haha No one really is. And the ones that aren't still get together and have great marriages.
Your argument is invalid
Your argument is invalid
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I'm pretty sure what he means is that wallowing in your self-pity and sorrows isn't going to get you into a relationship any quicker. One thing that turns a woman off is a guy that's just desperate to be in a relationship for the sake of a relationship...not for the other person. I'm a woman. I know these things.
haha No one really is. And the ones that aren't still get together and have great marriages.
Your argument is invalid
Your argument is invalid
This is Dothack all over again.
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Let's be clear : " Dating " comes from the world,
and it has nothing to do with what's best for true Christians.
Christians should not conform to the world, for they are to be the Light of the world. If the Christians just conform to the world, if they don't show a difference in their practices and just " date " like any pagan or atheist, do they represent Light ?
Christians should make a radical difference and bring something to the world of relationships as radically different as Light from darkness : Scriptural Courting !
Fiat Lux !
Let there be Light !
and it has nothing to do with what's best for true Christians.
Christians should not conform to the world, for they are to be the Light of the world. If the Christians just conform to the world, if they don't show a difference in their practices and just " date " like any pagan or atheist, do they represent Light ?
Christians should make a radical difference and bring something to the world of relationships as radically different as Light from darkness : Scriptural Courting !
Fiat Lux !
Let there be Light !
What about: instead of parents arranging marriages, they arrange a person of the opposite sex for courtship?
My dad did that. Except that he was more subtle about it, he said that the guy needed someone his age to talk to and be friends with. Then, he and the guy's father arranged for me to get a job near the guy. Long story short I married the guy, his father regrets it, and I have a beautiful family. lol
My dad did that. Except that he was more subtle about it, he said that the guy needed someone his age to talk to and be friends with. Then, he and the guy's father arranged for me to get a job near the guy. Long story short I married the guy, his father regrets it, and I have a beautiful family. lol
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Wow, then you don't really know me at all lol.
Um ... this is ridiculous. It's so sad that you consider me as "objectifying" women and "loathing" them.
You're the third "helper" that's tried. Truth is, you know nothing at all about me, and you'll know nothing from reading internet posts.
Good day, sir.
Um ... this is ridiculous. It's so sad that you consider me as "objectifying" women and "loathing" them.
You're the third "helper" that's tried. Truth is, you know nothing at all about me, and you'll know nothing from reading internet posts.
Good day, sir.
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Ah, what fanciful woman logic!
No worries. I don't worry about "turning women off" because there really isn't any Christian girls my age to date around here, where I live. lol Not much I can even do haha.
Not to mention the fact that there are so many "turn offs" with Christian women today.
But it seems to be a very feminine trait to justify yourselves, blame men, and consider every women as perfect unto the very end, so I'll spare you.
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Is it so ? My " culture " was from the world several years ago, but now, my culture is from Heaven !
You say " i only date one person at a time ",
I say Satan needs only one " date " to destroy everything in one's life,
and it's been my own experience that truly, Satan uses " dating " to destroy people's lives,
and I'm still alive, thanks God !
We don't live in the new earth yet;
this world we're living in is called ' The valley of the shadow of the death " for a reason !
So we ought to be extremely cautious down here !
You say " i only date one person at a time ",
I say Satan needs only one " date " to destroy everything in one's life,
and it's been my own experience that truly, Satan uses " dating " to destroy people's lives,
and I'm still alive, thanks God !
We don't live in the new earth yet;
this world we're living in is called ' The valley of the shadow of the death " for a reason !
So we ought to be extremely cautious down here !
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God created sex, not Adam.
Gen 1:27-28 So God created man in his [own] image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, ...
Art05, we're Christians and your lack of honestly suggests that you're not from God.
Num 23:19 God [is] not a man, that he should lie; ...
Gen 1:27-28 So God created man in his [own] image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them. And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, ...
Art05, we're Christians and your lack of honestly suggests that you're not from God.
Num 23:19 God [is] not a man, that he should lie; ...
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Ah, what fanciful woman logic!
No worries. I don't worry about "turning women off" because there really isn't any Christian girls my age to date around here, where I live. lol Not much I can even do haha.
Not to mention the fact that there are so many "turn offs" with Christian women today.
But it seems to be a very feminine trait to justify yourselves, blame men, and consider every women as perfect unto the very end, so I'll spare you.
Ah, what fanciful woman logic!
No worries. I don't worry about "turning women off" because there really isn't any Christian girls my age to date around here, where I live. lol Not much I can even do haha.
Not to mention the fact that there are so many "turn offs" with Christian women today.
But it seems to be a very feminine trait to justify yourselves, blame men, and consider every women as perfect unto the very end, so I'll spare you.
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Blame David Murrow? What on earth are you talking about?
lol Lack of adult skills? Are we just inventing things now, Praus?
And some light humor (of which I know does not line up to what your point is, that God created sex) is no cause to consider me a heretic, please man. You're being far too dramatic. Please calm yourself.
But that book really is great. I recommend it to every man (even if it's target audience is married men, I, being a bachelor, enjoyed it regardless).
lol Lack of adult skills? Are we just inventing things now, Praus?
And some light humor (of which I know does not line up to what your point is, that God created sex) is no cause to consider me a heretic, please man. You're being far too dramatic. Please calm yourself.
But that book really is great. I recommend it to every man (even if it's target audience is married men, I, being a bachelor, enjoyed it regardless).