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I'd recommend checking out the following list at SingleRoots. Of the ones listed, I've heard the most positive things about ChristianCrush.
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I have this problem.. I live in a smaller area, not much going on, I work with non Christian smokers (no judging, but I'm allergic) and the church I grew up in is full of older marrieds.. Tried other churches but not much luck.. Online dating is not for me and I have tried it in the past w/ no luck at all. I've seriously pondered moving.. so BORED!
Hi there; good to see you; God bless His Word to you.
Re. your question, I think your answer is already in your header verse, Proverbs 3.5. If we love and trust the Lord, we will not believe that we are at the mercy of random events. The Lord has a purpose for our lives, and He keeps us single for as long as He guides us, and then if the time comes for us to marry, He will guide us there also.
Yes we need patience. A lot of sanctified patience.
But He loves us too much to make us the objects of cold and random forces, when in fact He continues to fulfill His purposes. "Behind a frowning Providence, He hides a smiling face.' (William Cowper)
Blessings.
Re. your question, I think your answer is already in your header verse, Proverbs 3.5. If we love and trust the Lord, we will not believe that we are at the mercy of random events. The Lord has a purpose for our lives, and He keeps us single for as long as He guides us, and then if the time comes for us to marry, He will guide us there also.
Yes we need patience. A lot of sanctified patience.
But He loves us too much to make us the objects of cold and random forces, when in fact He continues to fulfill His purposes. "Behind a frowning Providence, He hides a smiling face.' (William Cowper)
Blessings.
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I have a nephew, who I love like my own child. He lives in the same town as I do. He is 23, he has tryed a few dating sites. With no luck. He go'd to school parttime, works on a farm and does odd jobs. Don't smoke, Drink, Likes to ride 4 wheelers, Hunt, Fish, MOvies, can cook very well. He's very quite but, can do impressions. He's a flat belly. 5' 10" Mabe 170 Lbs. He would never say anything to hurt someone, He's is so good. Hard Worker. Has a car and a Truck. Has very high morals.
Send me a recent Picture and I will you of him. This is no joke look at my posts on Bible Study. Just so you are in the right ball park we live in Missouri!
Send me a recent Picture and I will you of him. This is no joke look at my posts on Bible Study. Just so you are in the right ball park we live in Missouri!
Its pointless. All the perverted weirdo creeper men out there ruined it for us normal guys. Most women now a days stay away from men as if though we are all serial killers and rapists. They don't believe that there exist intelligent men with normal psychological development, and these normal men are doomed to be alone forever.
If you add the fact that many of these normal guys have no idea how to approach women without making them feel weird and scaring them, and as a result don't bother trying. There is a large group of lonely men and women that are just scared of each other.
You have NO IDEA how many women have told me on CC chat "Finally a normal guy who doesn't ask me if I have a boyfriend, but just wants to talk about CS Lewis or Philosophy". I am getting very tired of perverts ruining relationships for the rest of us.
If you add the fact that many of these normal guys have no idea how to approach women without making them feel weird and scaring them, and as a result don't bother trying. There is a large group of lonely men and women that are just scared of each other.
You have NO IDEA how many women have told me on CC chat "Finally a normal guy who doesn't ask me if I have a boyfriend, but just wants to talk about CS Lewis or Philosophy". I am getting very tired of perverts ruining relationships for the rest of us.
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I totally feel your pain, I guess I should have looked through the forums prior to posting. I'm new to forums. I have always ended up banned on sites when i start using forums. (it'll be likely mine will come soon here too lol, but beyond that)
I have tried finding interesting things to do... but I have a specific comfort zone that's not conducive to meeting new people. I am a recluse. I like my home, I dislike leaving my home which is not helpful when trying to meet people.
I joined a *meetup.com* area singles .. board games... christian social events held by meetups.. but these are all very tightly knit groups or completely the wrong age group. Many seem to be married or under 30. I asked earlier where do all the people my age hang out and I've come to believe... They Simply Don't
Right now, it's Saturday night and I'm home, watching TV. I have no desire to go anywhere. Like you, I appear much younger than 43 years of age and this attracts hormonally driven guys/boys ... not Godly men to talk to me.
I find myself chatting with a guy and turns out he's only a few years older than my son... I'm like oh man FAIL again. lol
I suppose it is time for me simply to do more volunteer work for charities because that seems like the best way for me to at least be around people and do a good thing at the same time. Plus it saves the UPS and FEDex Guy from becoming my prey. lol - I'm totally kidding here.
I have tried finding interesting things to do... but I have a specific comfort zone that's not conducive to meeting new people. I am a recluse. I like my home, I dislike leaving my home which is not helpful when trying to meet people.
I joined a *meetup.com* area singles .. board games... christian social events held by meetups.. but these are all very tightly knit groups or completely the wrong age group. Many seem to be married or under 30. I asked earlier where do all the people my age hang out and I've come to believe... They Simply Don't
Right now, it's Saturday night and I'm home, watching TV. I have no desire to go anywhere. Like you, I appear much younger than 43 years of age and this attracts hormonally driven guys/boys ... not Godly men to talk to me.
I find myself chatting with a guy and turns out he's only a few years older than my son... I'm like oh man FAIL again. lol
I suppose it is time for me simply to do more volunteer work for charities because that seems like the best way for me to at least be around people and do a good thing at the same time. Plus it saves the UPS and FEDex Guy from becoming my prey. lol - I'm totally kidding here.
Most of the churches i have visited seem to be one denomination I don´t like... Many are following new "apostles", they worship in the sunday morning and, their late services, are at a the time I need to go home and, though I know these are not smokers, these smell ed something I don´t like (divorce problems + children) that I´ve decided to stay as I am, because marriage is a miracle and I tried it once but I spoiled it all... 
