Worst Dating Experiences

[Elizabeth619]

What are some of the worst dates you have been on? I know some of y'all have some funny or strange ones. Please share


One date I had was I went out with a guy. Everything went fine then when I'm driving home he calls me and ask if I can still have children. I thought that was a little odd for a first date question.

 

[Joe8264]

I typed my story out but then decided that I can't share that here.

 

[isaria]

Had one "date" I met a man for second time and it was as if he was with another woman the whole time and his body was with me but he was not.
The woman looked like she was filing and he kissed me and touched my "crotch" outside my trousers.
It was not love or lust or desire.
I felt very uncomfterble and aid i had to leave and i only had been with him a very short time.
I did not hug him goodbye but pretty much closed car door in face (unpolite for me).
Felt awkward, awful and "for show" control or goll iness and I never saw him again nor did we text or call after that.

Had a few other shockers but for some reason i do not see them as real dates.
I feel as if i never had a REAL date.


"Some say love it is a weed and with the suns love becomes a potato"
Potatoes indeed were always concidered weeds. (delicious ones and they feed you)
The seed for God and may it be good and may it be love.

 

[Shouryu]

I can't say that I've had any bad dates, per se. But there is one that was far more unusual than the others, about a decade ago.

We'd been dating about two weeks. She brought me to a LARP (live-action role playing game), based on vampires and vampire clans and whatnot. I didn't have to participate, I only had to attend. I would be considered an NPC (non-playable character), as I was her food supply for the evening (vampires, remember?), granting her additional sustenance for the game.

Oh, and she didn't tell me until she picked me up that the game wasn't in normal costumes that evening, because the gamemaster occasionally like to throw in costume theme nights. Tonight's theme? Pajamas and/or lingerie.



Even beyond the wardrobe situation, I honestly had no idea what was going on. I had conversations with people. People in the game, even...but we didn't talk about vampires. Just small talk. She was out and about talking to all kinds of people. I don't know what she was talking to them about. At first glance, it just looked like our college marching band's annual Jammy Jam, only with about 200 fewer people, a little less drinking, and a little more sluttier attire.

So weird. I'm not knocking LARP. It's just...maybe not make that like, the third date. And maybe not make the first LARP experience the one where everyone (men and women) are kind of slutted up. (I wasn't walking in the faith at the time...you'd think I'd have been all excited, but no...just uncomfortable. And no, I didn't go in my sleepwear.)

Yeah, it never got serious. :/

 

[DuchessAimee]

My worst date isn't something I can mention, but I'll mention an odd one.


I was 21 and had only been dating the guy for about a month. On Valentines Day we went on a double date with his sister and her fiancé. It was a nice evening until my date turns to me and asks me rapid fire questions about how many kids I want, spring or summer wedding, did I know my ring size. His sister noticed my discomfort and kept whisper yelling "shut up!". I was in a bit of shock between his questions and her "shut ups!" so I just sat there. We finished dinner and drive the 30 minutes back home. He said he wanted to talk and explain his questions. I stood on his porch (in the snow) and listened to him explain that he loved me. He knew he wanted to marry me. And he hands me a very cute teddy bear, says good night, and shuts the door. I stood there for a moment and wasn't sure what to do. So I got in my car and drove home.


I dated him for 18 months. Apparently, I can be bought with stuffed animals.

 

[NodMyHeadLikeYeah]

I have too many to list them all, but here are a few.

I had met this guy who was in the navy, every time his ship was in we were always together, he had asked me if we could only just see each other, i really liked him so i was all for it. Anyway
He left for a month to do work ups, and when he came back he called me and said he missed me and wanted to see me that night. We go out to get something to eat and as were sitting there he looks at me and goes, Your starting to get fat. What do you even say to that! So were sitting across from each other he takes my hands and i'm thinkin he's going to apologize , but he says there is this really hot girl over there and she keeps looking at me, should i go ask for her number?
Needless to say that didn't work out.

I had been dating this guy for a good while and it was Valentines day, my favorite place is PF Changs, so he takes me there. The whole night he is looking the girl that seats people up and down. Like i mean seriously checking her out, the i can't even talk to you, what did you just say, sorry i wasn't listening kind of checking her out.
So that was a fun night.

Or how about the time Carlos calls me after our date and says you know, i really like you, and your really hot, but i like really really skinny girls, and if you could just lose ten pounds.....

This next one i just really love. I was with a guy named Brad, and if not for the fact he did drugs, slept with his best friend and lied all the time he would have been great. Anyways, its my birthday and he goes... i've got tickets to this thing, and i know your gonna like it. We go to this "thing im really going to like" and it turns out were seeing this heavy metal band called The death star orchestra.. I mean do i seem like the kind of person who listens to bands called The death star orchestra! Turns out He took me there because his best friend was going to be there, which was a girl just an fyi.

My sister kinda sets me up with this guy at the church we were going to. I was actually really excited because he was a christian and from what i could tell actually acted like one.
We go out on our first date and he tells me all about how his ex girlfriend was so hot, and how she had really big.......... Yeaaaaaaah you can figure out the rest of that.

My favorite one is this.
We had been together for a year when he says this. If i keep calling you the name Rachael by accident it just means i might love you. Rachael was my girlfriend before you....
Why him and i aren't still together is a mystery!

 

[pusparinjani]

went out for a date with a guy, he didn't talk that much, so i had to talk all the time! lol

 

[Tintin]

I've never had a worst date. Actually, I've never even been on a date. There must be some horrible people out there to do these things to you girls (and Shouryu). Not cool!

 

[Elizabeth619]

If it wasn't for bad dates I wouldn't have learned how to defend myself.

 

[rachelsedge]

I've never been on a date, but reading these makes me feel more okay with that. Even though it's been funny reading these, I'm sorry you all had to experience these things!

 

[maxwel]

If it wasn't for bad dates I wouldn't have learned how to defend myself.

This was so horrible it actually made me laugh.

I'm picturing a bunch of guys in the hospital wrapped in bandages.

: )

 

[MissCris]

Hmm...there was the date where the guy "took" me to Olive Garden, flirted with the waitress the whole time, knocked over his drink in my lap, was embarrassed about it, and loudly blamed me for it, then made me pay for dinner.

There was the date where a guy got a call on his shnazzy cell phone and had to take me home super quick because his brother wanted him to go out into the woods and fight invisible things with a sword.

There was a school dance...Valentine's Day dance, I believe...I was going to go with my best friend, but I kept thinking that my ex boyfriend was going to ask me, all last-minute-like, to go with him. He showed up at my house while we were getting ready. I let him in, and he had a teddy bear and a balloon and some candy, and I went to accept it, and he walked right past me...to my friend in the living room. He handed it to her and asked if she'd go out with him. She ran him off, but ouch.

There was a date with my husband that was bad by no fault of his- the guy we had parked next to wanted to beat him up because he thought we'd hit his truck. So that was fun.

There were a couple of dates I went on that I honestly did not realize were actually dates. I thought I'd been asked to hang out as friends, but discovered by the end of the evening that I was expected to give a goodnight kiss or something utterly disturbing like that.

 

[Fenner]

I had someone take me to a frat party for a date. I didn't count it much as a date but he did. That's the icing on the cake I have had many, many bad dates. I think those of you who haven't dated are the smart ones.

 

[Jullianna]

I've only had one "bad" date. A guy took me to his precinct Christmas party. He was the rudest man I've ever met in my life (but was very sweet to me). His own Lt. looked at me like I was insane when we were introduced, shook my hand and said he hoped I came to my senses.

 

[IDEAtor]

I was at a camp for camp purposes, during which a girl asked me to the end-of-camp hula.
She asked me, "Who are you going out with?" I replied, "me, myself, and I."
To which she then inquired, "Would you like to go with another me, myself, I."
So we went together... and that was ALL. Before the line to the food was reached, the two of us went to other peers, respectively.

 

[Elizabeth619]

This was so horrible it actually made me laugh.

I'm picturing a bunch of guys in the hospital wrapped in bandages.

: )

Why men think they can mess with a 5'11 chick who is pretty stout puzzles me.

 

[arwen83]

I believe I mentioned this on here before. My worst date was due to the fact that the guy was so boring. He didn't feel strongly about anything, picked a part his half-eaten sushi (OH THE HUMANITY!), and mentioned that he was dependent on his last girlfriend and long after they broke up, he'd still call her. (!!!!!). He didn't have any friends (most likely due to his dependency). And he went on and on about how he likes to nap, and drive around the city.

 

[ConfusedandTired]

I can't believe guys do things like that lol

 

[presidente]

I was teaching in Korea. Three of my students asked me to go out for lunch or something like that. Two of them were brother and sister. The sister was absolutely gorgeous, one of the prettiest girls I'd seen in Korea. Then the two young men left and the brother, I think, said, "You date her." I think I told them I didn't want to date my students since it wasn't appropriate. Actually, she was Buddhist, too.

Once while dating my wife... I guess it was a date. I took her out to dinner, church, or something just about every night for months starting a few weeks after we met. And I'd probably asked her to marry me by then. Anyway, I brought my wife home at night, and my stalker was waiting for us. She was obsessed with me and was kind of mentally ill. In the conversation with her, my wife told her we were getting married, and she ended up hitting my wife in the face. She had hallucinated, apparently, that my wife was trying to hurt her. She wondered off. I don't remember if we had her family's number at that time to have them pick her up. Maybe we did that night and told them where she went.

 

[NerdChills]

Let us just say....

A mute. That’s right, for whatever reason, this young lady decided on our first date that it is the perfect time to say absolutely nothing at all. How, exactly, can you have nothing to talk about on the first date?! We just met! You literally know nothing about me, yet she couldn't manage to entertain a small conversation? Or the conversation she does entertain is nothing but one-word responses and hard-to-interpret facial expressions to questions only initiated by me. I don't think she realized we were face to face and not texting one another. Sadly, she didn't have the benefit of waiting to come up with clever responses and supplemental emoticons.

Then you have the young women who turns the date into an inquisition. By some off chance we started having a good time half way through the date, and it appeared as if she could look past my immature love of meat because she had already convinced herself that she can totally mold me into at least becoming a vegan after a few guilt trips later in the relationship, it’s still a first date!

Finally, you have the females that turn the date into an unsolicited game of 21-questions simply because we’re having a good time and she can see me being the father to her unborn children based off a positive horoscope reading she received on her iPhone earlier in the day. Asking me how many kids I want to have and when I want to get married is not appropriate first date conversation.