@ rachelsedge and MH818:
Please read 1 Corinthians 10:13 as I'll go straight to explaining it here. The verse is clearly saying that we will not be tempted beyond our abilities. Our limitations are NOT defined by us, but rather by God. Meaning, we might think we can handle a tribulation up to a certain limit, but God knows that we can actually go farther than that, it's just that WE don't know that we can. And the fact that we will have a hard time going through the tribulation, this hard time makes us scared and unwilling to go through this specific tribulation thinking it is already bigger than us. When we go through a tribulation that is allowed by God to be for us, IF we come out of this tribulation with a new lesson or message that made us grow in life n' learned something bigger, then this tribulation was NOT bigger than us. We have to realize that in order to grow, we will pay the price. N' the bigger the lesson is, the bigger its price. God will never allow us to go through a tribulation to destroy us, but rather for us to grow. YES, we will go through a HUGE hardship till we come out of our tribulation, BUT we will come out as new people. Those tribulations you've mentioned that YOU think it's bigger than you, ask yourself this simple question: Did we grow n' progressed after the tribulation Yes or No? IF Yes, then the tribulation was NOT bigger than you. However, if you are still in the tribulation, then know that you will come out of it by the grace of God as new people. We run to God to help us going through the hardship we face during our tribulations because we cannot deal with this hardship when we are forced to deal with it. God helps us to deal with this hardship as per His promise because He wants us to grow. If you go through a tribulation and you get destroyed after it, then know it is NOT from God because God does not test us to destroy us, but rather to grow or restore us.