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erika83

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walker said:
That is a wise answer Quest. I am really impressed.
Yeah ladies are crazy about attentions and flirts. They will do everything to get it. All de hullaballo that they don't want to get flirt is just another way of getting attention. The girl in question that posted this discussion case did that again in order to gain attention in other way.:D
I am sure she will be contented and impressed that she gets reaction on her complaints.

well lady .....;
It is just simple, if u don't want to get flirts,
1) don't put your picture on your profile, the site even advice that.
2) if u do, u have options as well to ignore whoever try to contact u
3) U might write on the profile as well that u don't want contact just like other ladies do.

Remember u can't eat your cake and wanna have it at same time...........:)
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ok i didn't want to get personal with this but u r really asking for it, btw u r one of the flirts i despise and ur answer only proves u have a personal matter with me coz i ignored u. very mature reaction.
i am not seeking for attention i get more than i want so don't u talk in my name ok?
simple is that, if u want to flirt ask first if the girl likes it or not!!
 
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Maddog

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erika83 said:
Ok I'll rephrase then, they have no manners whatsoever and that is very unappealing to me.
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No one likes bad manners. But to my mind, a person's manner is a different issue to flirting.

erika83 said:
and once again some men will hit on me on the streets too that doesn't mean i should dress up as a nun.
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No of course not, as long as you accept that there's nothing wrong with men chatting you up. However, if you do have a problem with it, then I'm afraid the onus is on you to make efforts to minimise the risk of it happening.

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the problem is with men who cannot or don't want to control themselves as long as i dress up and behave in a decent way it's not my fault. Same goes for CC: if putting up a picture (which is a very normal thing) makes guys go crazy then they have a problem so let's not blame the pictures.
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What do you mean 'go crazy'? It's perfectly normal and reasonable for men to find young women attractive and want to make contact. After all, you're a potential mate.
 
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erika83

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Dec 17, 2008
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Maddog said:
No one likes bad manners. But to my mind, a person's manner is a different issue to flirting.


No of course not, as long as you accept that there's nothing wrong with men chatting you up. However, if you do have a problem with it, then I'm afraid the onus is on you to make efforts to minimise the risk of it happening.



What do you mean 'go crazy'? It's perfectly normal and reasonable for men to find young women attractive and want to make contact. After all, you're a potential mate.
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No I don't mind if men are chatting me up, what I do mind is that some only chat me up to flirt or worse they even try to get into sexual talks (yes here on CC).
By 'go crazy' i meant that they cross lines. I agree that attraction is normal of course but as christians we have to be aware of how and what we talk and sadly lots of guys don't even care but they still claim to be christians.
 
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walker

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erika83 said:
ok i didn't want to get personal with this but u r really asking for it, btw u r one of the flirts i despise and ur answer only proves u have a personal matter with me coz i ignored u. very mature reaction.
i am not seeking for attention i get more than i want so don't u talk in my name ok?
simple is that, if u want to flirt ask first if the girl likes it or not!!
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Erika why are u getting personal with me now:). I was not refering to you. U are not the one that brings this complaints, i was refering to someone else. I guess u should read my post beter next time. Besides i have not been long on this site, so how can i have flirted with u....hahaha, that is what i mean now, trying to show off again.....:), i never remember contacting u...:D, may be in your dreams........
 
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erika83

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Dec 17, 2008
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walker said:
Erika why are u getting personal with me now:). I was not refering to you. U are not the one that brings this complaints, i was refering to someone else. I guess u should read my post beter next time. Besides i have not been long on this site, so how can i have flirted with u....hahaha, that is what i mean now, trying to show off again.....:), i never remember contacting u...:D, may be in your dreams........
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ok i thought u were talking about me since u quoted a message to me, anyway u have a short memory coz u did contact me!!
 
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zavok

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i dont think it matter weather you have a picture or not some people flirst becuse they are female i do agree that some woman like attention as well as men but thats people we all like and hate different things. the type of flirt i hate is when blurt it out rudely and in shouthing alright sexxxxxxxxxxxyyyyyyy, omg fitness over there
 
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walker

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erika83 said:
ok i thought u were talking about me since u quoted a message to me, anyway u have a short memory coz u did contact me!!
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Hmmmm!!! did i really contacted u? i guess u may be right that i have a short memory :D. You have a good memory i guess;).........coz u tends to remember all the guys that have contacted u:D
 
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goth4god

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walker said:
That is a wise answer Quest. I am really impressed.
Yeah ladies are crazy about attentions and flirts. They will do everything to get it. All de hullaballo that they don't want to get flirt is just another way of getting attention. The girl in question that posted this discussion case did that again in order to gain attention in other way.:D
I am sure she will be contented and impressed that she gets reaction on her complaints.

well lady .....;
It is just simple, if u don't want to get flirts,
1) don't put your picture on your profile, the site even advice that.
2) if u do, u have options as well to ignore whoever try to contact u
3) U might write on the profile as well that u don't want contact just like other ladies do.

Remember u can't eat your cake and wanna have it at same time...........:)
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I am really appalled that you would think that of me. you do NOT know who I am you do NOT know my motivations of this post. I was only posting this because I was tired of getting hit on, and thought maybe people should look at how they talk to people when they first meet them, so their brothers and sisters of Christ dont get caught up in lust and stumble.
and if you would take a moment and notice I have not posted a lot on this topic, I merely stated my own point and let others discuss their own thoughts.
and having no pic will not help, they see I am female and flirt with me. and I deny the request when they want to see a pic that isnt up.
I hate that you assume that I am shallow and only want attention, you do not know me one bit. If there is one thing I hate more than satan it is someone trying to make me sound shallow, cuz I am not.
I am going to hold my tongue and not say what I think about you, but I will say I think you need a better understanding of a person before you assume stuff about them.
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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So because I'm a pretty girl and boys dont behave, Its my fault? I'm "asking" for it when I have a picture of myself? Its a cry for "attention" now? Please excuse me while I disagree. I like putting a face on who I'm talking to, because to me it's like having an extra connection to that person (not just a name). Thats my opinion.
I have no problems with people hitting on me as long as they're not rude and realize its not going anywhere, but dont blame ME for them doing it.
 
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Bunnyxkitty

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Some guys on this website are just only here to date.
I met a few. they asked if i got naked pictures after i talked with them for a few minutes..


And when they know i got a boyfriend they dont talk anymore. Pathetic
 
zavok

zavok

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Dec 4, 2009
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Bunnyxkitty said:
Some guys on this website are just only here to date.
I met a few. they asked if i got naked pictures after i talked with them for a few minutes..


And when they know i got a boyfriend they dont talk anymore. Pathetic
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im surprise people ask that question on here
 
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Dread_Zeppelin

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Bunnyxkitty said:
So was I.oO
But those guys arent christian most of the time anyway
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Very true. Maybe they think chatting up Christian girls is the way to go, like we're librarians or something- desporate women waiting to come out of their shell!!! :p
 
zavok

zavok

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Dec 4, 2009
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Dread_Zeppelin said:
Very true. Maybe they think chatting up Christian girls is the way to go, like we're librarians or something- desporate women waiting to come out of their shell!!! :p
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i dont think that :p
 
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Maddog

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erika83 said:
No I don't mind if men are chatting me up, what I do mind is that some only chat me up to flirt or worse they even try to get into sexual talks (yes here on CC).
By 'go crazy' i meant that they cross lines. I agree that attraction is normal of course but as christians we have to be aware of how and what we talk and sadly lots of guys don't even care but they still claim to be christians.
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Oh okay, I see what you mean now.
 
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Maddog

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Dread_Zeppelin said:
Very true. Maybe they think chatting up Christian girls is the way to go, like we're librarians or something- desporate women waiting to come out of their shell!!! :p
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Hmm. You know, I've never tried it on with a librarian. Maybe I should give it a go.
 
QuestionTime

QuestionTime

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Bunnyxkitty said:
Some guys on this website are just only here to date.
I met a few. they asked if i got naked pictures after i talked with them for a few minutes..
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I don't understand the logic. If they want naked pictures, the entire World Wide Web awaits! Why would they be visiting Christian Chat.com?

Sorry to go off topic, but I must wonder as to why guys feel a need to see a particular woman naked. What I think it may be, is that they expect that one of these days... one of these naked bodies will make them whole; that seeing the nakedness will really truly fulfill them within. Well, that's not the case. It's all just pieces of flesh and it really can do nothing to make anyone happy, because God didn't intend bodies for that purpose.

Quest
 
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Bunnyxkitty

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I really dont get that too

Theres like loads of porn websites if they feel the need too
Why do they go to a christian website .. There not even christian themself
and just come here to date and do weird stuff
Doesnt make sense at all
Weird people..

Anyway even if you dont got a picture up in the chat and just says it your female they still ask it..
 
zavok

zavok

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Dec 4, 2009
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im not christian are you calling me wierd :'(
 
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