Getting into relationships is not difficult at all, but getting into the RIGHT/healthy ones can certainly be.
If what the OP means is how does she go about meeting someone and developing a relationship with a man, I would suggest:
1. Observe the men around you. Men you work with. Men at your church. Godly family friends and people in your community. Watch them carefully for a time so you know who they are, not who they want you to think they are if they eventually ask you out.
2. Pray for God's guidance. Pray that He will protect you from those who seek to take advantage of you or may hurt you in some way. And pray that he would reveal the TRUE man to you should you find him..his true heart.
2. If there is one you like, do as Gabe suggested. Find a way to talk with him.
- Someone at work? Bake a tray of cookies for the entire office, but take HIM a couple with a cup of coffee or something, make eye contact and smile.
You don't need to say anything. Unless he is completely dense, he will know the ball is now in his court.
- At church? In a Bible study? As you are leaving and walk by him, take a moment to tell him how much you respect him as a godly man or appreciate something he may have said.
- Family friend? November is the season for family get-togethers.
TALK
with him. A lot.
Smile.
A lot.
3. If he is interested, take.your.time.
Enjoy one another's company. Have fun. Laugh. Talk about EVERYTHING with one another, not AT one another. GO TO CHURCH TOGETHER. BE THERE for one another, but don't suffocate or smother one another. Give him space to do things he likes without you and vice versa.
4. If things get serious, get to know his family. You'll learn a lot this way. Especially with regard to how he relates to the women in his family.
5. PRAY. A lot. Listen and obey what God puts on your heart, even if you don't like it.