I didn't pick up on everything in the video, because he talks too fast! Seems to be a common occurrence in Americans.
For a lot of guys, the whole doing more than just talking and being friends is what makes them uneasy to get in a relationship so it's a comfort to know for them that there are different ways to go about a relationship, from friends to courting to dating.
Personally, I think, if a girl asks me questions that's only going to strengthen our relationship from the git and, I think, that just because she doesn't want to hug or hold hands it's not a turn-off. It's actually a turn on for that kind of resilience and willingness to wait on marriage before physical intimacy. It shows me she's really serious about the relationship and doing it according to the bible because, I think, the bible stresses that sex before marriage is not the right way to do things. So, if you are in a relationship and never kissing, hugging, or, even, holding hands, just talking in the relationship, that really lends to a necessary common ground that the two MUST be on, or, else there is no other 'intimacy' support.
This kind of way of going about things is more girl than guy friendly, so to speak, because girls are the talkers/communicators and guys are the touchy/feely gender more so. So, the power of God is great, He will, through His Spirit in us, which is in our heart, keep us knowing what this other person is like, and, I don't think that there wuold be a thing in the world to worry about as far as wondering if sexual intimacy would be there when the relationshiph finally became
as one flesh, as in marriage of the two.
Why's this, green, why will I not have to worry about her being scared to be touched when we're married? Because.
Because you have based your relationship on questions and commonality of communication and how each other plays off each other's questions and answers and the farther than goes the more you will KNOW that God's hand is in your relationship. I'm only being halfway coy here, but, I think, instead of a 1-year engagement, you can probably step it up to 6 months after giving her the engagement ring just because you already will know each other so well and READY for that step sooner because of your commitment to base the relationship solely on communication, and, a peck on the cheek every once in a while . Sorry, I HAD to get that in there
The Lord leads, guys, your with a girl you really like, she's all that in character, beauty, and, gumption, wait on the Lord, He will lift you up. He will lift you up, higher and higher. And, He will lift you BOTH up to soar as one, as eagles
This guy in the video is a hoot, he's on fire for Jesus. I agree, ladies should quiz guys on all-things theology, but, be nice to, and, understanding, don't expect the guy to be a preacher in knowledge of God's Word, just expect him to be able to do things like this joyous pastor guy says in the video, like explain your doctrinal belief, your foundation of belief, etc. These are important issues to talk about at some point in the relationship, why not get them out of the way, in the beginnning.
