i am having thoughts of death

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asamanthinketh

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i have been thinking that people are so horrible and life is so messed up right now, and the harm that has been done to me, i dont' know if it is repairable and no one is lifting a finger to heal what they have done, i have been thinking about death alot and i am angry and sad that this is happening to me because God's plans are for good and not for evil

i want to live a happy whole life but if i have to suffer like this i don't want it, but i don't want death to be in vain or painful

i am sad that i am thinking this

i have no one to talk to, no money for counseling, and my family hates me, my friends have abandoned me and i am miserable

what did i do?

someone please respond
 
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SoLoved

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I'll be praying for you.

Remember, when it seems that you are all alone, and nobody wants you, God does.
 
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asamanthinketh

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and there is not a person who is humble enough to truly understand, human words are not helping
 
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asamanthinketh

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GOD is not here, i need real help
 
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asamanthinketh

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there is no one to talk to, no one listens
is this happening because i did not want the same life as my mother
is the devil against me
i've been told that people were jealous of me, and that is why this is happening
 
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asamanthinketh

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i'm tired of life and people and no one being able to help, one thing i have asked for was to be loved
 
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songster

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For your state and city there should be support groups available for victims of abuse. If they charge a fee, ask them to help you to find 'free counseling'. Ask for 800 numbers, search the internet and phone book for abuse victims services. Someone from your church should be able to direct you or assist you in finding these.

You must do the homework if you hope to gain a better understanding of what you're experiencing. If what you're doing now isn't working, you must take steps on your own to seek help. Internet chatroom and forum contacts are limited in their ability to assist you in your situation.

Suggestions:

- Ask for assistance from your church in finding free support groups or counseling.

- Search for 800 numbers in your phone book or on the internet, for your city and state.

- Contact a local hospital for suggestions.

- Contact your nearest Courthouse for suggestions on victims services.

- Contact your nearest YWCA for suggestions.
 
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SeaGlass1111

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Songster is right. There is a lot of free counseling out there.. Call a local church, hospital or crisis line...you can get the help you need. Ask the Lord to help you with your anger...it will help you think more clearly.

I am sorry that you're going thru this.. life can be very difficult, but have faith and you will be fine!
 
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SeekinHIM

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hPlease check out this web location, I KNOW IT WILL HELP YOU...................www.laughcry.org I will also pray for the healing of your wounded heart.

When you go on the site, go to teachings and they have a book there called ''Laugh and Cry Your Way to Freedom" . This teachings are free to read and this book is there to read also. John Chappell teaches why we get wounded and then hold onto the hurts, even though we don't want to.

And MOST importantly, how to release these to the LORD, and recieve HIS healing immediately.

Please check it out, you won't be disapointed. I will pray for you as you are set free....................

SeekinHIM
 
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sunshine_debbie

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asamanthinketh said:
i have been thinking that people are so horrible and life is so messed up right now, and the harm that has been done to me, i dont' know if it is repairable and no one is lifting a finger to heal what they have done, i have been thinking about death alot and i am angry and sad that this is happening to me because God's plans are for good and not for evil

i want to live a happy whole life but if i have to suffer like this i don't want it, but i don't want death to be in vain or painful

i am sad that i am thinking this

i have no one to talk to, no money for counseling, and my family hates me, my friends have abandoned me and i am miserable

what did i do?

someone please respond
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You are suicidal and in need of intervention NOW. I have tried, and many others have also tried to get help for you, but I dont think you even read your own responses to your own threads. You are mentally ill and in the middle of a psychotic break. I gave you an entire list of 800 numbers that should help you, including one for suicide, victims intervention, and homlesness & violence so if you need to go somewhere safe, you can.

You are using this chat forum as a sounding board for your mental illness. While that in itself is not a problem, not taking the biblical and heartfelt advice, and scaring and threatening people with inuendos of self harm is a BIG problem.

I suspect that the moderators did not think of posts like these when they thought up the rules of Christian Chat, but soon it is going to become evident that you are not providing edification or even normal chat with people.

PLEASE get help, before you end up in the hospital again, against your will. God can and will help you and has been for a long time. But you NEED to get PROFESSIONAL HELP. I am praying for you EVERY DAY, please listen.

Debbie
 
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sunshine_debbie

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Once again, in case you missed in it the other three threads you have posted on wanting to die

Advocates for Human Potential, Inc.
Projects for Assistance in Transition from Homelessness (PATH) Technical Assistance Center
800-795-5486
Alzheimer's Disease Education & Referral Center
800-438-4380
Department of Transportation's Hotline for Air Travelers With Disabilities
1-800-778-4838 (voice) or 1-800-455-9880 (TDD)
National Clearinghouse on Family Support and Children's Mental Health
800-628-1696
National Library of Medicine's Health Hotlines Subject Index
National Mental Health Association
800-969-NMHA (6642)
National Resource Center on Homelessness and Mental Illness
800-444-7415
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
800-273-TALK (8255)
SAMHSA's Center for Substance Abuse Treatment
800-662-HELP (4357), 800-487-4889 (TDD), 877-767-8432 (Spanish)
SAMHSA's National Clearinghouse for Alcohol and Drug Information
800-729-6686
 
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cherdebear

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Please don't react to your life, just close your eyes and relax, say the LORD"S PRAYER and then when you're calm go to Psalms and find a passage you like there and keep reciting it untill you go to sleep. In the morning go see your pastor/preacher/priest and tell him you need a bit of guidance. I know how you feel. It is an extremely long journey. God WILL HELP YOU thru.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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you say nothing humans can do will help
you say nothing God can do will help
yet you start several threads crying out for help?
that must mean you do think SOMEONE can help. only problem is, WE cannot give you medical assistance or psychological aid in any other way than words

seek out those who can help you, spamming a forum without reading replies given will not magically make it go away

if no one else does anything round you, YOU need to do something. It WILL NOT FALL IN YOUR LAP
 
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songster

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If all advice is ignored, there can only be a few possible scenarios,

- The threads are used as a mechanism for venting.

- The posts were designed with an intent to attract attention and not help.

- The individual lacks the mental capacity to follow through with previous suggestions.

- The individual has become acclimated to, and actually prefers, her present environment.
 
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wwjd_kilden

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I agree on that
 
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cherdebear

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sunshine_debbie

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What in the world do you mean by that? Do you think there is something we can do besides give her as much help as we can. I have been praying for this girl every day since the first day she posted and I can not get through to her. I can not even get a coherent reply out of her.

This tells me she has a mental illness of some sort, and probably a serious one at that. While I am not qualified to do many things, and I am certainly the last person who should be giving advice on scripture, I am qualified to identify a mental illness. And she has one.

I have almost a master's degree in psychology and I have worked around the mentally ill for twenty years. Not to mention that half of my family, including myself has some type of mental illness be it depression, anxiety or something else.

Please understand that we have tried to help this girl, many besides myself have tried. I dont understand why you are so angry.

Is there some other way that we could help that I am unaware of?

Debbie
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asamanthinketh

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there is no support in this area. okay, we live in a not so nice area. and i have reached out, but no one listens
 
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asamanthinketh

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this is not a medical or psychological problem and i am not going to argue about it, it is what people and their beliefs have done to me, you cannot force someone to be and do what you want them to be because you lack patience or love or understanding in your own heart. The Lord gives us all a measure of understanding. And when you have true humility you recognize this and you honor someone's needs, you respect that things have happened to them that was not their fault and that the ways of this world are not real, they are unforgiving and can kill a person.
 
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asamanthinketh

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i have never even seen your reply except for a bunch of phone numbers, which i have already called in this area for shelter, for domestic violence counseling and they have not been able to help, because i live in someone elses's house and apparently because i do live here they are able to whatever the hell they want to me
 
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