I want to help you, basement dwelling video gamer

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Jun 22, 2013
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If you're like me, you've probably dated a lot of girls. And some of them were really attractive.
But you've got this lack of confidence.
Go back in your mind to the most attractive woman you have been with.
She chose to be with you.
You didn't take advantage of her.
She was open, you stepped in, and she accepted you freely.

So you know, for a fact, that there are moments when you are incredibly attractive.
But the bad news is that most times, you are incredibly unattractive.

And here's your hope.
God loves you, and knows you are suited to be with a mate.
He hasn't forgotten you or your feelings.

You cannot choose to make yourself more attractive outside of just doing physical exercise.
But you are so complicated and deep, and special
That it's going to take the right girl.
And that takes time.
You want an attractive girlfriend. That's fine.
Just start talking to girls, and being nice to all girls.
God will show you in an attractive light when the time is right.
The right woman will see you in that light, and you will find love.
Just put it to the side for now.
Talk to girls, get to know them. Unattractive, attractive, whatever.
Just behave yourself, treat them like sisters.
 

Liamson

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I think that there has to be a mechanism in society or something where men are simply allowed to do whatever.

If you want to live in a tiny cheap apartment, game online, do your thing, then yeah.

I will never be as good at Call of Duty or Halo or World of Warcraft, as the people who put the energy and effort into being good at it.

But you can't expend yourself completely into something and then expect the rewards that other people get for the pursuit of their goals.



"How you spend your day, is how you spend your Life" - Catlynn
 
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ww_21

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I'll give my opinion on this thread... after I get back from hitting a few video games myself ;)
 
Jun 22, 2013
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I'll give my opinion on this thread... after I get back from hitting a few video games myself ;)
GIRL GAMER ALERT
THE SPOTLIGHT JUST ZOOMED FASTER THAN LIGHT TO SHINE ON YOU
NOW THAT YOU HAVE MY ATTENTION, WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO WITH IT?
 
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ww_21

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GIRL GAMER ALERT
THE SPOTLIGHT JUST ZOOMED FASTER THAN LIGHT TO SHINE ON YOU
NOW THAT YOU HAVE MY ATTENTION, WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO WITH IT?
hahahhaha she shoots... she scooooores!!! All that attention for me ah the possibilities haha xD while I do have this attention of yours off topic but - which games would you currently recommend?
 
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hahahhaha she shoots... she scooooores!!! All that attention for me ah the possibilities haha xD while I do have this attention of yours off topic but - which games would you currently recommend?
There are two things I enjoy in this life. The attention of girls who play video games (any of them, all girls are beautiful, I don't really regard superficial details anymore, yet I do have desires, but God will send me the woman he made for me), and the authority to tell someone what they should do with their time.

So if you're going to ask me what game to play, I hope you have some free time.
Bioshock Infinite - Ignore their feeble attempt to incorporate Christianity into their perverted vision of the world. At the center is the story of a man named Booker Dewitt, and the mysterious and crucial Elizabeth who must depend on each other to escape the distress they are in amidst a collapsing Utopia that draws heavily from themes grounded in the early 1900s.
If you are capable of ignoring the many references to religion that might be seen as slanderous, you are in for a challenging experience that is both an FPS and a deeply thoughtful one.

Dead Space - I spent 6 years in isolation and bitterness. Isaac Clarke is a man that is a part of a small team sent to inspect a distress call at the starship Ishimura. When they get there, the find the place deserted. And in the first moments of the video game, you come to find out that something incredibly wrong has happened and that a species of mutated beings have taken over and killed nearly everyone on the ship. While you as Isaac are on a quest to be reunited with your love Nicole, you venture through the Ishimura looking for a way to escape while the lives of the few people left are always in danger of ending at any moment. An aggressive, isolationist experience that I can identify with well.

Deus Ex - A slick and polished Cyberpunk experience set in the future world of 2100 or something. You are Adam Jensen, a security cop for a corporation called Serif. Having nearly died due to a gunshot wound to the head, you awake from a catastrophic attack on your company to find that your body has been augmented with cybernetics and mechanical components, that you spend the game activating by way of a point system. Increase your punching strength, jump over tall fences, disappear from sight for a few seconds, see through walls, hack into corporate and government computers, and control robots as you enhance your character throughout the duration of the game. A deep story of Illuminati conspiracy and corporate corruption takes you all over the world as you track down the mercenary team that killed your girlfriend and put you in a coma for several months while you were being outfitted with augmentations. Deus Ex is a smart technological action adventure role playing game that is the epitome of the thing called Cyberpunk.

Mass Effect 3 - A beautifully polished game that is an FPS, role playing game, and epic story all at the same time. Command a male or female version of the Commander Shepherd as you adventure through vast galaxies gathering support for a last stand against a threat to the entire universe -- The Reapers. An ancient race of beings who cleanse the universe of human beings every so often or thousands of years or something (I forget). You'll build a character with a variety of special abilities that appeal to the different types of gaming styles out there. Like stealth and recon? It's in there. Want to be a gun running action hero? It's in there too. Want to use the powers of biotics like a mage from a fantasy rpg would use magic (RELAX, IT'S JUST A VIDEO GAME)? It's in there too. And along the way you learn about the vast Mass Effect 3 universe that the team who made the game has spent a good amount of time constructing. You will feel like the captain of your own starship that breaks light speed and you will fight the final battle and experience an ending I don't know about since I just started playing it. It doesn't get more Star Trek than this.

Fallout: New Vegas - A lot of people remember their first kiss. I remember the first time I set foot in New Vegas. The sequal to the award winning game Fallout 3, New Vegas puts you in control of a male or female character simply known as "The Courier". You were supposed to deliver a mysterious package, but Benny and his henchmen found you and apparantly that chip was really important to someone because they left you for dead, buried alive after they shot you in the head. You awake to find out that a wandering robot saved your life, and you are introduced to the Doctor, who guides you through character creation where you will decide what type of play style you will adopt in this barren post apocalyptic world based on the real areas lying around Nevada. You can be a stealthy thief, gathing caps as you go from person to person. Or weild miniature Nuclear rocket launchers. Pick them off at a distance with the sniper rifle, or bypass system security with your science skill and some computer hacking. New Vegas is a well designed RPG that gives you an incredibly rewarding array of side missions and main story missions.

Wow.
 
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ww_21

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There are two things I enjoy in this life. The attention of girls who play video games (any of them, all girls are beautiful, I don't really regard superficial details anymore, yet I do have desires, but God will send me the woman he made for me), and the authority to tell someone what they should do with their time.

So if you're going to ask me what game to play, I hope you have some free time.
Bioshock Infinite - Ignore their feeble attempt to incorporate Christianity into their perverted vision of the world. At the center is the story of a man named Booker Dewitt, and the mysterious and crucial Elizabeth who must depend on each other to escape the distress they are in amidst a collapsing Utopia that draws heavily from themes grounded in the early 1900s.
If you are capable of ignoring the many references to religion that might be seen as slanderous, you are in for a challenging experience that is both an FPS and a deeply thoughtful one.

Dead Space - I spent 6 years in isolation and bitterness. Isaac Clarke is a man that is a part of a small team sent to inspect a distress call at the starship Ishimura. When they get there, the find the place deserted. And in the first moments of the video game, you come to find out that something incredibly wrong has happened and that a species of mutated beings have taken over and killed nearly everyone on the ship. While you as Isaac are on a quest to be reunited with your love Nicole, you venture through the Ishimura looking for a way to escape while the lives of the few people left are always in danger of ending at any moment. An aggressive, isolationist experience that I can identify with well.

Deus Ex - A slick and polished Cyberpunk experience set in the future world of 2100 or something. You are Adam Jensen, a security cop for a corporation called Serif. Having nearly died due to a gunshot wound to the head, you awake from a catastrophic attack on your company to find that your body has been augmented with cybernetics and mechanical components, that you spend the game activating by way of a point system. Increase your punching strength, jump over tall fences, disappear from sight for a few seconds, see through walls, hack into corporate and government computers, and control robots as you enhance your character throughout the duration of the game. A deep story of Illuminati conspiracy and corporate corruption takes you all over the world as you track down the mercenary team that killed your girlfriend and put you in a coma for several months while you were being outfitted with augmentations. Deus Ex is a smart technological action adventure role playing game that is the epitome of the thing called Cyberpunk.

Mass Effect 3 - A beautifully polished game that is an FPS, role playing game, and epic story all at the same time. Command a male or female version of the Commander Shepherd as you adventure through vast galaxies gathering support for a last stand against a threat to the entire universe -- The Reapers. An ancient race of beings who cleanse the universe of human beings every so often or thousands of years or something (I forget). You'll build a character with a variety of special abilities that appeal to the different types of gaming styles out there. Like stealth and recon? It's in there. Want to be a gun running action hero? It's in there too. Want to use the powers of biotics like a mage from a fantasy rpg would use magic (RELAX, IT'S JUST A VIDEO GAME)? It's in there too. And along the way you learn about the vast Mass Effect 3 universe that the team who made the game has spent a good amount of time constructing. You will feel like the captain of your own starship that breaks light speed and you will fight the final battle and experience an ending I don't know about since I just started playing it. It doesn't get more Star Trek than this.

Fallout: New Vegas - A lot of people remember their first kiss. I remember the first time I set foot in New Vegas. The sequal to the award winning game Fallout 3, New Vegas puts you in control of a male or female character simply known as "The Courier". You were supposed to deliver a mysterious package, but Benny and his henchmen found you and apparantly that chip was really important to someone because they left you for dead, buried alive after they shot you in the head. You awake to find out that a wandering robot saved your life, and you are introduced to the Doctor, who guides you through character creation where you will decide what type of play style you will adopt in this barren post apocalyptic world based on the real areas lying around Nevada. You can be a stealthy thief, gathing caps as you go from person to person. Or weild miniature Nuclear rocket launchers. Pick them off at a distance with the sniper rifle, or bypass system security with your science skill and some computer hacking. New Vegas is a well designed RPG that gives you an incredibly rewarding array of side missions and main story missions.

Wow.

Nice!!! You're thorough. I like that. I will be definitely be checking these out.
 

zeroturbulence

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Attracting women isn't really that big of a mystery. Just have to 1) be in good shape physically 2) know how to dress 3) take good care of yourself (grooming, hygiene), and most importantly.. 4) have a positive attitude and show confidence in yourself.

I of course fail miserably at most of those, but that's besides the point. :p

Note too that these are just to attract (get her attention), its up to the man to keep her interested.
 

zeroturbulence

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^^^Of course that's not the only way that a man can attract a woman, but it's the easiest to explain in words. :p
 
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Donkeyfish07

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lol, I cracked up when I seen this thread title. That's the most random title I've seen in awhile
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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How could they have banned my boyfriend the ladies man?!
 
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Ugly

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How could they have banned my boyfriend the ladies man?!
This is like Romeo and Juliette, with the Mods being the parents. Minus the suicide. Oh, and you guys are old, not teens.
 
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didymos

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This thread reminds of this old flick... :D

 
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didymos

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Ugh, doesn't work, well it's this one:

 

Liamson

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What would be the Female equivalent to this?
 

Fenner

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Let me help you, you shopaholic woman. That's probably just me :)
 

just_monicat

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Let me help you, you shopaholic woman. That's probably just me :)
i was thinking maybe the "crazy cat lady" with a litter box in every corner and 1 pet away from being busted on "animal hoarders"
 

Fenner

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i was thinking maybe the "crazy cat lady" with a litter box in every corner and 1 pet away from being busted on "animal hoarders"

I was thinking that too. That could be me someday. Crazy Widowed cat lady Jen, her kids won't visit because she makes them scoop litter. :)