I am tempted by a coworker
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Perhaps some clarification is in order. The chef is a man, the waitress a woman. The waitress is in a relationship with a man who is also interested in another man, the chef.
Oh yeah, there was a little typo in my post that changed the meaning slightly. I meant to write that it is 'not the same thing'. My bad. I hope that I did not inadvertently steer the guy in a wrong direction.
Oh yeah, there was a little typo in my post that changed the meaning slightly. I meant to write that it is 'not the same thing'. My bad. I hope that I did not inadvertently steer the guy in a wrong direction.
Perhaps some clarification is in order. The chef is a man, the waitress a woman. The waitress is in a relationship with a man who is also interested in another man, the chef.
Oh yeah, there was a little typo in my post that changed the meaning slightly. I meant to write that it is 'not the same thing'. My bad. I hope that I did not inadvertently steer the guy in a wrong direction.
Oh yeah, there was a little typo in my post that changed the meaning slightly. I meant to write that it is 'not the same thing'. My bad. I hope that I did not inadvertently steer the guy in a wrong direction.
Perhaps some clarification is in order. The chef is a man, the waitress a woman. The waitress is in a relationship with a man who is also interested in another man, the chef.
Oh yeah, there was a little typo in my post that changed the meaning slightly. I meant to write that it is 'not the same thing'. My bad. I hope that I did not inadvertently steer the guy in a wrong direction.
Oh yeah, there was a little typo in my post that changed the meaning slightly. I meant to write that it is 'not the same thing'. My bad. I hope that I did not inadvertently steer the guy in a wrong direction.
I obviously suck at relationships. I used to be a chef though if that's any consolation.
I've read through three nearly three pages of content and saw no mention of scriptural advice, sad!
1) If you are born again, it is imperative you find a mate that is also a saved believer in Christ. Scripture warns of being unequally yoked with non-believers.
Further reading: https://www.gotquestions.org/date-marry-unbeliever.html
2) Based on what little information you have described, the girl sounds more like the character of Proverbs 7 than of Proverbs 31.
With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him. He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks; Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth. Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death. - Proverbs 7:21-27
3) Since you described behaviour as uncomfortable, the best option is to report it to HR, pray for her, and ignore her. God will provide you with someone more in line with Proverbs 31 when the time is right.
1) If you are born again, it is imperative you find a mate that is also a saved believer in Christ. Scripture warns of being unequally yoked with non-believers.
Further reading: https://www.gotquestions.org/date-marry-unbeliever.html
2) Based on what little information you have described, the girl sounds more like the character of Proverbs 7 than of Proverbs 31.
With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him. He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks; Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth. Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths. For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her. Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death. - Proverbs 7:21-27
3) Since you described behaviour as uncomfortable, the best option is to report it to HR, pray for her, and ignore her. God will provide you with someone more in line with Proverbs 31 when the time is right.
