**WARNING** If you are content in your life whining about how horrible everything is, if you are easily offended and want to believe that everything bad that has ever happened is someone else' fault then DON'T READ THIS POST!!!!!!
**DISCLAIMER** This post is not directed at any specific person
After spending entirely too much time lately reading posts about how terrible it is that women won't step up and do the manly thing by initiating a relationship, "nice guys" having it so rough, etc. ad nauseam I felt inclined to post this since I'm sure many have been thinking it.
It's time to put your big boy pants on and be a man.
Why don't ladies initiate relationships? Because it isn't in their nature!!! God created women with the innate need to be desired and persued. If you want her, then go after her!! If she doesn't share your interest, put your big boy pants on and move on. What? You aren't willing to risk having your tender feelings hurt? Then obviously you don't want her that bad, you better learn to enjoy single life.
Why do "nice guys" seem to finish last? Because a woman needs a MAN. God created women with the need to know that they are going to be protected and "nice guys" don't tend to fill this position too well, they're usually too busy being nice. I'm still trying to figure out where this modern idea of Jesus being a "nice guy" came from. The last time I checked "nice guys" aren't too prone to chase people with a whip or verbally attack those in authority who are in the wrong.
So you have issues with being insecure, emotionally damaged, or a poor self image? Put on your big boy pants and do something about it. There is nothing wrong with having problems, but a man recognizes his weaknesses and does what it takes to fix them.
Life is full of risks and those who dive in and take the risks are the ones who get the rewards.
**DISCLAIMER** This post is not directed at any specific person
After spending entirely too much time lately reading posts about how terrible it is that women won't step up and do the manly thing by initiating a relationship, "nice guys" having it so rough, etc. ad nauseam I felt inclined to post this since I'm sure many have been thinking it.
It's time to put your big boy pants on and be a man.
Why don't ladies initiate relationships? Because it isn't in their nature!!! God created women with the innate need to be desired and persued. If you want her, then go after her!! If she doesn't share your interest, put your big boy pants on and move on. What? You aren't willing to risk having your tender feelings hurt? Then obviously you don't want her that bad, you better learn to enjoy single life.
Why do "nice guys" seem to finish last? Because a woman needs a MAN. God created women with the need to know that they are going to be protected and "nice guys" don't tend to fill this position too well, they're usually too busy being nice. I'm still trying to figure out where this modern idea of Jesus being a "nice guy" came from. The last time I checked "nice guys" aren't too prone to chase people with a whip or verbally attack those in authority who are in the wrong.
So you have issues with being insecure, emotionally damaged, or a poor self image? Put on your big boy pants and do something about it. There is nothing wrong with having problems, but a man recognizes his weaknesses and does what it takes to fix them.
Life is full of risks and those who dive in and take the risks are the ones who get the rewards.
