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No. I don't believe in matchmaking. It messes with nature. 
It's not like you can just let trees do whatever Relena7. Think about that poor bicyclist. Can you imagine what happened to that old couple on the bench?
Maybe you'll think twice next time before letting nature just take free reign.
C
Well nah.. the man was an elder..his wife that had passed was my pastor's wife's best friend and I guess I would have for some reason, been her last choice for him...because I am so young acting.. I think..
the lady that is my friend is into real estate, had lost a husband as well in the past, etc..so they had much in common and she was a friend of his when his wife was still alive..
she probably knew that for her he would be a catch.. me? I liked his laugh, his smile and his sense of fun (tho I barely knew him really)..I just had never been with a christian man, had never been cherished and was always with the wrong kinds of men in the past and truly thought ( because of his attraction to me he had told someone about) that God was putting us together..but that didn't last long.. only because once my friend (his now wife) questioned me flirting with him (ACK that freaked me out..though I had no idea it seemed like I was flirting with him, I did not want that to be the case, cause I did not want to bring him dishonor since his wife tho suffering for 3 years, had passed away a mere 7 months before) I backed off and stopped talking to him or greeting him..and almost avoided him and that was when she began going to his classes etc..
after they married some of my friends told me that while they expected him to be interested in me they weren't sure I'd go for him..
and my best friend said that she had no clue what I saw in him and she could say that now that there is no chance lol
I kind of figured it out after they had been together a couple of months (they dated about 6 months before they married)
and like I said it was best for everyone..she giggles at his constant joking..doesn't mind that he pays no attention to her while she is practicing on the platform ..(doesn't look dreamingly at her or anything like you would think newlyweds would)
but when they are near one another he is very attentive to her, kisses her forehead and such..
it's sweet they go together well..
the lady that is my friend is into real estate, had lost a husband as well in the past, etc..so they had much in common and she was a friend of his when his wife was still alive..
she probably knew that for her he would be a catch.. me? I liked his laugh, his smile and his sense of fun (tho I barely knew him really)..I just had never been with a christian man, had never been cherished and was always with the wrong kinds of men in the past and truly thought ( because of his attraction to me he had told someone about) that God was putting us together..but that didn't last long.. only because once my friend (his now wife) questioned me flirting with him (ACK that freaked me out..though I had no idea it seemed like I was flirting with him, I did not want that to be the case, cause I did not want to bring him dishonor since his wife tho suffering for 3 years, had passed away a mere 7 months before) I backed off and stopped talking to him or greeting him..and almost avoided him and that was when she began going to his classes etc..
after they married some of my friends told me that while they expected him to be interested in me they weren't sure I'd go for him..
and my best friend said that she had no clue what I saw in him and she could say that now that there is no chance
lolI kind of figured it out after they had been together a couple of months (they dated about 6 months before they married)
and like I said it was best for everyone..she giggles at his constant joking..doesn't mind that he pays no attention to her while she is practicing on the platform ..(doesn't look dreamingly at her or anything like you would think newlyweds would)
but when they are near one another he is very attentive to her, kisses her forehead and such..
it's sweet
they go together well..