Its one of the few things I have to give. I find it more effective to honestly admit that I dont know and to look to learn more so that I can understand, than to dishonestly debate something that I do not fully understand. Dishonesty isnt a very good teacher I've found.
I respect that attitude. In speaking with someone like you, I could never imagine we'd be at loggerheads, or in one of those situations that's like 'your opinion is more valid than mine'. I certainly appreciate a person who takes the time to understand the other argument even if they don't agree with it, rather than refute it with the assertion 'youre wrong' and little else.
I admire you.
Keep searching and you'll find the answers that make sense to you.