It is good for a man not to touch a woman....

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starfield

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No, not even that. Most Christians today won't have the guts to tell you that, because they're too much like the world. They want to play with sin out on the edge. That's why you get the guys and girls who have stories of going to "church camp" and being the camp whore but he/she is still a "virgin" because they didn't engage in vaginal intercourse.

People like to say, "i'm not a good person, but i'm not a bad person like hitler and pol pot" and it's the same thing here... "i grind and spoon, but we're still virgins!"


Stick with chastity and purity.
'Tis all foolish games that usually lead to regret. My stance is to save oneself for that special person that's God's will.

Great post.

 
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Tintin

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Peace be with you who can't tell the difference between an adventurous German Shepard (dog) called Rin Tin Tin, that helps to keep law and order and a cartoon boy reporter/detective called Tintin, who travels the world righting wrongs. Wrongs like people condemning others they know jack all about, for doing God's Will.

Peace be with you, you have a contentious spirit to come back and oppose the SPIRIT of life. i forgive you because the term you have used is 'dude' which is the pattern of this world who make one higher than others. The LORD JESUS CHRIST will put you down if you make yourself above others as it is written.
If you think you are doing a better job than the Holy Scripture than go on ahead. i've only felt sorry, speaking to the LORD about being hard on you. But i've asked HIM to bless you because there is nothing wrong in you but favoring deceptive spirit going on and on about the same thing when they should already have receive revelation from the HOLY SPIRIT of the Holy Scripture about grace and truth of the MESSIAH.
This is how the LORD of the HOLY SPIRIT the Helper, help me to see you.
The Apostles also had a field day with the churches with all kind of characters, making divisions among themselves and wrote epistles to bring them all into one orderly worship in spirit and truth, worshiping the Living GOD.
i am not sent to entertain those who are not prepared by GOD to receive the New Covenant of the MESSIAH but those have received and want to know more like the Disciples of JESUS.
Rin tin tin is another cartoon character of the pattern of this world as one want to be truly acknowledged as the peddler of the Living Word God from CHRIST.
'Come into the Light while the Light is still with you because when 'gross darkness' takes over you will not stumble.'
i am not your enemy but the enemy is within you called 'self' loving others like the world do.
May GOD the FATHER of our LORD JESUS CHRIST help and bless you in spirit and truth.
 
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BishopSEH

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It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband render to his wife the affection due her and likewise also the wife to her husband.
1 Corinthians 7:2,3

Okay so I was reading 1 Corinthians and came across this verse. And was a little a confused. So if we are not married, then we are not allowed to have any affection with each other what so ever. Like I understand we are not supposed to have sex before marriage. But not even cuddling, kissing, lol spooning, etc as well?
Congrats on a very good question. Many don't know that for a time Corinth was seriously spiritual to the extent that people weren't getting married and married people were failing to maintain biblical standards in their relationships such as, sex.

When Paul wrote it is good not to touch a woman it is to be taken along side his desire to serve the Lord without the distraction of a wife. Paul, however, is not stupid. He knows full well that the vast majority of people are not cut out for such a life and that for most of us God intends marriage and all that comes with marriage.

This Scripture has nothing and I mean nothing to do with sexual immorality. Now back in bible days much of your list would have been culturally off limits. Affection was shown in other ways during the betrothal year. Today a kiss, hug, holding hands and such is not considered sexually off limit by any but the most hardline of clergy. Spooning on the other hand is definately risky. Such close, prolonged, intimate contact has its own risks to be factored in. Now many today consider spooning just another form if cuddling. Indeed it is but I personally would not use that particular form of cuddling till after your engaged at minimum, preferably after marriage so that if things go beyond the cuddling point you will not be sinning.

Still, your an adult and no one can tell you what to do or not to do. You know your strengths and weaknesses. You know your own level of working faith. Trust in it and in God to keep you from being compromised. It you feel that your self-control is weakening then I would recommend you follow the example of Joseph (son of Jacob) and flee. Not end the relationship but put time and distance between you and the situation.

In Christ,

Bishop SEH
 
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jinx

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Peace be with you who can't tell the difference between an adventurous German Shepard (dog) called Rin Tin Tin, that helps to keep law and order and a cartoon boy reporter/detective called Tintin, who travels the world righting wrongs. Wrongs like people condemning others they know jack all about, for doing God's Will.

​Oh Snap!!!!
 

starfield

Senior Member
Jun 13, 2009
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Peace be with you, you have a contentious spirit to come back and oppose the SPIRIT of life. i forgive you because the term you have used is 'dude' which is the pattern of this world who make one higher than others. The LORD JESUS CHRIST will put you down if you make yourself above others as it is written.
If you think you are doing a better job than the Holy Scripture than go on ahead. i've only felt sorry, speaking to the LORD about being hard on you. But i've asked HIM to bless you because there is nothing wrong in you but favoring deceptive spirit going on and on about the same thing when they should already have receive revelation from the HOLY SPIRIT of the Holy Scripture about grace and truth of the MESSIAH.
This is how the LORD of the HOLY SPIRIT the Helper, help me to see you.
The Apostles also had a field day with the churches with all kind of characters, making divisions among themselves and wrote epistles to bring them all into one orderly worship in spirit and truth, worshiping the Living GOD.
i am not sent to entertain those who are not prepared by GOD to receive the New Covenant of the MESSIAH but those have received and want to know more like the Disciples of JESUS.
Rin tin tin is another cartoon character of the pattern of this world as one want to be truly acknowledged as the peddler of the Living Word God from CHRIST.
'Come into the Light while the Light is still with you because when 'gross darkness' takes over you will not stumble.'
i am not your enemy but the enemy is within you called 'self' loving others like the world do.
May GOD the FATHER of our LORD JESUS CHRIST help and bless you in spirit and truth.
Fred kinda sounds like Tommy4Christ. Just sayin’...:rolleyes:

 
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jinx

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IDK who that is, did that person get banned before?
 
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Tintin

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Fredjames does sound quite to Tommy, now that you mention it. I'm surprised Tommy lasted as long as he did (he was here for ages).
 
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jinx

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Yes, he recently got banned. He was notoriously judgmental.
did he do the "thus saith the LORD and peace be with you" bit?

I hate it when people do the "peace be with you" then blah blah blah you're wrong I'm right, and finish it of with love hugs and kisses in Christ.

do they talk like that in person?

from where I come from people would look at me strange and slap a white jacket on my crazy self.

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Tintin

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No, he didn't. But the whole tone and demeanor of the posts were similar. If anything FredJames is 'nicer' but also more deceptive.
 

john832

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Congrats on a very good question. Many don't know that for a time Corinth was seriously spiritual to the extent that people weren't getting married and married people were failing to maintain biblical standards in their relationships such as, sex.

When Paul wrote it is good not to touch a woman it is to be taken along side his desire to serve the Lord without the distraction of a wife. Paul, however, is not stupid. He knows full well that the vast majority of people are not cut out for such a life and that for most of us God intends marriage and all that comes with marriage.

This Scripture has nothing and I mean nothing to do with sexual immorality. Now back in bible days much of your list would have been culturally off limits. Affection was shown in other ways during the betrothal year. Today a kiss, hug, holding hands and such is not considered sexually off limit by any but the most hardline of clergy. Spooning on the other hand is definately risky. Such close, prolonged, intimate contact has its own risks to be factored in. Now many today consider spooning just another form if cuddling. Indeed it is but I personally would not use that particular form of cuddling till after your engaged at minimum, preferably after marriage so that if things go beyond the cuddling point you will not be sinning.

Still, your an adult and no one can tell you what to do or not to do. You know your strengths and weaknesses. You know your own level of working faith. Trust in it and in God to keep you from being compromised. It you feel that your self-control is weakening then I would recommend you follow the example of Joseph (son of Jacob) and flee. Not end the relationship but put time and distance between you and the situation.

In Christ,

Bishop SEH
This is simply MBFM.
 
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jinx

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what is MBFM???? or should i even ask?:confused:
 
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weakness

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Don't bother Its easy to see where there heads are at!!
 
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BishopSEH

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Then we know where the MBFM really came from then. Ok that wasn't nice but it was mildly funny.
 
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Tintin

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MBFM = Male Bonding Fellowship Ministry. If it doesn't, I'm the King of England!
 
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danschance

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[h=2]Here it is....

MBFM stands for 1 thing(s):[/h]
  1. MBFM: Medium-Band Frequency Modulation