New Group: Overweight and Unattractive single men only
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Your perfectly fine, no problem what so ever. And your right too. I think I did feel a bit vain. And you know that is yet another reason why I don't like it, being attractive. I struggle with vanity. I'm sorry. Its something I have to deal with.
Your advise or opinion matters, its good to hear other people give it. And I think you misunderstood me or something because you said "Looks aren't everything" while I was implying that point very strongly. I said, I hate it when girls care about what I look like. Why? Because I KNOW that "Looks aren't everything." I understand that and thats where I'm coming from. So, yeah...
And apology accepted
Your advise or opinion matters, its good to hear other people give it. And I think you misunderstood me or something because you said "Looks aren't everything" while I was implying that point very strongly. I said, I hate it when girls care about what I look like. Why? Because I KNOW that "Looks aren't everything." I understand that and thats where I'm coming from. So, yeah...
And apology accepted
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One of my best friends was a guy and we went to school together at job corps. We became friends on the outdoors club, and we became best buds the day we sat in the smoking area on campus and had a competition of who could hawk the best loogie and spit it the furthest. We had about 20 ft to the next building and he had told me "theres no way dude, that a chick can out spit a guy" SO i had to prove him wrong of course lol i won and we have been friends going on 8 years. My other guy friend i met at the same place in my trade, i studied drywall finishing and commercial painting. We were on break one day and we had been joking around about my workout using a punching bag. We traded a couple of punches and then he hauled of and gave me a dead leg, it hurt like the dickens! So i in turn returned the favor, and we ended up dead legging each other for a good hour. needless to say neither one of us could quite walk right after that but it was fun. He was also a man that was afraid of a giant snapping turtle we found while in trade and had all the guys dare me to pick it up so i did not a big deal. It ended up peeing a jetstream and i ended up chasing the guys with a turtle. Id rather have fun than to be considered a girl to "chase"
Since this seems like another He man woman hating club, I want to say. Women aren't horrible evil money grubbing jerks.
Do you ever go to Wal-Mart??? Look at the couples there, I see a different mix of couples in that store. I don't stand there and judge them, but you might see the good looking couple, the normal looking couple, the couple fighting with their 7 year old about not getting a toy (that would be us). My point is there are no perfect cookie cutter couples.
This is nonsense. I didn't marry a rich skinny guy, he didn't marry a rich skinny girl. I was thinner than then I am now So he was he. I also had a bout with some health issues, I had two babies and my body changed. Not horribly but it did. My husband's has to, we both has a little gray now. We both have a couple achy joints. I've been with this man through many things. That's what it is about. Do you think some woman is going to marry you and not expect you're body and your mind to change????
I'm a little tired of reading these negative attitudes towards women. Wisebearman I am not directing this at you, I'm sorry if it seems that way. I think you're a funny and seem nice.
The whole mindset I read from so many young men on this page though is "Women want money and looks and blah blah blah." Do you guys even bother to read what most of us have said? It's really irritating to me when I read that stuff. Most of these young women posting here want a nice Christian man who will treat them well.
Is that so hard? I don't think so. Do you think Cyphercat is single because he's overweight? Did you ever read his weird rantings in the young adults forum? He's an addict with problems. He shouldn't even worry about finding a girlfriend he should worry about his substance abuse. THIS IS WHY HE'S SINGLE. He's not an unattractive guy, but seriously why would any self respecting woman get involved with someone who has willingly put out, I'm an addict, but maybe you can fix me. Say what? We can't fix you, God can fix you, you can fix you. But we can't change your lifestyle, your attitude or your bad habits.
My friend lost her husband two weeks ago. She is my age 43, he was a little older. When they were dating he fell off the back of truck broke his neck and was paralyzed from the waist down. They got married, he was an active charming man. He was kind and loved her and their daughter. They where happy. In the last couple years due to his accident he had a lot of health problems. I'd see them after Doctor's appointments at the store or cafe, or where ever. He died, she loved him. He loved her, for better or for worse. You didn't look at them and say, what is that pretty woman doing with that guy in the wheelchair? If you met them you'd see a happy couple, because they loved each other. This is marriage, not all of us end up in a wheelchair, but things happen. My Dad was horribly sick with cancer, did my Mom leave? NO.
Stop this women/ men nonsense it's immature and silly.
Sorry
Do you ever go to Wal-Mart??? Look at the couples there, I see a different mix of couples in that store. I don't stand there and judge them, but you might see the good looking couple, the normal looking couple, the couple fighting with their 7 year old about not getting a toy (that would be us). My point is there are no perfect cookie cutter couples.
This is nonsense. I didn't marry a rich skinny guy, he didn't marry a rich skinny girl. I was thinner than then I am now So he was he. I also had a bout with some health issues, I had two babies and my body changed. Not horribly but it did. My husband's has to, we both has a little gray now. We both have a couple achy joints. I've been with this man through many things. That's what it is about. Do you think some woman is going to marry you and not expect you're body and your mind to change????
I'm a little tired of reading these negative attitudes towards women. Wisebearman I am not directing this at you, I'm sorry if it seems that way. I think you're a funny and seem nice.
The whole mindset I read from so many young men on this page though is "Women want money and looks and blah blah blah." Do you guys even bother to read what most of us have said? It's really irritating to me when I read that stuff. Most of these young women posting here want a nice Christian man who will treat them well.
Is that so hard? I don't think so. Do you think Cyphercat is single because he's overweight? Did you ever read his weird rantings in the young adults forum? He's an addict with problems. He shouldn't even worry about finding a girlfriend he should worry about his substance abuse. THIS IS WHY HE'S SINGLE. He's not an unattractive guy, but seriously why would any self respecting woman get involved with someone who has willingly put out, I'm an addict, but maybe you can fix me. Say what? We can't fix you, God can fix you, you can fix you. But we can't change your lifestyle, your attitude or your bad habits.
My friend lost her husband two weeks ago. She is my age 43, he was a little older. When they were dating he fell off the back of truck broke his neck and was paralyzed from the waist down. They got married, he was an active charming man. He was kind and loved her and their daughter. They where happy. In the last couple years due to his accident he had a lot of health problems. I'd see them after Doctor's appointments at the store or cafe, or where ever. He died, she loved him. He loved her, for better or for worse. You didn't look at them and say, what is that pretty woman doing with that guy in the wheelchair? If you met them you'd see a happy couple, because they loved each other. This is marriage, not all of us end up in a wheelchair, but things happen. My Dad was horribly sick with cancer, did my Mom leave? NO.
Stop this women/ men nonsense it's immature and silly.
Sorry
Another thing, if you don't like your butt, your arms, your stomach, whatever, don't look for someone woman to fix the part of you that you don't like. If you don't like yourself, you will not like yourself after you meet Mr. or Miss Perfect either. I know, I hated myself. I thought marriage, family would make me so happy. It did make me happy, but you can't run from the issues that are causing you pain and Mr or miss miracle can't fix them either.
I went to therapy, I pray to God. I find peace and solace in his word.
We (women) can't fix self hatred, it doesn't work like that.
I went to therapy, I pray to God. I find peace and solace in his word.
We (women) can't fix self hatred, it doesn't work like that.
