Quick note to xAlphaOmega ... just two words for you, buddy - GO PENS!!!!
And GLR, I'm with you ... I'm hoping no one takes 'offense' at me not posting my entire life story ... we'd be here for days! I'm hitting some of these posts with a few words of wisdom because I've been there and done that with some of this stuff, and I hope I can give a little bit of perspective or advice, which may or may not be the case ... but I can always offer prayer. Debate stuff I tend to stay away from ... that's 3/4 of my life - I have two girls, after all