Predestined For Bachelorhood?

[ServantStrike]

Art brother, what is it exactly you are looking for?

There have been some dynamite discussions across two threads and it does not seem as though it has given you peace. I sent you a PM last night asking if you wanted to talk about what was bothering you and you have not responded.

I seem to get the impression you feel you are in some sort of dark no win situation, but all of the times that someone has said something that may have given hope, it has not done much to improve your outlook.

Will you let me help you? I went from a man who was convinced that no woman would ever love him to a man who is no longer bitter - a man who is hopeful for the future. This is even after in my Christian walk the pastors daughter decided to issue some very unflattering public correction about my dating life (which is funny because I wasn't even trying to date at the time). The scars of that event took years to heal but perhaps that experience can bear some fruit if it helps you.


Will you let us help you? Will you let me help you?

 

[DuchessAimee]

He doesn't want help. He wants attention and strife.

 

[Art05]

He doesn't want help. He wants attention and strife.

How revealing, coming from a troll.

And the last person I'd want attention from is you.

 

[kenthomas27]

(an Iontophoresis....It's a pretty simple machine. Just a series of batteries connected to each other. A monkey can build it.

monkeys..............this opens up some possibilities for me

 

[DuchessAimee]

How revealing, coming from a troll.

And the last person I'd want attention from is you.

LOL Keep talking; you're just digging yourself a deeper hole.

 

[mykim]

monkeys..............this opens up some possibilities for me

monkeys are vile creatures. Just saw a video of a gorilla eating his own feces and sharing it with a younger gorilla. Elephants are even worse with their own waste. And atheists say we evolved from apes... right.

 

[ServantStrike]

monkeys are vile creatures. Just saw a video of a gorilla eating his own feces and sharing it with a younger gorilla. Elephants are even worse with their own waste. And atheists say we evolved from apes... right.

Well... at least he was sharing right? Yeah not really...


You on the other hand, are a child of God and the exact opposite of a vile creature. It gets better. I can't give you a time frame, but it gets better.

 

[kenthomas27]

monkeys are vile creatures.

vile?



rhymes with bile


doesn't it?

 

[Tintin]

Art, conviction and judgement are two very different things. Also, don't play the innocent party, you're not.

 

[kenthomas27]

monkeys are vile creatures. Just saw a video of a gorilla eating his own feces and sharing it with a younger gorilla. Elephants are even worse with their own waste. And atheists say we evolved from apes... right.

Mykim - I just c&p'd this poem from GreenNnice:

I wrote a haiku that no one 'like.'
So, I'm not writing another, with hopes of one 'like.'
That's my goal and it makes perfect sense, like
a foal that's just been born in goooey uckiness.

And, if no one likes this poem at all, I'll
scream from the seashore with all my lungs.
And, then I will go and get some horse dung
and take it to the seashore and skip it on the sea's surface.
Flung. Flung. Flung. I'll say, 'That dung really hums.'
And, oh does it ever smell, from my hands, smelly and brown.

And, I'll then go to the tops of the highest mountains and
isn't it great that Kansas lost to Colorado in basketball?

Soooo - do you wanna rethink this feces thing?

 

[rachelsedge]

It does not matter what the qualities are. Women are obviously attracted to looks, confidence, personality, financial stability, spirituality, and maybe even social status.

Yes, how dare I be attracted to someone's personality and spirituality.

Please tell me what us women are "supposed" to be attracted to, then? If none of those things?

 

[Art05]

LOL Keep talking; you're just digging yourself a deeper hole.

lol okay.

*Imagining you repeating this statement in an empty room, sitting in a wooden chair, and staring a a wall*

haha

 

[LightningClap0002]

Yes, how dare I be attracted to someone's personality and spirituality.

Please tell me what us women are "supposed" to be attracted to, then? If none of those things?

Well... some of us just didn't get dealt great personalities. So there better be something else! How about being attracted to their masculine hands?

 

[rachelsedge]

Well... some of us just didn't get dealt great personalities. So there better be something else! How about being attracted to their masculine hands?

The thing about personalities is that different personalities are attractive to different people. There are some guys I know I wouldn't be a good girlfriend for because of personality differences. It's not that they are bad, or that there is something unattractive about their personality, it's just that ours wouldn't click. But for someone else, they might.

I'm not sure if you were being serious or not with your first sentence, since the last one is in jest (or maybe it's not?), but I decided to answer seriously anyway.

 

[Art05]

Art, conviction and judgement are two very different things. Also, don't play the innocent party, you're not.

haha You seem to be on the defensive for someone.

Block people that are bullying you online, and being rude. That's what I'm saying.

It amazes me that you completely disregarded the Scripture I gave you. But maybe I should really stop being amazed with the "Christians" on here lol.

 

[Art05]

Yes, how dare I be attracted to someone's personality and spirituality.

Please tell me what us women are "supposed" to be attracted to, then? If none of those things?

Oh my goodness, leave the guy alone.

 

[ServantStrike]

Well... some of us just didn't get dealt great personalities. So there better be something else! How about being attracted to their masculine hands?

Learn quotes. Lots of them.

Or, research interesting topics to discuss with people.

 

[Descyple]

I was predestined to bring joy and happiness into the lives of all the women God brings into my life.

Unfortunately, I don't follow orders very well!!!

 

[Art05]

Originally Posted by mykim

It does not matter what the qualities are. Women are obviously attracted to looks, confidence, personality, financial stability, spirituality, and maybe even social status.

Yes, how dare I be attracted to someone's personality and spirituality.

Please tell me what us women are "supposed" to be attracted to, then? If none of those things?

Looks: I'm out.
Confidence: Confidence? What man has overall, perfect confidence?! This concept of the "attractive confidence" makes no sense at all. This is why you don't listen to a woman when it comes to these things.
Personality: The Christian "nice guy" personality is the only personality that is attractive to truly born again women.
Financial stability: I'm out lol. And if these women are waiting for this, then they'll probably get married in their 40's lol. I'm mean, what single person is financially "stable"?
Spirituality: Loves to go to the house of God and doesn't lay out like a backslider, loves to read the Word of God, loves to pray in solitude and with his girlfriend and wife ... um, loves to have CONVERSATIONS about Biblical topics, loves to fellowship with the saints AND NOT WITH WORLDLY PEOPLE, doesn't curse, smoke, drink, watch worldly movies or television shows (because all of these are against the will of God), ... um, a man that is determined to be the HEAD of the woman and the household when married, one that will court her with respect, one that will not touch her nor kiss her until she says I do before their pastor, ... um, one that will determine to be the spiritual leader of the home, the high priest of the family ... um, I'll think of more later. So far, this is what's on my heart for myself.
Social status: We're all out lol.

 

[LightningClap0002]

The thing about personalities is that different personalities are attractive to different people. There are some guys I know I wouldn't be a good girlfriend for because of personality differences. It's not that they are bad, or that there is something unattractive about their personality, it's just that ours wouldn't click. But for someone else, they might.

I'm not sure if you were being serious or not with your first sentence, since the last one is in jest (or maybe it's not?), but I decided to answer seriously anyway.

I'll tell ya when I figure it out.