i hate dad

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Tintin

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#21
Hopefully your dad is saying these things because he loves you and wants the best for you, not for you to ruin your life with drugs and alcohol. That could be why your spelling is so bad. Or maybe you're just lazy. But I'm getting the feeling that you're a troll.
 
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Pcc1996

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#22
At your age it is hard to understand how much your dad loves you, but as a parent, we love our kids more than life itself and we just want to protect our children. Every teen goes through a time where they hate their parents, but I promise that will all change. Please don't do things you will regret later in life....decisions have consequences!
 
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Something's wrong with this picture.
You are a juvenile delinquent who has access to the internet?
If I had a 13 year-old, which I might,
he wouldn't have the opportunity to be getting high or drunk,
and on the off chance he did and got caught,
he sure wouldn't have access to any devices with which he could get online.

Something's very wrong here.
This is either a totally out of control family situation,
in which case the police should be involved,
or your whole persona is a hoax.
I agree. Something is wrong here.

1. 13 yr olds can't get high with adults......they don't want kids around.
2. 13 yr olds could only do this with other kids..... then they would get caught because they're foolish & off their rocker when they're high.......
3. Spelling is too ridiculous.... even for someone who would be in special education......everybody that misspells words has a particular signature to their spelling, such as "e" in place of "i", "ee" instead of "ea", etc....this one is too random.
4. This person has multiple names....... at least 2.....
Join Date October 21st, 2013
Join Date September 22nd, 2013

5. This person enjoys staying behind the line of getting banned to draw fire from unsuspecting christians to enjoy making them look....... well, you get the picture.
6. This person is nothing like they claim........since he/she plays multiple roles, he/she has plenty of time on their hands in front of a computer screen.
7. This person is posting at all hours of the day......regardless of the time zone, he/she is posting during school hours.

Seven is a good number..... I'll stop right there.
 
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nw2u

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#24
Just wondering if your dad punished you for your choice to disobey him. What was that punishment?
 
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Tintin

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#25
I agree. Something is wrong here.

1. 13 yr olds can't get high with adults......they don't want kids around.
2. 13 yr olds could only do this with other kids..... then they would get caught because they're foolish & off their rocker when they're high.......
3. Spelling is too ridiculous.... even for someone who would be in special education......everybody that misspells words has a particular signature to their spelling, such as "e" in place of "i", "ee" instead of "ea", etc....this one is too random.
4. This person has multiple names....... at least 2.....
Join Date October 21st, 2013
Join Date September 22nd, 2013

5. This person enjoys staying behind the line of getting banned to draw fire from unsuspecting christians to enjoy making them look....... well, you get the picture.
6. This person is nothing like they claim........since he/she plays multiple roles, he/she has plenty of time on their hands in front of a computer screen.
7. This person is posting at all hours of the day......regardless of the time zone, he/she is posting during school hours.

Seven is a good number..... I'll stop right there.
Ah, seven. The number of completion.
 
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nw2u

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#26
I think the first thing I'd do as a discipline or consequence or punishment would be to take the cable or phone cord from the computer so that the only thing you could do is use it for your English assignments using Word, IF that's even done in this day and age. I know, I used to have to write everything. Typing was too time consuming and we were not taught that until we chose it as an elective in the 9th grade, way back before Al Gore even thought about inventing the internet. haha

Edit: There were no computers or word processors at the time. If your family had an electric typewriter, you were a lucky child.
 
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eminemjrxx

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i aint spoiled. And my dad sed i aint alowd out except for schol and at home hes gona chek up on me regurly and i aint alowd any video games and i gota do all my homework and hes gona make me redo it if it aint rite and yea that includes spelling and its for 3weeks but if im relly good at schol he mite shorten it. :/
 
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Tintin

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i aint spoiled. And my dad sed i aint alowd out except for schol and at home hes gona chek up on me regurly and i aint alowd any video games and i gota do all my homework and hes gona make me redo it if it aint rite and yea that includes spelling and its for 3weeks but if im relly good at schol he mite shorten it. :/
Lay off the drugs and alcohol and that will help your schooling efforts.
 
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eminemjrxx

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#29
I no. I am tryna stop the drugs and i was only drinking cos it was my mates birthday.
 
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Tintin

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I no. I am tryna stop the drugs and i was only drinking cos it was my mates birthday.
Good - in regards to the drugs. As for drinking at your mate's party, that needs to stop. You're 13. Wait until you're 18 and it's legal. Also, learn to only drink in moderation. If you can't do that, I highly recommend you stay away completely from alcohol. Good luck.
 
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eminemjrxx

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I agree. Something is wrong here.1. 13 yr olds can't get high with adults......they don't want kids around.2. 13 yr olds could only do this with other kids..... then they would get caught because they're foolish & off their rocker when they're high.......3. Spelling is too ridiculous.... even for someone who would be in special education......everybody that misspells words has a particular signature to their spelling, such as "e" in place of "i", "ee" instead of "ea", etc....this one is too random. 4. This person has multiple names....... at least 2.....Join Date October 21st, 2013Join Date September 22nd, 20135. This person enjoys staying behind the line of getting banned to draw fire from unsuspecting christians to enjoy making them look....... well, you get the picture.6. This person is nothing like they claim........since he/she plays multiple roles, he/she has plenty of time on their hands in front of a computer screen.7. This person is posting at all hours of the day......regardless of the time zone, he/she is posting during school hours.Seven is a good number..... I'll stop right there.
1. i dont get high with adults.2. inside a house it aint likely to get caught.3. sorry bout the spelling. i am lerning and i hope u can tell that i am tryna make a efort.4. i joined october 21st 5. huh? 6. how do i have multiple roles?7. im in uk atm so i havent been posting in school hours the times just difernt heer.
 
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#35
Oops. Sorry, naive Aussie coming through!
yeah well I never understood the 21 thing anyway.. able to vote at 18, able to go to war and die for the nation at 18, but get caught drinking at 18,19, or 20 and go to jail.. never made sense to me.

but i dont like booze anyway
 

Lucy68

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Sometimes our dads correct us in ways that will build resentment...like shouting or cursing....but they are still our dads and the Bible says we are to honor them; which means obey them even when we don't want to.

Yes, he didn't say 'don't drink' but I have a feeling you knew that this was wrong without him having to mention it. There are many other things he didn't mention, and did not need to because you already know they are wrong...like 'don't light the house on fire', etc.

Do you attend church? You may really enjoy going to a youth group...they do some really fun things. Find some healthy ways to spend your time! God will meet you where you're at :).
 
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eminemjrxx

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#37
well i no its wrong but i wanted to and all my mates were so at the time it didnt seem that bad
 
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savedandhopeful

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#38
If you are not of legal drinking age, then yes it is bad..no matter what your friends do/say...you are only 13....the activities you are engaging in are NOT good....you should be concentrating on learning and correcting your spelling issues...not drugs and drinking....spare time you spend on doing things that can be harmful to yourself could be spent on bettering yourself and learning...
 
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eminemjrxx

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#39
Well i got 3week to concentrate on school work and spelling now.