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Really? you were given the answer in the first few posts, but its dragged on. As I said in my first post on this subject, it seems that you are looking for approval, all these questions tend to be a loaded question in that regards.
You asked the question, told Yes it is sex, but then continue to argue its not, which re-inforces the fact you have an agenda to do this and want approval or to be told its not sex so you can fool yourself its nothing wrong and do it.
You asked the question, told Yes it is sex, but then continue to argue its not, which re-inforces the fact you have an agenda to do this and want approval or to be told its not sex so you can fool yourself its nothing wrong and do it.
Hi Imperfect,
I'm not against your thread per se, its post number 52, your language went beyond what is decent. I understand people have these questions, but please take into account your language, and have some respect for something that is Holy between a husband and wife. It is a sexual act, and that is between a husband and wife.
It should not be described or degenerated to smutty and filthy language, Im not saying I disagree with the act but it ultimately is a conversation and for agreement between a husband and wife.
I'm not against your thread per se, its post number 52, your language went beyond what is decent. I understand people have these questions, but please take into account your language, and have some respect for something that is Holy between a husband and wife. It is a sexual act, and that is between a husband and wife.
It should not be described or degenerated to smutty and filthy language, Im not saying I disagree with the act but it ultimately is a conversation and for agreement between a husband and wife.
Where Have I judged you? I said its sex, I said that if you just want to do it, then do it and if you do it you might as well have full intercourse as well. Then I said that if you are looking for a clear mind then you wont get it from people on this forum, but you will have to answer to God.
If you are not looking for this, then its certainly a very bizarre discussion to be having. Sex is sex, oral sex is sex, end of story. no debate needed. Trust me.
If you are not looking for this, then its certainly a very bizarre discussion to be having. Sex is sex, oral sex is sex, end of story. no debate needed. Trust me.
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Like I said from the very beginning.. yes it is a sexual act. But sex it is not. Like i already said, i dont condone it, and in a marriage, to do it to anybody beside your mate is cheating.. you can get STDs from it.. but it is not sex. Its a sexual act. That's the point of the thread. I've had this argument with many people before. Of course its not a argument tho. Its always been a casual debate.
Also, if a virgin did it, yes, they are still a virgin.
Also, if a virgin did it, yes, they are still a virgin.
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What about judging a tree by it's fruits? Or what about how it is our responsibility to not make others stumble? Don't judge? Here you are judging every person on this site by saying that there is no other option than everyone here has had pre-marital oral sex. That's a judgment. And i sense a condescending prideful tone. Scriptures sure come quick to you when you're quoting them out of context to justify your wrong behavior, funny how you conveniently forget about the ones that are in context and go against yours. You're full of the very thing you're pointing the finger at for others.
Lust is a sin, by the way. And what other reason is there for oral sex? So your argument that because people don't consider it sex that it is ok, is not backed by the bible.
These 'judging' quotes you're so quick to throw out refer to Christians not judging non-Christians. Within the church we are to 'judge a tree by it's fruit'.
Lust is a sin, by the way. And what other reason is there for oral sex? So your argument that because people don't consider it sex that it is ok, is not backed by the bible.
These 'judging' quotes you're so quick to throw out refer to Christians not judging non-Christians. Within the church we are to 'judge a tree by it's fruit'.
Incorrect. I have not been judgemental or disrespectful. I am just telling how it is. I was having sexual relationship with my wife before you were born, so I know a thing or two about it.
I want to know why you are making such a big issue about it. As I said before, most people who ask these questions and want to define it are always seeking approval from peers and the social group before embarking on it, or looking to ease their guilt ridden mind.
Again I say that if this does not apply to you, then why such a bizzare question to debate.
I want to know why you are making such a big issue about it. As I said before, most people who ask these questions and want to define it are always seeking approval from peers and the social group before embarking on it, or looking to ease their guilt ridden mind.
Again I say that if this does not apply to you, then why such a bizzare question to debate.
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