How Long Has Everyone Here Been Single?

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How Long Has Everyone Here Been Single?

  • I have been single my whole life--I have never had a significant other.

    Votes: 37 26.4%
  • A few weeks.

    Votes: 4 2.9%
  • A few days to 3 months.

    Votes: 5 3.6%
  • Over 3 months to 6 months.

    Votes: 7 5.0%
  • Over 6 months to 9 months.

    Votes: 3 2.1%
  • Over 9 months to a year.

    Votes: 7 5.0%
  • Over a year to 2 years.

    Votes: 11 7.9%
  • Over 2 years to 4 years.

    Votes: 18 12.9%
  • Over 4 years to 6 years.

    Votes: 6 4.3%
  • Over 6 years to 8 years.

    Votes: 9 6.4%
  • Over 8 years to 10 years.

    Votes: 5 3.6%
  • Over 10 years.

    Votes: 5 3.6%
  • Over 10 years to 15 years.

    Votes: 6 4.3%
  • Over 15 to 20 years.

    Votes: 11 7.9%
  • I have been single for over 20 years.

    Votes: 12 8.6%
  • Other--I have something to explain in my post.

    Votes: 6 4.3%
  • My definition of being single is... (please share in your post.)

    Votes: 3 2.1%

  • Total voters
    140
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Chrissy77

Guest
#81
Chrissy, you're right, you are very good at "derailing threads"!!!

I was just talking about chocolate, and you were talking about............................ something else (so much for being innocent - lol).

(crossing arms) you can't prove nothing!! I was talking about.... oh (sigh) never mind.. you won't believe me anyways.:p

I know I make threads go all over!! I don't know what it is about me.

Many apologies... Please continue on.
 

Descyple

Senior Member
Jun 7, 2010
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#83
I don't know Asif... We need another adult to keep Descyple under control.
I would respond to your last OUTLANDISH post about me Chrissy, but I see that Lookwhatthelordhasdone has brought some control and civility back to this thread.

Now Chrissy, can you exercise some self-control and try not to derail this thread again???

Thank you very much!!!
 
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Chrissy77

Guest
#84
I would respond to your last OUTLANDISH post about me Chrissy, but I see that Lookwhatthelordhasdone has brought some control and civility back to this thread.

Now Chrissy, can you exercise some self-control and try not to derail this thread again???

Thank you very much!!!
I am going to ignore your attempts to get me to further derail this topic.

It has been proven that many people have different views as what constitutes being single, as they do
about what kisses certain people mean in the midst of conversation.

Geez that song is in my head... "Single ladies"( not sure that is the title but you know which one I mean)
 

Descyple

Senior Member
Jun 7, 2010
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#85
I am going to ignore your attempts to get me to further derail this topic.

It has been proven that many people have different views as what constitutes being single, as they do
about what kisses certain people mean in the midst of conversation.

Geez that song is in my head... "Single ladies"( not sure that is the title but you know which one I mean)
I think I will write a song called "Single Fellas" for this thread, but don't worry Chrissy, I won't mention anything about "kisses" (that way you won't have an excuse to derail this thread again!!! - lol).
 

eugenius

Senior Member
Jul 17, 2009
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#87
Since my reply will be judged by society in a negative manner, I have only answered in the anonymous poll.
 
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Donkeyfish07

Guest
#88
Since about a week or two after new years here.

On another topic, some of those poll numbers really surprise me (especially the people that has been single their whole life, I'm guessing some of those are by choice). One of my good friends I talk to on here is really pretty and she's great, very godly woman. She told me she had never been asked out and i thought she was pulling my leg at first. Is that common among you other ladies here as well?
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

Guest
#89
Several years ago i was asked out by a man who thought i was his cousin.

Other than that.... no.
 

Loveneverfails

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Feb 18, 2013
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#91
I view singleness as the absence of marriage. In that sense, I have been single all my life. I am, however, "unavailable" for the first time in my life, given that a certain young man and myself are taking one another into consideration for the prospect of marriage, and I would never do that with more than one person at a time.
 
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Donkeyfish07

Guest
#93
Absolutely..............
Wowzers. That must have been awkward. I've heard a few people complain about lack of young men in the Church but this just blows my mind. A lot worse than I thought it was. Beautiful godly women everywhere and no one is asking you out. It makes me feel bad actually.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

Guest
#94
Wowzers. That must have been awkward. I've heard a few people complain about lack of young men in the Church but this just blows my mind. A lot worse than I thought it was. Beautiful godly women everywhere and no one is asking you out. It makes me feel bad actually.
Does it make you feel so bad your going to ask me out??

I'm waaaaiting...

:D
 

rachelsedge

Senior Member
Oct 15, 2012
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#96
I hadn't seen this poll until now, but I'm surprised at how many there are of the first answer. That was my answer and so I feel less alone and less like a weirdo now. :p
 
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Donkeyfish07

Guest
#97
I hadn't seen this poll until now, but I'm surprised at how many there are of the first answer. That was my answer and so I feel less alone and less like a weirdo now. :p
Were your ears burning Rach? :p
 

rachelsedge

Senior Member
Oct 15, 2012
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#98
Were your ears burning Rach? :p
I'm almost not sure if I know what you mean by that. I think I do, but I'm not sure. I'm just going to pretend that what I'm thinking of is what it is.

(I make so much sense :p )
 
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Donkeyfish07

Guest
#99
I'm almost not sure if I know what you mean by that. I think I do, but I'm not sure. I'm just going to pretend that what I'm thinking of is what it is.

(I make so much sense :p )
Rofl......I'll take that as a yes :p
 
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iTOREtheSKY

Guest
I have been single for exactly 1 yr & 4 months of singleness since my divorce. It's easy to remember because our "official" ruling papers we received were on Feb 2nd and that's Groundhog's Day! lol So I always think of that film & thank God I don't have to live it over & over again.