Would You Choose An "Orignal" Person... Or a Clone of That Person Who Loves You?

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Whom Would You Choose: Flawed Original or Perfected Clone?

  • I would choose the Original Person, flaws and all, no matter what.

    Votes: 3 50.0%
  • I would choose the Perfected Clone, definitely!!

    Votes: 2 33.3%
  • To be honest, I'm not really sure.

    Votes: 1 16.7%
  • Alphabet (DNA, to be exact) Soup--I have something I'd like to share in my post.

    Votes: 1 16.7%

  • Total voters
    6

seoulsearch

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Would You Choose An "Orignal" Person... Or a Clone of That Person Who Loves You?

Hey Everyone:

Let's say it was possible to make one clone of any human being at their current age. They would look exactly alike, and the clone would be "perfection", while the original person would be... the person you know.

The catch is, only ONE of the two can be allowed to continue to exist. Whom would you choose? The original as they are, or the clone who loves you?

Here's an example from a movie no one's ever heard of that I saw last weekend and got me thinking about this (I won't name the movie because it was direct-to-video and had themes I can't recommend as a Christian, to my own fault):

Craig and Tracy are a couple. Craig is totally head-over-heels in love with Tracy. She puts up a front of loving him back and has promised to go to a local college so they can stay together. However, all of this is a lie. Tracy has been seeing someone else for months, and plans to move away to another school in the fall.

Through a pretty-much unexplained twist in the movie, Craig meets Tracy's clone, who resembles her exactly in appearance but, unlike Original Tracy, loves Craig back and tells him so. (She's not perfect, however, as she is willing to kill off Original Tracy in order to take on her identity in full.) Craig has a choice between Original Tracy who cheats on and lies to him or Cloned Tracy who showers him with compliments and affection (but, remember, is also willing to off Original Tracy to take her place.) Only one can live (sorry, it was a premise of the movie.)

Craig chooses Cloned Tracy without much hesitation.

*Disclaimer--I know a million arguments could be brought up about cloning and why would only one have to exist and so forth, but for the sake of this thread, I'm asking about what you would choose, not what's scientifically possible.*

If it were you--whom would you choose? I have a friend whom I asked, "If you could choose between Original Me (with all my flaws... marks from cuts on my arms--part of the past--and everything), or Cloned Me (happy, cheerful, no depression or issues and felt things you wish I felt), whom would you choose?" He told me he would choose Original Me in a heartbeat because a clone would not be real to him. He said, "I would choose you because I want what's REAL."

He's a better person than I am. Can I be honest? If I had a choice between Original Husband who chose someone else over me, and Clone of Original Husband who loved me back, I would have chosen the clone without hesitation. Human nature, stripped away of everything, so often boils down to greed. And I can be the first to admit this.

If you could choose between the Person You Love who cheated on you, lied to you, and hurt you beyond your capacity, vs. Clone of That Person who loved you, was faithful, and shared your Christian beliefs, whom would you choose?

And I think about things such as... a parent who has a child whom they love, but this child is defiant in every way, is dependent upon drugs and alcohol, will not listen to any kind of correction... and will not change. If the parent could choose between Original Child with problems that will never go away, or Clone of Original Child Who Was Everything The Parent Could Hope For (star student, successful career, happy family life), whom would they choose?

If the choice was between your Dysfunctional Original Parent who has never shown you an ounce of understanding, kindness, or love... and Clone of Your Parent who showered you with praise, affection, and encouragement... whom would you choose?

If you could choose between your Original Abusive Boss or Version 2.0 who actually understands why you're struggling at work or trying your best, whom would you choose?

Yes, I know this is all far-fetched and seems pointless. But the reason I ask is because it got me thinking about God and how much He values us as we are and our own free will--when humanity rebelled and would not stop without Divine intervention, God did not clone perfect versions of us to serve Him instead, though at times He wanted to start over (such as, with the Flood and when Moses had to beg God not to destroy the people and start over.)

For some reason, God amazingly accepts our Original Selves, and chooses to redeem, rather than replace.

But for us mere humans... We lack to power to redeem others. However, if we were allowed to REPLACE someone... What would YOU choose?
 
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MissCris

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Human beings are annoying. Imperfect, selfish, thoughtless, irresponsible, sensitive, lazy, crude, rude, mean, heartless...

The list of flaws could go on and on and on.

The thing about all of that is...

I think that BECAUSE of whatever set of flaws each of us come with, the good we do, the love we have, the affection or kindness we show to others is far more meaningful than if we were perfect.

For instance, within my marriage- neither of us are anywhere near perfect. There are days when neither of us can reign in our tempers, or days where we just haven't got a single nice thing to say (and so we generally don't say anything, because, well, if you can't say anything nice, come and sit by me...wait...no, nevermind). Anyway, because of the rough days/patches, the good days, good times, sweet moments...they're more special to us.

So, no, I would never replace my husband with a perfect clone.

As for other people...say, my father who is a drug addict, in and out of jail, hasn't been a part of my life in 20 years...

Still, no. I'm not saying that it wouldn't be amazing to have my biological father take an interest in his children (he has 6 of us...or maybe just 4...nobody is actually 100% sure on that, but long story). It would feel wonderful to have him love me more than the drugs. I wish like anything that he wanted to be a grandfather to my children. I remember when I was little, how creative and funny and just...cool my dad was. And all of that is still there, somewhere, hidden and buried by hard years, a hard life (admittedly by his own choice), and addiction. But I wouldn't replace him, because...I love him, even if he doesn't even recognize me if I see him on the street.

I think that...while it hurts when someone we love doesn't love us back, we get more out of loving than being loved. I wouldn't replace anyone I can think of with a clone who loved me. I don't think that's what God put us here for, anyway (which I know isn't the point you were making, just sayin')- we are called to love, not be loved. The Lord loves us...far more than any human, clone or otherwise, could possibly do, and I think that's what we need to remember whenever we are hurt by a loved one who cannot/will not/does not love us back.
 

seoulsearch

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Re: Would You Choose An "Orignal" Person... Or a Clone of That Person Who Loves You?

Cris, this was a beautiful post. I admire your honesty, as well as the integrity of anyone else who is willing to choose the Original, no matter how ugly the situation may be. Perhaps I am a coward, but I will freely admit that I would most likely choose the Perfected Clones (though I do wonder if it would seem fake after some time, making me regret my choice.)

I especially loved the part in your post in which you reminded us that sometimes the benefit comes in us loving someone as they are, difficulties and all, even if they don't acknowledge or return our love.

I am just so sorry that your father has let other things weed out the amazing relationship he could be having with someone as incredible as you. <3
 
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seoulsearch

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Re: Would You Choose An &quot;Orignal&quot; Person... Or a Clone of That Person Who Loves You?

I should also add that if given a choice, I strongly urge people to chose Seoulsearch Cloned and Improved over the Original! ;)
 

PopClick

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Re: Would You Choose An &quot;Orignal&quot; Person... Or a Clone of That Person Who Loves You?

I should also add that if given a choice, I strongly urge people to chose Seoulsearch Cloned and Improved over the Original! ;)
This is what I was thinking. If the "imperfect" person would then be free of whatever they were struggling with, and their addictions/hurts/hang ups would no longer exist... wouldn't THEY want me to pick the clone? Or does it not work like that. Hmm...
 
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Jullianna

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I would pick the imperfect one. Seems like our mistakes teach us compassion. The perfect one is likely to expect perfection from me as well. Two imperfect people can grow together.

And I can't help but think about the "beautiful flaws" Liamson talked about once. :)
 
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Donkeyfish07

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So I can't choose the clone and let the original continue to exist and go about their business? :(......well that sucks :p....guess I'll keep the original
 

Nautilus

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how close would said clone be to my opinion of a perfect partner?
 
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DamionMeints

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@MisCris:
You left me speechless...
:eek:
 

seoulsearch

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Re: Would You Choose An &quot;Orignal&quot; Person... Or a Clone of That Person Who Loves You?

how close would said clone be to my opinion of a perfect partner?
*smile* If that's the question you're asking, you've already given away what your choice would be. :)
 

Nautilus

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Caught me red handed
 

seoulsearch

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Caught me red handed
Uh oh... maybe you are actually the clone!! :)
 
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Perfection is illusory. The clone may have no hang-ups now, but imperfections will develop as long as the world is imperfect.

Give me the one who has transcended pain. The one who empathizes with my hang-ups. The one who appreciates me because I grow flowers in her darkest places.
 

RickyZ

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A clone, being a copy, can never be 'better' than the original it came from. But assuming; I wouldn't want to be perfected as a clone, if I were perfected I wouldn't need Jesus to do that for me, and given the choice I'd rather be clone of His flesh than clone of mine.
 

Liamson

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Everyone is different. A clone wouldsimply remind me of the other person. And love must be made new no 2 are alike. I dont want a redo with someone who reminded me of someone I loved. I want the unexplored possibilities. With someone I dont know. Each relationship has a different direction and ideal that is created in the dynamic of 2 people.
 
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I would pick the clone one just as I would pick a car that is more reliable (if looks and performance were exactly the same), but then again living with someone who's got issues might be more ummm... fun? o_o

This must be why God made all of us imperfect, so we don't just write off all the imperfect people in search of our own perfect clone (because he/she doesn't exist).
 
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Tethered

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I would prefer the clone if they are both in current existence
I would never create a clone so that an original could die.