A different type of sexual sin

[Mammachickadee]

There are several hundred such sexual responses categorized by therapists. The most common is probably bondage, and shoe fetishes are high on the list, but diapers is right up there with them. Since these responses do not cause harm, like pedophilia does, they are not talked about much, except by therapists and police officers who sometimes encounter related prostitution activities. The best theory is that sexual response preference develops from subconscious reaction to social experiences at age 7 or so, when the human sex drive turns back on after going dormant prior to age 12 months. If this theory is correct, you will not likely outgrow this response until you are very old (barring a miracle of course). We have discussed related matters in these threads, and the best opinion is that as long as there is no harm, and love is expressed, sex between husband and wife may take any form, even engaging in such roleplay.

So do you think Freud was correct?

 

[flight316]

I don't know man, if it really bothers you just continue to work on it. You're not as srewed up as you think you are. On the lighter side there was this guy in the band Parliment Funkadelic that wore a diaper at every show . It was cool. Anyway I am taking you serious. But I just don't see you as a menace to society. You'll be fine just keep praying. Your spirit is strong. You will overcome.

 

[eats_mice]

Yeh, i did used to think that i was really messed up. I fought with depression for several years, and still do a little bit. But recently, Jesus has shown me that I am a new creation through him (2 Cor 5:17), and that none of it really matters. He has given me confidence in being who I am and loving him how I like to.

Root cause? I've explored that thoroughly, and I've come up with no answer. I can't really pinpoint when it started, but it's as long as I can remember. I haven't gone through any abuse or anything like that. My family has been fairly healthy throughout my childhood. It doesn't really make sense to me. At any rate, I think that if I continue to say "no", the temptation will eventually flee.

 

[Jordache]

Perhaps yes. Perhaps no.

 

[kenisyes]

So do you think Freud was correct?

I have no idea. Freud's ideas have been rehashed and reintegrated so many times, it's hard to tell how much his ideas figure into this. In the years I've applied this in counslling, it seems to work very well.

 

[Gabb]

Well done, for being so brave as to talk about this issue on here. That in itself is a sing off your determination to be renewed. I've never had a fetish But at one time in the past I struggled with staying chaste, and the natural response was often dejection and discouragement. But in reality I probable wasn't close enough to God or praying regularly enough to deal with it.

I've found it is not as simple as asking for more of God's Spirit and sitting back to relax as God somehow miraculously and instantaneously nullifies everything. For me it demanded staying in a spirit of prayer, continually throughout each day. When I woke in the morning, walked into town, made dinner, went to the bathroom, and generally any minute you get alone, ask Jesus to guard your purity etc. I also meditated but as you can't meditate easily throughout the day, a short prayer from the hearth is often enough. And stay continually Thankful to God for allowing you to eliminate this from your life. One last point when you feel a temptation arising go to a place off silence i.e take a walk and spend some time asking for the grace to deliver you from this urge.

Good luck pal

 

[Dine_wit_Me]

I have no money for counseling right now... But I have a great Counselor, the Holy Spirit.

Staying away from them? That would mean not going to church, wal-mart, a gas station, or just about anywhere. I think I'll find a more practical way to handle this. I'm confident that I can overcome the temptation the next time it occurs. I have received some encouragement on this in a dream. Yes, it will be a continuing struggle, maybe all my life, but it won't control me.

Dearest Brother Eats_Mice,



True Principles of Psychology in Scriptures.



The true principles of Psychology are found in the Holy Scriptures. Man knows not his own value. He acts according to his own unconverted temperament of character because he does not look unto Jesus, the Author and Finisher of his faith. He who comes to Jesus, he who believes on Him, and makes Him his Example, realize the meaning of the words, "To them gave He power to become the sons of God".......Those who pass through the experience of true conversion will realize, with keenness of perception, their responsibility to God to work out their own salvation with fear and trembling, their responsibility to make complete their recovery from the leprosy of sin. Such an experience will lead them humbly and trustfully to place their dependence upon God.


So brother, U need no money to come to the Master...the Great Physician, Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior....He beckons u to "Come unto Me all ye that labor and r heavy laden and I will give u rest, take My yoke upon u and learn of Me for I am meek in lowly in heart and u will find rest unto your soul, for My yoke is easy and My burden ". Matthew 11:28-30

 

[Dine_wit_Me]

So do you think Freud was correct?

Freud was a Fraud.

 

[reject-tech]

Maybe if you can understand and convince yourself that even babies aren't supposed to wear diapers, they are a product of civilization, not Eden, you can change your perspective on diapers.

Or, at least, convince yourself that wearing boxers or going commando is sexier and more primal. Or something like that.

I once quit an addiction by replacing it with something healthier, bottled water, just by changing my mind.

On a humorous lighter side, I don't think wearing diapers is what Jesus meant when He said to become like little children lol

And back to serious, something that society has done to you has made you attracted to these diapers. Find out what that is and deal with it first. Even babies don't like diapers. They want to run around naked.

Diapers and clothes provide a means for affliction early in a child.
Mom says "don't poop your pants, bad boy"
And the 3 year old doesn't understand why. "I can't help it."
But then thinks he's a "bad boy" and mom is displeased with him, just because he had to go.
A demon, in the accurate sense of the word, has then entered that child, and broken part of the family trust and love bond.

 

[Anna20fAustralia]

I seem to be saying this a lot here, but................

I feel the first thing to say is not to beat yourself up too much. Just chill. But it is an issue with you so perhaps you should see a pscyhologist or counsellor.

 

[eats_mice]

To reiterate a previous post: Psychologist is not an option for me right now.

Thank you for the advice. But really, I think I need to tell someone before it goes away completely.

 

[Dazza]

How are you going with it now.

So this is really awkward, but I figure this is a good place to start.

I know I can beat this, but I feel like God has been telling me to tell other people about it.

Since I was a young kid, I have been addicted to diapers. I have wanted to wear them, and I have thought about them often. Whenever someone says the word 'diaper', my ears perk up. I had a camper once who wore pull-ups at night, and while everyone was gone, I went into his suitcase just to look at them.

A couple months ago I found some depends in my parents' bedroom, and I wore them while I was alone in the house, and at night.

I think I'm on my way to being freed from this, but I think I'll have to tell one of my friends about it. I don't know if I could do that, cuz they'll think I'm some weird-o pedophile, or something. Sometimes I wish I was addicted to porn instead, cuz at least that's easier to talk about.

It's getting in the way of my friendship with Jesus, and I'm tired of it.

Thanks for listening.