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*shakes head* young man I am sorry this happened to you but understand you sinned and any body here that is a true Christian would tell you to turn to God and as for forgiveness.
Yes I understand she is a not a Christian but YOU ARE you should have known better not to have sex for many reasons the mane one being it tells us in the bible that sex out side of marriage is a sin.
Young man you gave up 1 thing you will NEVER get back something you will never be able to give you wife that may be to come it was not taken from you instead you gave it away to a girl that will not be your wife that only cares for the feeling good of this world and she proves that by the fact she was having sex with many other boys.
As well some people say to pay 50% for the killing of the baby no do not pay at all for that 1 no one knows who the father is shame on her for she was having sex to begin with but she had sex with many other boys it is now her problem 2 you paying for the killing of this baby would is a way be you taking part in killing it.
But what you can do is pay all the cost for the baby to be born and put up in a home for the kids that have no father and mother this would be the best thing you could do as a Christian.
I very much hope you understand what you have done 1 you are way to young to even get married little lone having sex 2 you have sinned by having sex out side of marriage and you mite have even made a baby just to have it killed by a unfaithful sex addict non Christian girl that is very very lost and will end up in hell if she does not turn to God.
P.S brother I know you think you love her and want to be with her I understand but now no you have to leave her end it completely pray for her yes but no don't even try to talk to her about God leave it and get right with God grow in your walk with him and pray when God sends you the right woman you will be ready for her and strong in the face of sin and be able to say no to sin from this story I would say don't pray for a *gf pray when you are allowed by God to have one you will be ready.
God bless brother I hope you take my advise.
Yes I understand she is a not a Christian but YOU ARE you should have known better not to have sex for many reasons the mane one being it tells us in the bible that sex out side of marriage is a sin.
Young man you gave up 1 thing you will NEVER get back something you will never be able to give you wife that may be to come it was not taken from you instead you gave it away to a girl that will not be your wife that only cares for the feeling good of this world and she proves that by the fact she was having sex with many other boys.
As well some people say to pay 50% for the killing of the baby no do not pay at all for that 1 no one knows who the father is shame on her for she was having sex to begin with but she had sex with many other boys it is now her problem 2 you paying for the killing of this baby would is a way be you taking part in killing it.
But what you can do is pay all the cost for the baby to be born and put up in a home for the kids that have no father and mother this would be the best thing you could do as a Christian.
I very much hope you understand what you have done 1 you are way to young to even get married little lone having sex 2 you have sinned by having sex out side of marriage and you mite have even made a baby just to have it killed by a unfaithful sex addict non Christian girl that is very very lost and will end up in hell if she does not turn to God.
P.S brother I know you think you love her and want to be with her I understand but now no you have to leave her end it completely pray for her yes but no don't even try to talk to her about God leave it and get right with God grow in your walk with him and pray when God sends you the right woman you will be ready for her and strong in the face of sin and be able to say no to sin from this story I would say don't pray for a *gf pray when you are allowed by God to have one you will be ready.
God bless brother I hope you take my advise.
Well - I have a different view. She's your gf and shes pregnant. I think it would be so immoral to just say - well see ya youre on your own and you don't sound like that kind of guy. I don't give a sod about paternity. You must have liked her enough to have sex with her so time to man up and do your bit to see shes Ok at the very least. I know you will do your best to encourage her to have the child but at the end of the day its her choice - all you can do is try and persuade.
please treat her gently and with love. I know its tough for you but it must be a horrible time for her. She is the one who will face the physical risks of any choice. Just be supportive - please.
please treat her gently and with love. I know its tough for you but it must be a horrible time for her. She is the one who will face the physical risks of any choice. Just be supportive - please.
T
Zoii he told me she is a non Christian aka lost she sleped with another boy aka unfaithful and just the fact she has sleeped with 2 guys wile dating 1 means she only cares about sex not the feeling of this young man and zoii just becase he had sex with here does not mean he loves her as much as you think I bet the guys that have sex with a prostitute don't love her they just want to have sex if he really loved her he would have tried to turn her to Christ and not have sex with her rather wait for the amazing night he and she marrys.
T
and Zoii it pains me to see this happen but he could have gotten a baby killed yes there is a time and place for gentleness but he need to be rebuked for this act this was wrong for many resons I have nothing aginst you Zoii and thank you for being kind and telling me this in love but he really messed up when the baby thing is all fixed he needs to be done with her.
Just because she had sex with another guy other than Levi, does NOT make her a sex addict. A sex addict literally needs sex twenty-fours a day, around the clock. And just because she's lost doesn't mean she's gonna end up in hell. No one knows what kind of miracle(s) God might work in this situation.. 
C
*shakes head* young man I am sorry this happened to you but understand you sinned and any body here that is a true Christian would tell you to turn to God and as for forgiveness.
Yes I understand she is a not a Christian but YOU ARE you should have known better not to have sex for many reasons the mane one being it tells us in the bible that sex out side of marriage is a sin.
Young man you gave up 1 thing you will NEVER get back something you will never be able to give you wife that may be to come it was not taken from you instead you gave it away to a girl that will not be your wife that only cares for the feeling good of this world and she proves that by the fact she was having sex with many other boys.
As well some people say to pay 50% for the killing of the baby no do not pay at all for that 1 no one knows who the father is shame on her for she was having sex to begin with but she had sex with many other boys it is now her problem 2 you paying for the killing of this baby would is a way be you taking part in killing it.
But what you can do is pay all the cost for the baby to be born and put up in a home for the kids that have no father and mother this would be the best thing you could do as a Christian.
I very much hope you understand what you have done 1 you are way to young to even get married little lone having sex 2 you have sinned by having sex out side of marriage and you mite have even made a baby just to have it killed by a unfaithful sex addict non Christian girl that is very very lost and will end up in hell if she does not turn to God.
P.S brother I know you think you love her and want to be with her I understand but now no you have to leave her end it completely pray for her yes but no don't even try to talk to her about God leave it and get right with God grow in your walk with him and pray when God sends you the right woman you will be ready for her and strong in the face of sin and be able to say no to sin from this story I would say don't pray for a *gf pray when you are allowed by God to have one you will be ready.
God bless brother I hope you take my advise.
Yes I understand she is a not a Christian but YOU ARE you should have known better not to have sex for many reasons the mane one being it tells us in the bible that sex out side of marriage is a sin.
Young man you gave up 1 thing you will NEVER get back something you will never be able to give you wife that may be to come it was not taken from you instead you gave it away to a girl that will not be your wife that only cares for the feeling good of this world and she proves that by the fact she was having sex with many other boys.
As well some people say to pay 50% for the killing of the baby no do not pay at all for that 1 no one knows who the father is shame on her for she was having sex to begin with but she had sex with many other boys it is now her problem 2 you paying for the killing of this baby would is a way be you taking part in killing it.
But what you can do is pay all the cost for the baby to be born and put up in a home for the kids that have no father and mother this would be the best thing you could do as a Christian.
I very much hope you understand what you have done 1 you are way to young to even get married little lone having sex 2 you have sinned by having sex out side of marriage and you mite have even made a baby just to have it killed by a unfaithful sex addict non Christian girl that is very very lost and will end up in hell if she does not turn to God.
P.S brother I know you think you love her and want to be with her I understand but now no you have to leave her end it completely pray for her yes but no don't even try to talk to her about God leave it and get right with God grow in your walk with him and pray when God sends you the right woman you will be ready for her and strong in the face of sin and be able to say no to sin from this story I would say don't pray for a *gf pray when you are allowed by God to have one you will be ready.
God bless brother I hope you take my advise.
T
Just because she had sex with another guy other than Levi, does NOT make her a sex addict. A sex addict literally needs sex twenty-fours a day, around the clock. And just because she's lost doesn't mean she's gonna end up in hell. No one knows what kind of miracle(s) God might work in this situation..
And blue every person that does not turn from there sin and turn to Christ Jesus our lord and saver will burn in hell for ever and ever I am not saying God will not do something amazing in her life but I am saying that if she continues on this path sadly but very true she will go to hell .
this is what the bible tells us.
Blue all those who don't know Christ and are loving sin are very lost and will go to hell we must be without sin before a God that has no sin he can't even look upon sin becase of how holy he is.
T
I will no longer be the nice guy I fear for the soul of people and some people think we have the time to be all nice and slowly talk to them about it NO we need to tell every person we meet how great God is and how bad we are but becsae he is so good he saved us I will preach his name to the lost and even to those who call them self a Christian but do lie.
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as long as ur not like pushing it down peoples throats its cool because being overly forcerful will not make anyone believe u but i agree there needs to be some level of preaching? i guess. im not sure if this even makes sense really or what im tryna say...
the main news tho : shes having the abortion on monday so i have until then to either persaude her to stop which seems unlikely or for a miracle to happen which i can still be hopeful for. i mean i dont deserve a miracle rn but that baby does so ima just pray for Luci (thats the name we decided on cos saying 'it' was awkward and disrespectful)
the main news tho : shes having the abortion on monday so i have until then to either persaude her to stop which seems unlikely or for a miracle to happen which i can still be hopeful for. i mean i dont deserve a miracle rn but that baby does so ima just pray for Luci (thats the name we decided on cos saying 'it' was awkward and disrespectful)
C
Wow. And I though criminals on the street were bad. Our job it not to condemn or rebuke sin. Thats God's job. What if you had sex, and needed help and came to someone who only told you how much of a bad person you were. You, TheBlackDove directly, are in no position of authority to condemn the sinner. When you graduate law school, past the BAR exam, and become a Criminal Justice Court-of-Law judge, give me a call. Until then, help, not harm.
T
really I don't care who you are ok stop bosting that you are a part of a rc senter etc I could give you many verses that back up what I am doing but you won't want it it will just make you more mad and make the worst come out of us I gave what I did and I feel I did what should have been done if you knew more of the story maybe you would support me he told me more in the chat part of the site I am leaving this thred