If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept it??

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If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept it??

  • Yes

    Votes: 2 4.8%

  • No

    Votes: 30 71.4%

  • I don't know

    Votes: 4 9.5%

  • Other (explain below)

    Votes: 6 14.3%
  • Total voters
    42
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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Aug 2, 2009
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This will be a Poll.

If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook and they have only 1 mutual friend (a friend who is related but who you barely know), should you accept it??
 
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La_Displuke

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yes you sure should.
 
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Shouryu

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

If I don't know you, I don't trust the request.
 
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La_Displuke

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Shouryu said:
If I don't know you, I don't trust the request.
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That is very close minded.

You have to be a stranger to someone before you meet them, no matter what the setting is that you meet them.
 
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Powemm

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

what is God telling you about it?
 
Fenner

Fenner

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Jan 26, 2013
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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

I think I would ask the other friend a little about the stranger first or take a look at her FB page before accepting.
 
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Tintin

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

They're probably a spammer. Either way they're probably fake. So, no. I wouldn't.
 
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transient

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La_Displuke said:
That is very close minded.

You have to be a stranger to someone before you meet them, no matter what the setting is that you meet them.
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No, it's not.

It's called a FRIEND request, so a request to become friends. You have to get to know each other first before you can become friends. That's why I would never accept such a request from a stranger on FB.

Not that I use FB btw: it's a waste of my time, besides the CIA owns it.


 
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La_Displuke

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

I have made many good friends by accepting requests on facebook. nothing is wrong with it.

The CIA arent going to come into your house and take your job because you accepted a pretty girls friend request.

Trust me.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

I wouldn't. Like tintin said the persons probably fake anyways.
 
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MissCris

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

I don't accept friend requests from anyone I don't know in person, OR that I don't know fairly well from CC. Sometimes, not even then.

Because people are horrible.

:D
 
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Tintin

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

Yes. Yes, they are.
 
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transient

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La_Displuke said:
I have made many good friends by accepting requests on facebook. nothing is wrong with it.

The CIA arent going to come into your house and take your job because you accepted a pretty girls friend request.

Trust me.
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Trust you? See... that's where internet contacts go wrong in the first place... :p


Anyway, that's not the reason.
 
David_1

David_1

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Mar 21, 2011
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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

No because it's usually spammers.
 
CatHerder

CatHerder

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Mar 20, 2013
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zeroturbulence said:
This will be a Poll.

If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook and they have only 1 mutual friend (a friend who is related but who you barely know), should you accept it??
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Tintin said:
They're probably a spammer. Either way they're probably fake. So, no. I wouldn't.
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This is why I only accept friendships from ugly strangers.
 
AsifinPassing

AsifinPassing

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Jul 13, 2010
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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

9/10, no...it's just spam, a hacker, or fake to some degree anyway...

....if you're feeling kind of desperate and interested ( oi...), message them a couple times and talk to that mutual friend first.
 
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Mammachickadee

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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

Doesn't matter if they are attractive or not. What matters is that they are a stranger. Regardless of what they look like you should always find out exactly what they want to befriend you for, and use wisdom and discretion- keeping in mind that your facebook doesn't just involved your privacy, but also that of your friends.
 
Nautilus

Nautilus

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Jun 29, 2012
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Re: If an attractive stranger requests your friendship on facebook should you accept

eh why not. i have actual friends on my FB that I havent acknowledged in years. and if they are attractive what do i have to lose
 
clee356

clee356

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I got this from Wikipedia:

A "catfish" is a person who creates fake personal profiles on social media sites -- pretending to be someone more outwardly appealing than his/her true self, by using someone else's pictures and false biographical information. These "catfish" usually intend to trick an unsuspecting person or persons into falling in love with them.

There's hundreds if not thousands of people who do this... so NO. I will not accept a stranger's friend request.
 
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