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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
This friggin' takes the cake, dawg
This ends it all.
Doesn't matter what girls think of you, artyiste, that is, if you're nice or not, or, too nice, even. Just have faith, ask her out, accept her response to you for why she's not interested.
What should matter to the Christian (nice) guy is what God thinks of you after you've been rejected by a girl. Do you go in a corner and cry, or , become bitter, or, do you ask God for more faith, for an increase, for more of a reason of understanding for why that girl rejected you. God will bless you for that, bro.
This friggin' takes the cake, dawg
This ends it all.
What should matter to the Christian (nice) guy is what God thinks of you after you've been rejected by a girl. Do you go in a corner and cry, or , become bitter, or, do you ask God for more faith, for an increase, for more of a reason of understanding for why that girl rejected you. God will bless you for that, bro.
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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
GreenNnice, don't you turn on me too! haha
M'kay, okay. I think I'm getting there.
All three Just the kind of guy I am.
Doesn't matter what girls think of you, artyiste, that is, if you're nice or not, or, too nice, even. Just have faith, ask her out, accept her response to you for why she's not interested.
What should matter to the Christian (nice) guy is what God thinks of you after you've been rejected by a girl. Do you go in a corner and cry, or , become bitter, or, do you ask God for more faith, for an increase, for more of a reason of understanding for why that girl rejected you. God will bless you for that, bro.
What should matter to the Christian (nice) guy is what God thinks of you after you've been rejected by a girl. Do you go in a corner and cry, or , become bitter, or, do you ask God for more faith, for an increase, for more of a reason of understanding for why that girl rejected you. God will bless you for that, bro.
M'kay, okay. I think I'm getting there.
All three
Just the kind of guy I am.
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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
lol How women operate? Is there any of them that operate in a Biblical mechanism?
You're one of those guys that has been deceived by women that they need no change in their perspective, no correction, and they have all of the knowledge they need to go on.
I'm still holding on to hope, though.
lol How women operate? Is there any of them that operate in a Biblical mechanism?
You're one of those guys that has been deceived by women that they need no change in their perspective, no correction, and they have all of the knowledge they need to go on.
I'm still holding on to hope, though.
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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
You should make a blog post outlining all of your thoughts about this stuff so that it's all in one place so that we can keep track of it all. From little bits I'm getting around the forum I have a picture that I'm not sure is quite right, but it appears as though you both hate an worship women.
You should make a blog post outlining all of your thoughts about this stuff so that it's all in one place so that we can keep track of it all. From little bits I'm getting around the forum I have a picture that I'm not sure is quite right, but it appears as though you both hate an worship women.
Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
It's funny, you say I'm the one deceived yet I'm not the one whining in three different threads about how its impossible for me to find a woman, because somehow the 3.5 billion women in the world just don't see me for the shining paragon of masculinity I really am?
Get real, the reason you are single, is because no one wants to date someone who desperately clings to the lie of being a nice guy when in actuality you're desperate and probably a door mat. If you were 'nice' you wouldn't have a problem. But you're probably creepy is more honest. "hey uh, excuse me, but I saw your boyfrined just broke up with you, need someone to talk?, like on a date?" This is something I can imagine you doing.
It's funny, you say I'm the one deceived yet I'm not the one whining in three different threads about how its impossible for me to find a woman, because somehow the 3.5 billion women in the world just don't see me for the shining paragon of masculinity I really am?
Get real, the reason you are single, is because no one wants to date someone who desperately clings to the lie of being a nice guy when in actuality you're desperate and probably a door mat. If you were 'nice' you wouldn't have a problem. But you're probably creepy is more honest. "hey uh, excuse me, but I saw your boyfrined just broke up with you, need someone to talk?, like on a date?" This is something I can imagine you doing.
Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
Hold out hope I don't know what you mean by mechanism but all I do is Christ based
Also the more girls who friend zone you the better imagine how many dates thousands of women who have friend zoned you would set you up on
Hold out hope
I don't know what you mean by mechanism but all I do is Christ based Also the more girls who friend zone you the better
imagine how many dates thousands of women who have friend zoned you would set you up on
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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
No I'm pretty sure your picture is quite right.
Anyway
My best friend is a guy. There was never any awkward thing though like about whether or not we should date. He likes books, i like books, he was all hey and i was all sup... We've been bff's ever since.
No I'm pretty sure your picture is quite right.
Anyway
My best friend is a guy. There was never any awkward thing though like about whether or not we should date. He likes books, i like books, he was all hey and i was all sup... We've been bff's ever since.
Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
From what I have heard, it may be that a lot of women see the "nice guy" as not being confident.
Afterall, it is commonly said that women like confidence, so if you fail to initiate a conversation with a lady that you are interested in, then you most likely will not ever enter into a relationship with that lady. Now this may not always be the case. Because sometimes there are women that will approach a man and start up a conversation.
Also understand that for a relationship to be a proper one, it needs to be based upon the word of God. Dating is not biblical. Betrothment is Biblical though.
Also if a woman sees that a guy is so "nice" that he agrees with everything she says, well that may also be a red flag, since again it comes back to confidence. And a guy who doesn't think for himself lacks confidence. Now don't get confidence confused with pride. A man can be confident and yet not proud.
More importantly though Art05; focus on serving the Lord while your still single. Being single gives you the opportunity to serve the Lord without distraction (1 Cor. 7:35).
Another thing to Consider Art05, you are still rather young. Are you sure that your ready for a wife?
I understand that a lot couples these days get married in their early twenties, but again, the main thing you need to weigh out is whether or not your ready to take on the responsibility of having a wife. Are you in a position right now in your life that you could provide for a woman? That you could provide for her spiritually, mentally, and monetarily?
I am sure you are probably just thinking about this in the view of just dating a woman and not considering marriage at this time in your life. But again, keep in mind that dating is not biblical. Dating is of the world.
But betrothment is Scriptural.
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Why do they do this?
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Why do they do this?
From what I have heard, it may be that a lot of women see the "nice guy" as not being confident.
Afterall, it is commonly said that women like confidence, so if you fail to initiate a conversation with a lady that you are interested in, then you most likely will not ever enter into a relationship with that lady. Now this may not always be the case. Because sometimes there are women that will approach a man and start up a conversation.
Also understand that for a relationship to be a proper one, it needs to be based upon the word of God. Dating is not biblical. Betrothment is Biblical though.
Also if a woman sees that a guy is so "nice" that he agrees with everything she says, well that may also be a red flag, since again it comes back to confidence. And a guy who doesn't think for himself lacks confidence. Now don't get confidence confused with pride. A man can be confident and yet not proud.
More importantly though Art05; focus on serving the Lord while your still single. Being single gives you the opportunity to serve the Lord without distraction (1 Cor. 7:35).
Another thing to Consider Art05, you are still rather young. Are you sure that your ready for a wife?
I understand that a lot couples these days get married in their early twenties, but again, the main thing you need to weigh out is whether or not your ready to take on the responsibility of having a wife. Are you in a position right now in your life that you could provide for a woman? That you could provide for her spiritually, mentally, and monetarily?
I am sure you are probably just thinking about this in the view of just dating a woman and not considering marriage at this time in your life. But again, keep in mind that dating is not biblical. Dating is of the world.
But betrothment is Scriptural.
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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
Also Rachel is a good Christian woman here is a thought
I see her post on all the threads about nice guys then I see all the "nice guys" argue with her
Argueing isn't nice humbly accept your sisters words that's nice
Also Rachel is a good Christian woman
here is a thought I see her post on all the threads about nice guys
then I see all the "nice guys" argue with her Argueing isn't nice
humbly accept your sisters words that's nice Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
Christian women date genuine Godly men of all types but they decide what genuine Godly and nice is
Guys telling us this is what you should like, is none of the above
last be Christ like the Christian girls may friend zone you but again enough girls put you in the frieend zone and behold they will want to set you up it's in our nature to do so
Christian women date genuine Godly men of all types
but they decide what genuine Godly and nice isGuys telling us this is what you should like, is none of the above
last be Christ like the Christian girls may friend zone you but again enough girls put you in the frieend zone and behold they will want to set you up
it's in our nature to do so
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Re: "Now Ladies, Make Sure You Put That Nice Guy That's Interested In The Friendzone!
If you two had no relationship history or marriage of any sort then there should be nothing wrong with being friends; especially with the population we have. Now, if you have kids or you were once married that is when the confusion comes in. I think you may be in too much of a rush and from my experience rushing into relationships or physical encounters is really not worth it in the end. So I say move on and make use of that new friendship you made.
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Why do they do this?
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Why do they do this?
If you two had no relationship history or marriage of any sort then there should be nothing wrong with being friends; especially with the population we have. Now, if you have kids or you were once married that is when the confusion comes in. I think you may be in too much of a rush and from my experience rushing into relationships or physical encounters is really not worth it in the end. So I say move on and make use of that new friendship you made.