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Bornfromabove

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Well if they believe in the bible and god then wouldn't that also mean no wearing mixed fiber clothes, planting different crops next to each other, or touching a football? And if they're a woman that means no teaching positions because of the possibility of men being in the class, correct?
You dont understand the spiritual meaning behind those laws. God was saying don't mix things that don't mix. He was referring to Gods people mixing with the heathens. And if you take it literally, it isn't a good idea to mix crops with one another or the mix certain fibers together either, but that's not the main point God was trying to make.
 

Nattmaran

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Yes. Because that's what the bible is. It's either all of it or none of it, Natt.
Yes to you it is...
Not to me... And several million of other Christians.

The one that dies will find out who was right and who was wrong :D
 

Nattmaran

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You dont understand the spiritual meaning behind those laws. God was saying don't mix things that don't mix. He was referring to Gods people mixing with the heathens. And if you take it literally, it isn't a good idea to mix crops with one another or the mix certain fibers together either, but that's not the main point God was trying to make.
Ah... so now it is the spiritual meaning ;)
 

Nattmaran

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If that's your argument then it's very weak.
I think it is a good argument.

Christian that claims that they live by the bible never lives by the bible... There are a lot of laws and rules that they do not follow. But some things... like homosexuality... oh that is important :p
 
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Bornfromabove

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Some people in this thread try and make "God in mans image" when it should be the other way around. They thumb through scriptures, cherry pick and believe whatever tickles their ears but disregard whatever they don't personally agree with. They make up an imaginary "Jesus" that is different from the Jesus in the bible and they worship it. They basically create an idol in their own image, give it the name "Jesus" and they think that will save them.

Mat 7:22 Many will say to me in that day, Lord, Lord, have we not prophesied in thy name? and in thy name have cast out devils? and in thy name done many wonderful works?
Mat 7:23 And then will I profess unto them, I never knew you: depart from me, ye that work iniquity.
 

lil_christian

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Yes to you it is...
Not to me... And several million of other Christians.
So basically you're saying I'm a loner on this one. Which I'm not.

The one that dies will find out who was right and who was wrong :D
Which you're assuming I'm wrong and you're right.

But God's not finished with me yet :) so I definitely will not be finding out any time soon.
 

Nattmaran

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Some people in this thread try and make "God in mans image" when it should be the other way around.
I would rather say that some people in this thread try to point out other ways to be christians.
And that includes using your brain yes... and asking questions yes...
 

Nattmaran

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So basically you're saying I'm a loner on this one. Which I'm not.
Oh no no no... there are many ways to be christian. Of course I do not think you are a loner.
Most people on this chat believes in the bible in the same way as you do. And there are many, many others. I am just pointing out that I am not alone in this. Since everyone says "you are 15 and don't have a clue".


Which you're assuming I'm wrong and you're right.
Well... I see myself as being right yes.

But God's not finished with me yet :) so I definitely will not be finding out any time soon.
And that we can be glad fore
Love
Anna
 

Nattmaran

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The path is narrow. The definition of Christian has been distorted.
And everyone claims to be right.

The only thing that you can do is to walk your path and let Jesus guide you.

I am only defending my own opinion. I am not trying to change yours since you have decided what you think... and the same for me.

I am writing for the people that are bisexual and are laded with guilt so that they know that it is okay and for many of us Christians they will be loved and accepted as they are.
 
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I am going to post this verse because I believe the whole frame of this thread is off base. From the beginning, God gave us a guide for the proper expression of the beautiful gift of human sexuality. Jesus said these words to religious leaders in his day " Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. 9I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.” The words "It was not this way from the beginning" say it all. Any expression of sexuality outside of marriage between a man & a woman is outside the bounds God set down for sexual expression. This should convict perhaps most of us these days. I have been
(Though not by my choice) a party to a divorce. By the very specific words in the new testament concerning divorce, I was free to re marry, but I had made my mind up not to... until God brought Mandi along. I do not want to lay guilt on anyone, but I will tell you that God has so much better for you. The question is not what does man say about what God has said through His word. The only thing that matters is did God give His word or not? Who are we to judge what in scripture is true and what isn't true? It is either all true (though our understanding may be limited) or none of it can be trusted. I want to let you know that whatever your situation is, God does love you as He does all of us. the key is that He gave us His word because He loves us & wants His best for us, His creation. If you are struggling with any type of sexuality expressed outside of marriage, God does give us hope. Again... He loves you, as do I, & Jesus went to the cross for you just as He did for me. If God Himself came as a man and gave His life for you, how much does He care for you? Jesus is asking you & me today,"Do you love me?" If you do... go to Him and trust Him and don't rely on your own understanding. God bless you.
 

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If that's your argument then it's very weak.
There was a typo in that my bad instead of 'they' I meant to put 'you', and not really you said yourself that you believe in ALL the bible correct? Then that would mean believing in the old testament laws too.
 
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EverythingAE

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Then that would mean believing in the old testament laws too.
The Gospel, law, and culture are all different things.

"Acts 15:6-11 NIV

The apostles and elders met to consider this question. After much discussion, Peter got up and addressed them: "Brothers, you know that some time ago God made a choice among you that the Gentiles might hear from my lips the message of the gospel and believe. God, who knows the heart, showed that he accepted them by giving the Holy Spirit to them, just as he did to us. He did not discriminate between us and them, for he purified their hearts by faith. Now then, why do you try to test God by putting on the necks of Gentiles a yoke that neither we nor our ancestors have been able to bear? No! We believe it is through the grace of our Lord Jesus that we are saved, just as they are."
 
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Unashamed2323

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alright im sorry but porn is a sin along with masturbation i not saying god wouldn't love you he will always love you and he will always forgive you even for bio sexuality Jesus told god to forgive the men who killed him for they no not what they're doing. I think you just need to follow god and read his word you'll see the real love in the long run
 
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LANCY

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Hi I'm Kayleigh, I'm 14, and I struggle with bisexuality. It started at age 12 when I had a best friend that also struggled. We kissed, and I was hooked. I am a virgin, but that's about all I am holding on to. I am seeking others who also struggle to build each other up, and become friends, guys and girls.
I can't help but give some motherly advice. You are too young to be kissing girls or boys.

As mature as you may feel you are right now, you are nowhere near the maturity it takes to deal with bisexual relationships. This is shown by the fact that you would go on a christian website where most christians would have much to say same sex relationships.

Please pray that the Lord will give you stregnth to not act on your temptations. You need to grow up and experience life before you can make sound decisions on your sexuality.
 

tribesman

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Jesus can free her... and guide her to salvation... But he will do this wheater she is gay, bi or transsexual...
Free her from what?

Are you not insisting in post#6 that it is okay with being bisexual and to be open about living that way. She just needs to be sure about her feeelings if she wants to have a relationship?

So, what is it that she needs to be "freed" from?

Do you believe that people who practice homosexuality are saved?
 
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HayleyJo98

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I think that image is hilarious... there is a picture of him when he was 'gay' and where he looks like a junkie... pale and miserable... Whereas in real life often gay guyes are the one that looks nices, have best hygiene and a sense of style:

oh... and the coolest poses!

I'm lesbian. I like girls because they know me better than ANY guy ever will. And...Romans 8:1tells me that Christ does not condemn me. He loved me first. Now I show my love for Him by living for Him because He died for me. I'm gay and proud.
 
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Bornfromabove

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I'm lesbian. I like girls because they know me better than ANY guy ever will. And...Romans 8:1tells me that Christ does not condemn me. He loved me first. Now I show my love for Him by living for Him because He died for me. I'm gay and proud.
Don't be deceived, you show your love for him by obeying his commandments.

Joh 14:15 If ye love me, keep my commandments.

Joh 14:21 He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.

Rom 1:24 Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
Rom 1:25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
Rom 1:26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature:
Rom 1:27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men working that which is unseemly, and receiving in themselves that recompence of their error which was meet.

1Co 6:9 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality,
1Co 6:10 nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.