Agree with all the posts above....esp Ugly and Deschichado, you may want to wait about marrying this girl if she's asking you these kinds of things before marrying.....find out about her true character etc....
Also, I second Deschichado's advice about the courthouse/city giving you a marriage license....it's way faster (if you can't wait) and also it's been shown in economic studies that both marriages and funerals are the most expensive one time expenses that people pay out (with no roi btw)...it may be more economical to do the courthouse thing as well
Before anyone gets mad I'm Just keeping it real people, not everyone has 5-10 grand just lying around to be blown for a one time event....it's smarter these days to go the courthouse and have a small ceremony rather than some large palooza event filled with people you probably don't interact with except maybe every 10 years if lucky
It makes more sense to save that money as an investment in a house or start out couple budget rather than being both broke from a "great" wedding but eating beans for a year to pay it off. Just some helpful advice
Plenty of articles online: But here is one that is good to show you I'm telling the truth:
What Does The Average Wedding Now Cost? More Than A College Education And Funeral Combined.