"Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!"

ServantStrike · Dec 14, 2013

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Green, you are a very special and patient brother in Christ. God bless you.

Do you like fire trucks? I like them because they don't put me in the friend zone. Also, really big diesel engines are pretty cool. They usually have two. One to drive the truck, and another which is dedicated to pumping water.

Imperfect · Dec 14, 2013

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im a Christian that likes to discuss things and politic with other honest and fair Christians... that is not found here.

DorothyG · Dec 14, 2013

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Art, do you have any pictures of yourself you'd be willing to share?

GreenNnice · Dec 14, 2013

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colalella2891 said:

Is that true? Is that why someone is friend-zoned in your opinion, colakidella? Or, is that something you read from someone else's post earlier?

Sorry, I am lazy, I should go and find it myself but, I thought, you could answer this sooner.

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I also think that's good insight, if that's the way it is from the girl's point of view for being 'friend-zoned.'

I guess, in most cases, that can't be a reason from the guy's point of view, when he friend-zones a girl, because
she doesn't, in most cases, do the asking out.

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Personally, and, not sure I said this already earlier ,but, 'friend-zoned' to me just means that you too get along REAL GOOD but only as friends. But there just isn't that spark to the relationship. You're always going to be good friends but that's it, neither one of you does things that encourages the other person to a creative level beyond what a good best friend can do. You NEED something, rather , someone more.
That's not to knock you being friend-zoned, it's just BEST that you are just FRIENDS because of that reason, I think.

The Lord leads.

I don't think this can be equated with 'you want to marry your best friend.' I don't mean that ONLY. There is 'that' dimension to the person you like that is a REAL GOOD friend, but, there is also a mystery to them, or, something they like to do that's different, exCiting, than just your best friend. They COMPLETE you in feeling ways that your best friend just can't do because they've been friend-zoned and getting that mentality out of one's mind is very difficult, if not, impossible.

'Course, we all know, ALL things are possible with God

There are movies of this nature and in the hollywood world the just best friends become lovers, in that, they love each other in the Christian sense, I'm saying, if they are Christians. 'Course, in hollywood , they become from best friends to lovers and, often, have sex, so that the world can THINK that's an acceptable practice for that kind of realization or maturation of a relationship .

GreenNnice · Dec 14, 2013

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Imperfect said:

I love you, brother, and, I'm not saying anything to anyone one way and another another way. NO

And , regarding your name, imperfectperfection, we are ALL imperfect perfections that Christ made, He sees us as perfect in His eyes in all our perfections when we just turn our life over to Him

GreenNnice · Dec 14, 2013

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ServantStrike said:

Hey, you , too , brother, and, we are all special in His eyes, that's how I see it, anyway, and, nothing I say truly comes from me, Hisservantstriker, it's the Lord, I hope and pray, He MUST be who speaks through me, or, else my words are nothing more than nothing, which is nothing

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yes, I am sure I had a fire truck growing up similar looking to that one, only a replica, of course. I can almost remember the cool fire hose on it and ladder going up and down and swinging around and all. I didn't know that about diesel engines (plural) being in fire trucks, I would have thought a pump for the hose but didn't realize that a 2nd engine would run it, but, I guess that makes sense. You're quite knowledgable of things of tech and such , a blessed gift from Him, like the thread you started on your cool, fast internet speed in your home.

The Lord leads, bro, blessings, thank you for encouragement to me. May God bless you (greatly) for it

Praus · Dec 14, 2013

Gen 3:14-15 And the LORD God said unto the serpent, Because thou hast done this, thou [art] cursed above all cattle, and above every beast of the field; upon thy belly shalt thou go, and dust shalt thou eat all the days of thy life: And I will put enmity between thee and the woman, and between thy seed and her seed; it shall bruise thy head, and thou shalt bruise his heel.

Rev 12:9 And the great dragon was cast out, that old serpent, called the Devil, and Satan, which deceiveth the whole world: he was cast out into the earth, and his angels were cast out with him.

Gen 6:2 That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they [were] fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.

[video=youtube;7QkhkMRWb28]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7QkhkMRWb28[/video]

colalella2891 · Dec 14, 2013

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GreenNnice said:

Is that true? Is that why someone is friend-zoned in your opinion, colakidella? Or, is that something you read from someone else's post earlier?

Sorry, I am lazy, I should go and find it myself but, I thought, you could answer this sooner.

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I also think that's good insight, if that's the way it is from the girl's point of view for being 'friend-zoned.'

I guess, in most cases, that can't be a reason from the guy's point of view, when he friend-zones a girl, because
she doesn't, in most cases, do the asking out.

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Personally, and, not sure I said this already earlier ,but, 'friend-zoned' to me just means that you too get along REAL GOOD but only as friends. But there just isn't that spark to the relationship. You're always going to be good friends but that's it, neither one of you does things that encourages the other person.

I don't think this can be equated with 'you want to marry your best friend.' I don't mean that ONLY. There is 'that' dimension to the person you like that is a REAL GOOD friend, but, there is also a mystery to them, or, something they like to do that's different, exCiting, than just your best friend. They COMPLETE you in feeling ways that your best friend just can't do because they've been friend-zoned and getting that mentality out of one's mind is very difficult, if not, impossible.

'Course, we all know, ALL things are possible with God

There are movies of this nature and in the hollywood world the just best friends become lovers, in that, they love each other in the Christian sense, I'm saying, if they are Christians. 'Course, in hollywood , they become from best friends to lovers and, often, have sex, so that the world can THINK that's an acceptable practice for that kind of realization or maturation of a relationship .

Yeah, I did see it in an earlier post, and I agree with it (I guess) because it seems to make sense... But lol yeah, the girl doesn't often make the first move, so I guess that is more from the girl's perspective.

I have friend zoned a girl before.

And from my perspective of doing it, I just wasn't interested in dating her. I didn't see her as a potential girlfriend.

And the rest of your post made me think GreenNnice.

Very insightful.

GreenNnice · Dec 14, 2013

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Imperfect said:

So, does that make sense why I call you imperfectperfection, now, imperfect?

It is NOT a knock on you in any way, shape, or, form, I nic everyone that let's me, LOL, and, brother, you're just trying to discuss things as the Lord leads you, it's OK; we all have seasons of anger in our lives and things that are getting us down. That's just the time to grow closer to God because He will get you through that season and bring you up WHEN you humble yourself in the sight of the Lord.

Again, I did not even read through you and johannpraus' past comments, at all, of argument, so, I really could take neither side and didn't. All I'm saying is that we all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God and that we're all doing things ,wrong, all the time, but, through Christ, who is the ONLY one perfect ever to have walked the Earth, we are ALL forgiven, and, therefore, He has forgotten our wrongs.

CC is a great place to discuss things of the Lord and subjects of importance to singles in the world will not be a place of (much) discussion here; the Spirit will arrive and reinforce our choice of having dedicated our lives to Christ so those Earthly things become less and less discussed and of less and less importance in our 'SPIRITUAL things' life seeked

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Anyway, sorry, to julieannie, I know, this thread's been de-railed and I'm at cause too.
Blessings, milady .

The Lord Leads

GreenNnice · Dec 14, 2013

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colalella2891 said:

Thank you colakidella, I'm going to go back in the thread and see where that is said about girls friendzoning guys cuz they don't ask them out soon enough . Interesting ! That is good insight to me, so, I'm glad you brought that up, brother.

And, God bless you, too, for your kind words to me tonight. I hope and pray that you can be bold in your life, helping both your mom and dad as He leads, you are so precious to them both, even when you don't see it. He will show you when you seek Him with all your heart, for His Spirit is in your heart and He hears everything you give to Him and will show you His plans for you as your heart delights more and more in His ways for you

Psalm 37:4 .

buckets · Dec 14, 2013

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To the guys..

is it wrong to put someone in the friend zone?
Should we just remove them altogether when not interested?

TaylorTG · Dec 14, 2013

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buckets said:

I would rather be "friend-zoned" then outright ignored, but that won't be my choice.

DragonSlayer · Dec 14, 2013

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Well, back in the time of Jesus and His disciples in Jerusalem, men used to never talk to women outside who were not their relatives or who were not their spouses. There was not that gigantic hassle brought by " dating " and " friendzone ".
There was only courting ! I'm in love with that marvelous and heavenly concept of courting btw

If a man was interested in a woman, he would just tell his parents, and his parents would just meet the woman's parents to ask for the woman's hand in marriage for their son, and bam, if the woman would agree, they would get engaged, they would live together but in separate bedrooms for some time like Joseph and Mary did ( I guess it was a very thorough test before taking the final step of marriage together, to see if they were fully compatible together, if they could get along very well, if they truly love each other,
if the potential spouse is faithful, good cook, hard worker, good character,
God fearing, clean, respectful, slow to anger, etc.
without doing anything intimate of course,
no " test drive " before marriage here ! )
and some time later,
they would get happily married with a team of children some years later. I love happy endings

Hassle-free guaranteed !

GreenNnice · Dec 14, 2013

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Too much to go through in this thread, I'm lazy

, but, yeah, I think, that's interesting , whoever said that a guy gets friend-zoned because he doesn't ask a girl out soon enough. I did a thread on this subject a while back so maybe that's why it is interesting.

So, maybe we need another thread. "Reasons for being friend-zoned by a girl"

1. The guy talks to me all the time but never asks me out, then, he, finally, does, but it's too late, I know everything about him and just don't see it working out because of the fact we don't have anything to really discover about each other.

Now, that said, I think, that the Lord must be prayed to, because a guy who is talking to you all the time and saying all kinds of things about himself just may be SAVING THE BEST FOR LAST, that is, when he, actually, ASKS you out.

So, don't be too cautionary with that friend you 'zoned,' miladies, who, FIANLLY!, asks you out. He just might be the perfect guy for you because of that very reason, becuase you know EXACTLY who he is. And, then, from there, it will only get better of a relationship as the Lord brings that guy of yours to become more and more new to you, and, to himself. And, this change and newness of your guy happens as YOU inspire him, your presence in his life

And, so, you go places together and he finds out more about himself that he NEVER KNEW existed until you decided to go out with him; win-win situation, isn't it

That was quite a reason for NOT putting a guy in the friendzone toooo quickly, huh, miladies. Remember, ALWAYS, remember, the Lord leads.

"...you follow Me."

Sometimes, it just has to be that way for a guy, FRIENDZONED!

But, I say above everything already, Hisbucket, but, yeah, there are times when you might be friend-zoning to quickly. Pray, the Lord leads

DragonSlayer · Dec 16, 2013

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Sometimes a mistake happens. Humans make mistakes. And well I made one in my last post here.

Clearly, I don't know how the Jews organized themselves to get married in the time of Jesus, so I tried to make some hypothesis from the little evidence provided here and here in the Scriptures.
Just consider what I said before as a hypothesis.
I don't know what Jews did before to get married,
but I know for sure it had nothing to do with " dating " and " friendzone " !

About my hypothesis, I checked recently in the Gospel of Matthew that Joseph had the right to consume his marriage with Mary after he took home Mary as wife; so it appears the day a woman come to a man's home in the time of Jesus, she is no longer his fiancée, but she becomes his wife.
I admit the Jesus movie based on the Gospel of Luke and realized in 1979 confused me as well; for they don't show how Joseph and Mary
met each other, get engaged, and get married. So it leaves room for many assumptions, hypothesis, and sometimes, well, mistakes.

About the parents told in my hypothesis, I have to tell that orphans and abused children who never had parents can choose spiritual parents among elders they trust and love in their churches to represent their parents.

There is only one Father anyway, in Heaven,

and the incorruptible bodies won't have belly buttons in the first resurrection, thanks God.

Donkeyfish07 · Dec 16, 2013

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buckets said:

I don't think it's wrong at all. It's always the guys fault if he ends up there, every single time. He should say he's not interested in being just friends if he doesn't want to be just friends. If he's says he is ok with being just friends but he's really not.....it's not your fault he's lying to you.

Art05 · Dec 16, 2013

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NodMyHeadLikeYeah said:

Truth teller.

Art05 · Dec 16, 2013

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DorothyG said:

Freaky ....

If I do, you'll see every thread I begin abandoned by every female on this site lol.

Believe me, of the worst things I've ever done in my life is share my picture with people, especially women. Their reactions have been ... let's just say they've never been attracted lol

Goodbye.

Art05 · Dec 16, 2013

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Lol It's crazy how far this thread went without my involvement. I don't regret it, though.

Some of you might think that I hate this sort of stuff, but I'm actually starting to like it

And if you think that you were annoying me by posting up alot of your stupidity, well then ... you're plumb ignorant hahahaha

Praus · Dec 16, 2013

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Art05 said:

We saw the quality of your leadership and responded appropriately.

Eph 5:23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body.

Art05 said:

Job 28:7 [There is] a path which no fowl knoweth, ...

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