well; First, you must understand true love is not a feeling it is something you do. and if you are going off what you feel about a person, as we all know feelings change, so you must ask yourself, " what can I do for this person" and what can they do for me. talking is good, but can we relate? sex is so deceptive; we think that it is love, but it is only ment for reproducing and pleasure. not away to say, " I love you" ask yourself can I provide for this women as her husban.. do I have the abilities to catch her spiritually, emoyionally, and physically? As we all know that we "feel" good about someone and thats love, but as we get to grow and know more and more about eachother there will be some things about them that don't make us "feel" good at all. and then the thoughts of wanting to leave or end it come to mind. so young man if it is how you "feel" about anyone younger or older. then you need to relook at why you say you love them. it will save you from a world of heart-ache.
can we add on to that person's life or will we just be apart of their life?
I tell you us woman are so damanding, and sometimes can make a grown man cry....we mean no harm but most of us can do some damage if the man is not strong enough to handle a women who knows what she want and can't settle for less... we will give it a try.. anything! young, old, out of shape, to tall, too short,,, not good looking, too good looking. you name we will try it for a relationship. but if there are too many of those, Not all thats" in the relationship we women will withdraw, and get angry at you men for not being what we really wanted. and we all know what happens after that......
so I said all this to say, look ahead... try to see a future beyond where you are and considering everything!!! and ask yourself with no pride, (because pride will tell you that you can walk to the moon if you really tried,( get it) ) but humble yourself and it will open your eyes to reality, and then say can I be the MAN to give this women all it takes to get her through the rest of her life no matter how she or I change... can you SEE that. you must see something even if it don't happen that exact way, can you do it no and can you do it till death do you part?