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MissCris
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One thing that has been a problem in my area with churches(and I assume many other areas as well) is people take advantage of charity from churches so they have become more strict on who they give to.
One example is a young couple with children were struggling to pay rent, so a church her gave them $1,000.00 to catch up on rent. The couple ended up blowing the money on other things like video games, a new tv, etc. Then the couple asks for more money. What's a church to do? Give more money knowing they're just going to blow it?
I've seen this same sort of thing happen with people on food stamps a lot. I used to work as a cashier at a grocery store, and I would say that for every 5 people who came through and used food stamps, 3 of those people were purchasing mainly crap food. I'm not talking about buying a bag of chips or a carton of ice cream or whatever along with some produce or meat or stuff to make meals out of; a lot of these people would spend 100 bucks on ONLY chips, ice cream, cookies...stuff that wasn't going to nourish anyone and wouldn't last tan entire week.
I know it isn't my place to judge them for what they do with their assistance here, but it was always so frustrating to see that happen, because there were other people who would come through my check-line and pay for a pound of hamburger or a jar of peanut butter with coins.
That's just how people are anymore, I guess...they get in a tight spot and someone helps them, and they waste the money :/