Do you consider "oral sex" sex?

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phil36

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Imperfect said:
Like I said from the very beginning.. yes it is a sexual act. But sex it is not. Like i already said, i dont condone it, and in a marriage, to do it to anybody beside your mate is cheating.. you can get STDs from it.. but it is not sex. Its a sexual act. That's the point of the thread. I've had this argument with many people before. Of course its not a argument tho. Its always been a casual debate.

Also, if a virgin did it, yes, they are still a virgin.
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Its sin with anyother than your spouse. And being a sexual act it is only for MARRIAGE.
 
Agricola

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One would not lose their virginity by partaking in this act.. but can not claim to be untouched either.
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Correct, some people do not beleive in things such as soul ties, but really we all have spirits and the bible indicates that any kind of interaction between two humans has a huge impact on each other spirits and souls. Soul ties are not to be ignored.
 
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Easiest thing to answer, The answer is in the bible..... Any sex not performed like god intended it too, is SIN and UNGODLY...

God says women will be justified by bearing children, and children is still made the same way Adam and Eve made them.
All other childmaking is NOT NATURAL! Natural love is God's way, no other.

And to show how SERIOUS God is about this, even sexual thoughts OUTSIDE the Husband wife NATURAL way, is sin...
 
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Agricola said:
Correct, some people do not beleive in things such as soul ties, but really we all have spirits and the bible indicates that any kind of interaction between two humans has a huge impact on each other spirits and souls. Soul ties are not to be ignored.
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I do not want to get too graphic and would never of thought i would partake in such conversation in the Bible study.

Keep yourself pure of such acts i would say to anyone who asked.
 
posthuman

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one doesn't technically become a bank robber by driving the getaway car, but you can go to jail for it just the same.
 
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one doesn't technically become a bank robber by driving the getaway car, but you can go to jail for it just the same.
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What does the getaway driver get charged with?

i like your reasoning though.
 
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this seems like its suppose to be on some other, forum on a different web site. The question was not even asked, if there was some biblical statement for or against this .

The Bible talks about perversions having to do with lasciviousness an licentiousness . It does not seem hygienic at all. It's a good way to spread a disease directly to the face. Not good a good idea.

You know the old saying, would you kiss your mother with that mouth .
 
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We are told to make righteous judgments - John 7:24 "Stop judging by surface appearances, and judge the right way!" And we wonder why there is so much discord in in the "Christian" community! Sin is sin. It always has been and always will be. And real Christians are warned to flee from it, avoid it, etc. And real Christians do. To be Christian is to be Christ-like which is to be like Jesus.

Does anyone really think Jesus would have asked anyone that question? The question was totally out of line.
 
phil36

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It depends what you mean by that? is it a more modern definition, or a biblical one?
 
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Of course it is, lol.
 
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This thread shouldn't be in the Bible Discussion Forum and is getting WAY to explicit at times.
 
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These Christians are something else. If they don't agree with you, then they feel they have the right to judge you.

Somebody's called me unstable because I don't feel its the same lol. Is this a race to the dumbest insults / judgments.
 
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If you don't see it the way I see it even after I explained it in the ways I did, then you really are.not trying to listen which makes you close minded. And just stubborn.
 
jandian

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Sweetheart whether oral sex is is sex or not, Christians are not to participate in it outside of marriage (and I am NOT talking about whether it should be practised by Christians or not - that's another thread). I think that's pretty much what needs to be clear.
They way you see it is not relevant. How God sees it is what matter. If you know this God, can you honestly say that HE would approve of this behaviour in the context you are suggesting?

Choose righteousness honey. If you are struggling with it; JESUS is able
 
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This got ugly because nobody is staying on subject. People are just rambling and insulting.

Read all my posts before you post.
 
RogueforGod

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T-Laurich, the good thing is. This debate is over. The OP did not have any real justification for this position. You exposed a ton of flaws in his logic. He has rebutted none of them. We can keep talking, but the argument is over.
 
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Its not a suprise nobody is staying on subject. People are trying to educate me on something I already know. And are trying to find me guilty on something I don't even partake in. Nobo,dy wants to read. But everybody wants to judge and act like they know who they are judging and talking to.
 
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RogueforGod said:
T-Laurich, the good thing is. This debate is over. The OP did not have any real justification for this position. You exposed a ton of flaws in his logic. He has rebutted none of them. We can keep talking, but the argument is over.
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Sex is sex and oral pleasure is oral pleasure
 
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