cousins, sisters, brothers, and those people have other people and so on.
Lets say, meet this one girl, if things don't go well with her, maybe she will notice your characteristics and traits and refer you to someone else who is a lot more like you. *shrugs* That's one possibilty.
Action is needed nontheless.
(And don't take the shaddaaap part seriously. I like to kid around when I'm comfortable enough to do so.)
jk.
Well, heres a tip. Gain some experience points in life. I know what it's like to be shy and scared around people. But that dosen't stop me from trying to make the most out of the situation. If you're looking for a beautiful woman to be with... I suggest that you start off with actually meeting people. You know, people have friends, cousins, sisters, brothers, and those people have other people and so on.
Lets say, meet this one girl, if things don't go well with her, maybe she will notice your characteristics and traits and refer you to someone else who is a lot more like you. *shrugs* That's one possibilty.
Action is needed nontheless.
(And don't take the shaddaaap part seriously. I like to kid around when I'm comfortable enough to do so.)
I've known a few 'hot' girls in my life and they weren't like that at all. Two of them were models who were on covers of magazines. I will admit that they were all a bit 'air-heady' because they weren't deep thinkers, but they were very nice, polite and big-hearted people.
The ones you talk of sound like the ones you see in the movies, although I'm sure there are some hot women out there like that (who aren't rich or famous celebrities), but they're not all like that. I don't even think most of the are like that. I think beautiful women get a bad rap actually.
The ones you talk of sound like the ones you see in the movies, although I'm sure there are some hot women out there like that (who aren't rich or famous celebrities), but they're not all like that. I don't even think most of the are like that. I think beautiful women get a bad rap actually.
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