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Levichevett

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u shouldnt punish someone for their cheating. ive cheated on someone once and he pushed me through a glass door and turned all my friends agianst me and 3 years later hes getting bullied and now msging me saying he forgives me, is asking me to forgive him, and wanting me to help him. moral of the story: someone does something real bad to u, forgive them, u can walk away from them but dont leave this resentment and hatred there. u shouldnt be having to ask them for forgiveness for ur reaction to it in the future. just go ur separate ways and try put some goodness and love in the world.
 
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Bate

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Just keep your head up and smile again! :)
 
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TheBlackDove

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Levichevett said:
u shouldnt punish someone for their cheating. ive cheated on someone once and he pushed me through a glass door and turned all my friends agianst me and 3 years later hes getting bullied and now msging me saying he forgives me, is asking me to forgive him, and wanting me to help him. moral of the story: someone does something real bad to u, forgive them, u can walk away from them but dont leave this resentment and hatred there. u shouldnt be having to ask them for forgiveness for ur reaction to it in the future. just go ur separate ways and try put some goodness and love in the world.
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Amen little buddy XD

very true speak in love but at the same time rebuke.
 
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agirlandherguitar

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AniAni said:
Thanks Jeff. Actually what happened is i was in a relationship by three months. For the first two weeks he loved me a lot. then after that i was got to know his real face. many times i told him to breakup, but he never let me. He has blackmailed like if u gone i will send our photos to ur family and inform to your family. So without any options i married him. After married only i got to know he has lied me a lot to get marry. Like he doesn't have parents, he has business, etc. all are lies. he has parents, doesn't have any business or any single property.
now i left him and living alone. I wish to spoil his life. Because he spoiled my life, my career, my savings etc. I have to buildup my life from zero. Because of his presence in my life im nothing now.
I was very pet child to my parents. because of this incident im very shameful to face anyone in this world.
I know he is kind of psycho person. without my influence himself will destroy his life. But im worrying much why my life beacme like this.
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This story scares me! I'm so sorry that this happened to you. Deep down you do know you can't repay evil with evil (Check 1 Peter 3:9 - read the whole chapter it's gold), no matter how badly you were treated by this person. Leaving him was the right choice, even if you don't feel that things are better now. And speaking of feelings and choices, understand that forgiveness is not a feeling but that it's a choice. You may think you forgave somebody but the anger and mistrust suddenly come back to haunt you. Like Jesus said, forgive those who sin against you seventy seven times. In other words, don't stop forgiving them. Verbalize it, acknowledge it. You will be far better for it instead of rotting away with anger. Forgiveness does not mean you will or should go back to him. On the contrary, leaving a toxic situation is the best thing for you! Concentrate on your own life now. Rebuilt with Christ along side you. Your ex husband has a lot to answer for in front of God. I would not want to be him when that time comes. You, on the other hand, will be blessed and loved deeply by God for forgiving him.
 
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blue_ladybug

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​The OP of this thread abandoned it and has NOT been online since April 30th.. nearly 3 months ago.. :/
 
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