Purity of Mind and Heart

[Jullianna]

Sorry, I'm not trying to suggest that sexual naivety is bad, I just found it odd (and at the time, embarrassing) that I was completely clueless. I didn't live a hugely sheltered life, nor did I just accept what people said. I understand that purity of mind and heart is something to be cherished. Thank you for your encouraging words, Rachel and Jullianna!

Sometimes I would give a great deal to be a little more clueless

hugs Tintin!

 

[buckets]

Umm...one thing I'd like to mention to young people on here, it's not a good idea to PM adults online, you know? And please keep in mind that not everyone who says they are a teen online truly is.

Since this thread is about purity, it has been on my heart all afternoon to mention this to any teens reading this. Please be careful.

Keep in mind too that PMing adults can cause problems for them as well. One of the good things about the forums is that everything said here is out in the open for all to see so that there are no misunderstandings. It's a good idea to stay out of PM if you can.

I know you mean to encourage, but please, please, please be careful online. I've worked with online law enforcement and it's important to stay on your toes. Praying that God will protect all young people on CC. If you have trouble with anyone at all or if anyone makes you feel uncomfortable, please contact Stilly or Oncefallen ASAP.

God bless!

Should I not pm anyone or just not pm guys? just wanting to be sure I do what's best
thank you for posting this

 

[Praus]

Sometimes I would give a great deal to be a little more clueless

When I was first sober and first born again I thought that way.

Now I'm convinced that Jesus let me go out into world and the flesh so I would know I could, at least, warn others about the dangers of trying to live outside of the word of God. I'm like an expert in how the best laid plans tend to blow up in my face. Ah well....

 

[buckets]

Jules sense I asked about PM to someone I took that being careful about pm message as kinda toward me I mean not just me but me too
I have been thinking about it a lot and want to say sorry to any adults I sent mail to

I will do better and I wasn't trying to make anyone uncomfortable or cause problems
I am really friendly and haven't been around strangers much besides mission trips when I'm also in a group of people I know

 

[Tintin]

Buckets, you and Alexis have nothing to apologise for. We just want our sisters to be safe.

 

[Jullianna]

Jules sense I asked about PM to someone I took that being careful about pm message as kinda toward me I mean not just me but me too
I have been thinking about it a lot and want to say sorry to any adults I sent mail to

I will do better and I wasn't trying to make anyone uncomfortable or cause problems
I am really friendly and haven't been around strangers much besides mission trips when I'm also in a group of people I know

Don't feel badly. As Tintin said, I was simply concerned for you out of love (it's a mom/big sister thing ), not because I felt uncomfortable. It's personal to me because my own son was stalked online when he was in jr high. I don't ever want to see any other kids at risk online, that's all. God bless you

 

[Jullianna]

Thanks for paying attention and checking things out admins.

 

[rachelsedge]

...I don't understand what's just happened.

I guess that's okay, though. I don't have to know everything.

 

[NodMyHeadLikeYeah]

Verified faker.. whaaaaaaat

 

[kenthomas27]

...I don't understand what's just happened.

I guess that's okay, though. I don't have to know everything.

I don't either but it'd be nice to know SOMETHING every now and then. Oh well.....I was fairly confused to start with. Hey everyone - have a wonderful NEW YEAR! It's raining here today and it's been raining since the time changed I think. I often miss out on work when it's raining (as today) so I hope the tap is turned down a little for 2014 but what do I know. Peace to all of you!

 

[iTOREtheSKY]

...I don't understand what's just happened.

I guess that's okay, though. I don't have to know everything.

I never know either Rachel,don't feel bad. It's prob not worth knowing anyways.

 

[rachelsedge]

alexis is banned now too for the same reason.

That makes me sad.

 

[iTOREtheSKY]

alexis is banned now too for the same reason.

That makes me sad.

Wait,huh? The little guitar playing kid? I am really lost now. What did she get banned for?

 

[Praus]

Wait,huh? The little guitar playing kid? I am really lost now. What did she get banned for?

-> http://christianchat.com/rules.php

"And please understand that we don't have the time or energy to talk to a hundred different people (or even a dozen different people) about somebody else's ban. Leave it between that person and the moderator, please!"

 

[Loveneverfails]

Not challenging or arguing anything about the ban here, but I'm genuinely curious: how exactly does someone get "verified" a a faker?

Confused, sad, and skeptical. :/

 

[Jullianna]

alexis is banned now too for the same reason.

That makes me sad.

Wait,huh? The little guitar playing kid? I am really lost now. What did she get banned for?

Not challenging or arguing anything about the ban here, but I'm genuinely curious: how exactly does someone get "verified" a a faker?

Confused, sad, and skeptical. :/

"And please keep in mind that not everyone who says they are a teen online truly is."

 

[rachelsedge]

Yeah, the puzzle pieces are falling together a bit now. Sort of.

Also, Tintin, I hope I wasn't implying that you wished you weren't naive. I just meant that I thought that was a funny story because of the naiveness, not that you shouldn't have been naive. I hope that makes sense.

 

[Praus]

"And please keep in mind that not everyone who says they are a teen online truly is."

Isa 62:6 I have set watchmen upon thy walls, O Jerusalem, [which] shall never hold their peace day nor night: ye that make mention of the LORD, keep not silence,

 

[Oncefallen]

What if Stilly & Oncefallen are the ones making me uncomfortable??

Then whine to Jullianna about it

 

[Oncefallen]

...I don't understand what's just happened.

I guess that's okay, though. I don't have to know everything.

Verified faker.. whaaaaaaat

alexis is banned now too for the same reason.

That makes me sad.

As most are aware we don't normally make ban reasons public, usually the user title just shows as "banned". This is one of the rare cases that the Admin Team decided to make the ban reason public predominantly because we knew that Alexis/Buckets had become fairly popular and the ban would end up creating drama. Simply put both it was the same person behind both nics and the Admin Team here takes catfishing and other forms of fraud on this site seriously and we do not take these decisions lightly.