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Listen to this, keeping sex sacred: Keeping Sex Sacred | Set Apart Girl
I have no problem with sex outside of marriage. I believe that when God puts a person in our lives that we want to share that with, and we feel it's right from an instinct point of view and the relationship is a healthy happy one, I believe it's ok to share that with the other person. Although they haven't worked out, I waited till i knew it was right and have no regrets looking back.
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The bible says it clear that sex is right in marriage and bed is not defiled in this way.
However I get questions running through my head sometimes, first it was the children of Israel who wanted the law but not God.
Now with that in mind, it is clear that when you sleep with another man being a man yourself or with a woman being a woman yourself, you are committing sin, it's unnatural
But now it becomes very natural when you are attracted to have sex with a woman being a man even before marriage, God created it that way.
Now could it be that God didn't want to give us the law because anyone knows when doing wrong? but Israelites asked for it
Could it be that sex before marriage is the law of church but not of God just like the Jews had laws like before eating one should wash his hands?
Note that you become one with a woman once you sleep with her 'when two come together they become one" it doesn't stipulate that you become one with a woman after vows,
These are questions and I need answers?
However I get questions running through my head sometimes, first it was the children of Israel who wanted the law but not God.
Now with that in mind, it is clear that when you sleep with another man being a man yourself or with a woman being a woman yourself, you are committing sin, it's unnatural
But now it becomes very natural when you are attracted to have sex with a woman being a man even before marriage, God created it that way.
Now could it be that God didn't want to give us the law because anyone knows when doing wrong? but Israelites asked for it
Could it be that sex before marriage is the law of church but not of God just like the Jews had laws like before eating one should wash his hands?
Note that you become one with a woman once you sleep with her 'when two come together they become one" it doesn't stipulate that you become one with a woman after vows,
These are questions and I need answers?
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There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way to death. - Proverbs 14:12
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. - Galatians 5:19-21
God has a problem with it.
Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are these; Adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness, Idolatry, witchcraft, hatred, variance, emulations, wrath, strife, seditions, heresies, Envyings, murders, drunkenness, revellings, and such like: of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the kingdom of God. - Galatians 5:19-21
God has a problem with it.
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Sex was part of God's original plan for man. Sex should be done after marriage. If you truly love each other, you will wait until marriage. Because you want to preserve one another in purity for the day when you can say without reservation for each other: I am yours and you are mine. Without reservation, because you have pledge to each other, before God's church, and in the sight of men, that you accept full responsibility for one another. That moment is called marriage. To insist on union before that moment is to ask for the full privilege without accepting the total responsibility. This is sinful, selfish and unloving. True love will wait because in God's design, sexual union is the culmination not the initiation of true love, the supreme act of mutual self-giving. It is outward, physical expression of a deeper, spiritual union between two persons. And the two shall become one...Genesis 2:24, Ephesians 5:31
In short: Even within Christendom many want to taste the CAKE before it be bought.
I could tell more, but I cannot publish what i have learned for some reasons:
1) No full freedom of speech
2) My "truth" might be quite different from other´s life experiences
3) You have to find your truth (once U find it, many will agree or disagree)
4) More reasons and excuses...
But -the greater one- A) Why does a person want sex? To LOVE the other (the spouse)? ot to love himself/herself?
B) Was marriage granted to reprocuce human race or to reproduce the lorship of God and His Son Jesus?
From here you have some ideas to polish your thoughts...
I could tell more, but I cannot publish what i have learned for some reasons:
1) No full freedom of speech
2) My "truth" might be quite different from other´s life experiences
3) You have to find your truth (once U find it, many will agree or disagree)
4) More reasons and excuses...
But -the greater one- A) Why does a person want sex? To LOVE the other (the spouse)? ot to love himself/herself?
B) Was marriage granted to reprocuce human race or to reproduce the lorship of God and His Son Jesus?
From here you have some ideas to polish your thoughts...
I wonder what I would feel when my daughter thinks that way!
From my manly side I could say: "That´s OK" (particularly if I get the chance to try or taste the TAKE at NO COST.
From my life experience, because I have THOUGHT that way LARGELY, I see my fate would be eternally doing the same (sex) without an absolute commitment, because such as long-term relationship, are a lie and I stopped thinking that way by 2011 (the other persons I have loved never were tasted like my BED cake).
I don´t look back at those who left me nor at those I left (that´s over) but my time -also- is getting over (No regret! I´m gonna win, somehow).
My fault! (absolutely mine) was trusting me rather than GOD. I know my economic status (and many things in my life) are not those that could be sought after, because marriage is a miracle, a gift, not the way I used to see it...
From my manly side I could say: "That´s OK" (particularly if I get the chance to try or taste the TAKE at NO COST.
From my life experience, because I have THOUGHT that way LARGELY, I see my fate would be eternally doing the same (sex) without an absolute commitment, because such as long-term relationship, are a lie and I stopped thinking that way by 2011 (the other persons I have loved never were tasted like my BED cake).
I don´t look back at those who left me nor at those I left (that´s over) but my time -also- is getting over (No regret! I´m gonna win, somehow).
My fault! (absolutely mine) was trusting me rather than GOD. I know my economic status (and many things in my life) are not those that could be sought after, because marriage is a miracle, a gift, not the way I used to see it...
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I wonder what I would feel when my daughter thinks that way!
From my manly side I could say: "That´s OK" (particularly if I get the chance to try or taste the TAKE at NO COST.
From my life experience, because I have THOUGHT that way LARGELY, I see my fate would be eternally doing the same (sex) without an absolute commitment, because such as long-term relationship, are a lie and I stopped thinking that way by 2011 (the other persons I have loved never were tasted like my BED cake).
I don´t look back at those who left me nor at those I left (that´s over) but my time -also- is getting over (No regret! I´m gonna win, somehow).
My fault! (absolutely mine) was trusting me rather than GOD. I know my economic status (and many things in my life) are not those that could be sought after, because marriage is a miracle, a gift, not the way I used to see it...
From my manly side I could say: "That´s OK" (particularly if I get the chance to try or taste the TAKE at NO COST.
From my life experience, because I have THOUGHT that way LARGELY, I see my fate would be eternally doing the same (sex) without an absolute commitment, because such as long-term relationship, are a lie and I stopped thinking that way by 2011 (the other persons I have loved never were tasted like my BED cake).
I don´t look back at those who left me nor at those I left (that´s over) but my time -also- is getting over (No regret! I´m gonna win, somehow).
My fault! (absolutely mine) was trusting me rather than GOD. I know my economic status (and many things in my life) are not those that could be sought after, because marriage is a miracle, a gift, not the way I used to see it...
Fornication | Define Fornication at Dictionary.com
for·ni·ca·tion
/ˌfɔr
nɪˈkeɪ
ʃən/ Show Spelled [fawr-ni-key-shuh
n] Show IPA noun 1. voluntary sexual intercourse between two unmarried persons or two persons not married to each other.
2. Bible. idolatry.
[HR][/HR]Origin:
1300–50; Middle English fornicacioun < Late Latin fornicātiōn- (stem of fornicātiō ). See fornicate[SUP]1 [/SUP], -ion
World English Dictionary
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[TD="class: td3n2"]Bible sexual immorality in general, esp adultery
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Word Origin & History
fornication
c.1300, from O.Fr. fornication, from L.L. fornicationem (nom. fornicatio), from fornicari "fornicate," from L. fornix (gen. fornicis) "brothel," originally "arch, vaulted chamber" (Roman prostitutes commonly solicited from under the arches of certain buildings), from fornus "oven of arched or domed shape."
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(Doesn't say Before marriage, says outside of marriage, or immoral sexual acts, or in more olden terminology, idolatry, or old roman root brothel.)
for·ni·ca·tion
/ˌfɔr
2. Bible. idolatry.
[HR][/HR]Origin:
1300–50; Middle English fornicacioun < Late Latin fornicātiōn- (stem of fornicātiō ). See fornicate[SUP]1 [/SUP], -ion
World English Dictionary
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[TD="class: td3n1, width: 1%, align: right"]2.
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[TD="class: td3n2"]law voluntary sexual intercourse between two persons of the opposite sex, where one is or both are unmarried
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[TD="class: td3n1, width: 1%, align: right"]3.
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[TD="class: td3n2"]Bible sexual immorality in general, esp adultery
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Word Origin & History
fornication
c.1300, from O.Fr. fornication, from L.L. fornicationem (nom. fornicatio), from fornicari "fornicate," from L. fornix (gen. fornicis) "brothel," originally "arch, vaulted chamber" (Roman prostitutes commonly solicited from under the arches of certain buildings), from fornus "oven of arched or domed shape."
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(Doesn't say Before marriage, says outside of marriage, or immoral sexual acts, or in more olden terminology, idolatry, or old roman root brothel.)