Hi, Cloud! I don´t if you are who posted this thread that
seems a threat (
). I have read in soem countries, close to Filipinas, girls often ask the boys to marry and give presents to woo (I just telling what I read on wikipedia, concerniung DATING). I think it fair! And allow me to tell part of my life:
I was slow. In high school I asked a girl to be my GF because some friends told me
she liked me (and I didn´t know nor notice it) (and that lasted few months). Today I´m old, compared to the type of girls/women I liked, an normally we (men) do not look AT ALL WHO ARE THE BEST, but we look at those who look "unavoidable", because OUR FOOLISH MIND think body beauty is important (and it is NOT, but a little).
I had a pastor whose wife had to woo him to be finally married. She was a good and
thin woman (a think I usually like) but David never paid attention to the outside. And I´m glad Donna married him, because
they have a good ministry and David is (or was) handsome enough to marry any he could have liked. Besides, he is a man from God, a good worker, and I´m happy Donna married him (I´m talking about a friend I haven´t seen for more than 15 years).
Today, June 2013. I have someone who often woos me, but I like her as friend. I´m not the one she deserves, I´m not the one who copes with Catholics to woo, but she is kind enough who has set an eye on me, but I don´t know how to tell her -without hurting- that I´m not her Mr Right. And I have told her I AM NOT, but she insists on telling me "God told me you are that one". The thing is: 1) My foolish mind TELLS ME SHE IS NOT THE ONE I LIKE. 2) God hasn´t told me anything about her. 3) My dreams never showed me her in my dreams.
My question to you: Do you have God telling you that guy is the one for you? Is God telling him YOU ARE THE BEST CHOICE? (THERE ARE MANY ALTERNATIVE, but
God knows the best for you, according to His plans)
I wish you find the best man for you.