So Shes Pregnant...?

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Cmon guys.... re-focus how you post. Don't fire shots at each other. We are here for Levi and we are praying for the child and the mother who has to go through this as well. Lets keep our comments focussed on those things and not on trying to get the upper hand with each other. Wolfie is strong in his feelings n thats fine..so is colt n lady blue. Lets just all keep gentleness in our comments though...PLEASE
 
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TheBlackDove

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Cmon guys.... re-focus how you post. Don't fire shots at each other. We are here for Levi and we are praying for the child and the mother who has to go through this as well. Lets keep our comments focussed on those things and not on trying to get the upper hand with each other. Wolfie is strong in his feelings n thats fine..so is colt n lady blue. Lets just all keep gentleness in our comments though...PLEASE
MAN I love this girl XD but not in that way if I did my gf would prob want to kill me XD I really do think you are an amazing girl Zoii keep the peace God will bless the peace keepers
 
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Rosesrock

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as long as ur not like pushing it down peoples throats its cool because being overly forcerful will not make anyone believe u but i agree there needs to be some level of preaching? i guess. im not sure if this even makes sense really or what im tryna say...



the main news tho : shes having the abortion on monday so i have until then to either persaude her to stop which seems unlikely or for a miracle to happen which i can still be hopeful for. i mean i dont deserve a miracle rn but that baby does so ima just pray for Luci (thats the name we decided on cos saying 'it' was awkward and disrespectful)
Levi, Who does deserve a miracle?? Who deserves heaven?? For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.
God's word says pray believing and it shall be given unto you. YOU will get this miracle if you believe and have faith.
Hugs to you and Olivia, and Luci
 
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Rosesrock

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Dear Gracious Heavenly Father, I come to you today so very thankful for your word. I'm thankful that we as imperfect people can come to you and completely be covered in your love and care. Thank you Lord for you son. Thank you for salvation. Thank you for the covering of sin. I pray you forgive me for where I fail you everyday. I pray you strengthen and guide my to be a better servant for you.
Lord, I lift up to you Olivia, Levi, and Luci. Lord, this baby is named. I don't believe that's by mistake. I pray Lord for the hearts of Olivia's parents. I have no idea the spiritual condition of any of them, but Lord there are no surprises to you. You are The all sovereign God. I'm reminded that your word says In ALL things, whosoever ask in prayer, believing, ye shall receive. Dear Lord, I claim this verse. I believe you and your word. I ask to see your power and glory. I'm asking for a miracle. I ask you save Luci, give her life, give her what you intended her to have. I'm asking for Olivia to change her mind because only she can. I pray Lord protection for her. Put someone in her life that can help her change this course of action.
Bind satan from this family and this situation. I pray Lord for Levi to have a calm spirit, learn so many lessons from this, show him your love, compassion, and power.

In your name I pray Father,

Rose (Traci)
 
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Levichevett

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she stayed at my house last night cos her parents were fighting and now i realize how hard it really is to learn from all this. i dont even know if i love her or if i want to have this baby u know i just want things to go back to be simplier. I do a lot of bad things that i shouldnt be and then they lead to even bigger things and i dont know how to stop them. i get that i need to pray and ask for help and forgiveness and i keep telling myself ill stop but then when theres temptation its like Hes no there anymore and i just do stuff. the only good thing that happened last night is that when we talked she said that maybe abortion isnt the right thing or maybe it is and she asked me to forgive her for it. idk but maybe theres still hope.
 
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she stayed at my house last night cos her parents were fighting and now i realize how hard it really is to learn from all this. i dont even know if i love her or if i want to have this baby u know i just want things to go back to be simplier. I do a lot of bad things that i shouldnt be and then they lead to even bigger things and i dont know how to stop them. i get that i need to pray and ask for help and forgiveness and i keep telling myself ill stop but then when theres temptation its like Hes no there anymore and i just do stuff. the only good thing that happened last night is that when we talked she said that maybe abortion isnt the right thing or maybe it is and she asked me to forgive her for it. idk but maybe theres still hope.
Thinking of you both. Actually lots of people are. hugs
Zoii
 

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Father Please work out Your perfect will in this situation In Jesus Name Amen.
 
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TheBlackDove

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she stayed at my house last night cos her parents were fighting and now i realize how hard it really is to learn from all this. i dont even know if i love her or if i want to have this baby u know i just want things to go back to be simplier. I do a lot of bad things that i shouldnt be and then they lead to even bigger things and i dont know how to stop them. i get that i need to pray and ask for help and forgiveness and i keep telling myself ill stop but then when theres temptation its like Hes no there anymore and i just do stuff. the only good thing that happened last night is that when we talked she said that maybe abortion isnt the right thing or maybe it is and she asked me to forgive her for it. idk but maybe theres still hope.
you are very week we all are in areas you NEED to stop seeing her alone you are not strong you can't be alone with her you will fall and fall and fall due to what you have just told us so stop being around her altogether.
 
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Well tomorrow no matter what she chooses to do...shes gonna need to be loved n held n shes gonna cry a lot. Be gentle. Be caring. Try to put aside any judgements and just be a support regardless of what she chooses. You two may end up with something or go your separate ways but she will adore that u were there when it was miserable for her. And I bet in years to come if u do that...you will be proud of your kindness.
Hugs
Zoii
 
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Levichevett

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you are very week we all are in areas you NEED to stop seeing her alone you are not strong you can't be alone with her you will fall and fall and fall due to what you have just told us so stop being around her altogether.
But if she asks me for help I can't just send her away >_< but ur right I should keep some distance between us
 
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Levichevett

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Well tomorrow no matter what she chooses to do...shes gonna need to be loved n held n shes gonna cry a lot. Be gentle. Be caring. Try to put aside any judgements and just be a support regardless of what she chooses. You two may end up with something or go your separate ways but she will adore that u were there when it was miserable for her. And I bet in years to come if u do that...you will be proud of your kindness.
Hugs
Zoii
Ill try to be :3
 
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Ok so i was dating this girl a while back and it was quite sexual (ik that was not a smart thing to do at all) but now shes saying that shes pregnant. And its even more complicated because she cheated on me around that time and she has no idea who the real father is. She refuses to tell the other guy or her parents (they would freak) so they do not know anything about it. She wants to have a abortion and shes asked me to go with her this weekend to a abortion clinic to get it done. Personally, i would rather keep this child and do everything i can to be the best father to that child because i just feel thats right and ive always wanted to be a father. But she is fully set on getting a abortion. Really i just need some advice on what the hell i should be doing right now.
If you feel so strongly about it why don't you opt to raise the child yourself, if it's yours that is.
 
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Levichevett

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If you feel so strongly about it why don't you opt to raise the child yourself, if it's yours that is.
i did offer to but my parents wont support me with that and she doesnt want to have the whole 9 months and then actually giving birth thing so that seems un likely now :(
 
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TheBlackDove

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But if she asks me for help I can't just send her away >_< but ur right I should keep some distance between us
dude if she asked for help?from what I read it seems like it cased you to sin again you had sex with her again you can't control yourself you need to stay away fome her unless you have an adult with you try plz try not to be alone with her I fear you will fall again.
 
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TheBlackDove

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correct me if I am wrong but you did end up having sex you did not say but it very much seems like that's what you ment.
 

blue_ladybug

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But if she asks me for help I can't just send her away >_< but ur right I should keep some distance between us

Levi, I'm going to be a little blunt here.. She did NOT ask you for help in getting the abortion. She can't even tell you if this baby is yours, because she went and slept with other guys.. IF she asks you for help, tell her that you can't help her, but that she should talk to her parents and find a counselor or someone who CAN.. This girl is NOT your responsibility, nor is this baby your responsibility, unless it IS yours, which remains to be seen. Even if it IS yours, it's much better to put it up for adoption rather than trying to keep it. You and Olivia are in your early teens, much too young to be parents..And certainly much too young to be having sex. I'm sorry, but at 14, that's all it is: meaningless sex. Obviously she doesn't love you, because she cheated on you definitely more than once..And you say you can't stop having sex, so that tells me that this is all based on LUST, not real LOVE.. Leave this girl alone from here on out. She's trouble..As you can see, this whole thing is a mess. Nothing good will come from this except for the baby, IF Olivia doesn't have the abortion tomorrow..


If she DOES have the abortion, then she is selfish. It's not this baby's fault that it's parents made a stupid and careless mistake.. She will be looked upon as a murderer in the eyes of other people.. Tell her that, and hopefully it will shame her into canceling the abortion. Sometimes shame and embarassment work best to change a person's mind from doing something reckless. She made half of this bed, now she needs to face the end result of her actions. She's choosing the abortion simply because the baby is an inconvenience. Next time you get the wild idea of having sex, resist the urge.. Get your mind off sex, and onto GOD. Pray to him to help you with this. And for goodness sake, if you happen to have sex again, WEAR PROTECTION!!!!!!!!!! Simple as that.. If you don't want to end up having a baby, then don't have sex. That goes for ANYONE, child OR adult.. :/
 
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Levichevett

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correct me if I am wrong but you did end up having sex you did not say but it very much seems like that's what you ment.
It wasn't exactly sex it was more oral and some other stuff but I guess that doesn't really make it any better
 
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TheBlackDove

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no it does not
 

blue_ladybug

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It wasn't exactly sex it was more oral and some other stuff but I guess that doesn't really make it any better
Whether oral, anal, or whatever, it IS still considered sex. If you didn't actually have sex the usual way, then there's a good possibility this baby isn't yours, so at least you may be off the hook on that part of this mess.