If someone comes to me and says 'Should I have sex', I'm going to explain things to them either way and gently give my input. And I'd err on 'perhaps you should wait because ...'
BUt if someone comes to me and says 'I'm having sex whether anyone likes it or not. How do I go about it?' It's good to be able to show someone how to be safe, and that society allows them to be safe. They've made their decision anyway. WHO AM I TO FORCE THEIR HAND??
It's better I can show them to condoms and information than say 'na, hope it goes to pot for you and you get AIDS'.
The same with a girl who's already made the uneducated, silly mistake.
Plan B - that way.
BUt if someone comes to me and says 'I'm having sex whether anyone likes it or not. How do I go about it?' It's good to be able to show someone how to be safe, and that society allows them to be safe. They've made their decision anyway. WHO AM I TO FORCE THEIR HAND??
It's better I can show them to condoms and information than say 'na, hope it goes to pot for you and you get AIDS'.
The same with a girl who's already made the uneducated, silly mistake.
Plan B - that way.
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