seriously, pre-trib rapture = contradictory to scripture because scripture specifically says in almost every spot that talks about the return of our Lord, says it will be after the tribulation.
prosperity gospel= contradictory to scripture because Christ continually points to a simple life of mutual edification among brethren and specifically says there will be opposition and persecution. Not once does he say we'll have creature comforts.
Also, husbands are responsible for their wives. That's more common sense but scripture is clear that he is the head. If the head makes the decisions, then he is responsible for them, and as the marital union is the image of Christ and his beloved church, I'd say your wife's spiritual health should be a priority, as well as being, you guessed it, your responsibility.
And yes there is problems with the wishy washy lovey dovey positivity mumbo jumbo, the problem is that it isn't real. It's real in the same way hypnotism is real.
I respect your repentance dude, but just because you transgressed in speaking or in judging this guy's show, doesn't mean you didn't judge rightly the first time about most of the rest of it. Just because saying something out loud is a sin, doesn't mean it's inaccurate.